Everyone has their own preferences so to say girls only go for skinny guys that isnât true What so ever Cuz I see beautiful girls all the time with guys that are out of shape over weight etc... Girls are more attracted to a guyâs personality and his status and his confidence she needs to feel safe and be able to look up to him and feel protected, so it doesnât always come down to looks , she might get turned on by a guyâs appearance but she probably already knows he is a stuck up Dick head that she wouldnât commit to him. But she would fuck him , Guys do the same thing to girls if we see a hot girl sometimes we think yea I would fuck her but to get in a serious relationship with her would be a slim chance cuz she probably has a lot of other options. So when people seek others for what they look like most the time those relationships donât work out cuz They are blinded by how the person really is , just because someone looks good doesnât mean they have a good heart. It happens all the time. I know a guy that only dated girls that were good looking , that dressed nice and took care of their bodies , to come to realize those girls all cheated on him , he finally settled down with a girl that was complete opposite of the girls he use to date and. Is happily married now. I know another guy that is fit and thin and he only goes for fat girls he says he likes bigger girls cuz they feel better in bed and they respect you better then a girl that knows she is hot , he said he rather be with someone that stays faithful to him because girls that know they are good looking donât stay faithfully, again these are words from his mouth lol
I would say this... let me give you the reality slap real quick so we don't waste our time beating around the bush; Why do we even ask such questions? Let's be honest with ourselves, we ask these questions because deep down we hope that we can point out that "hey why don't you like me the way I am" because of course that would be much more convenient than actually just putting the work and solving the problem and truly be done with it, never live like this, just face reality, deal with it and be done with your problems. Change what you can, accept what you can't.
@vero4567 I don't if you're legit, but first of all you obviously can change your breast size in the era that we live in and secondly as I said in the end of my previous comment: Change what you can, accept what you can't and don't stress about it because either you can or you can't and stressing about it isn't going help so either do something about it if you can or work on other aspects of your life if you can't.
I dont really want to change it though. Personally, I really love my small breasts cause during stimulation, they are so sensitive. However, guys have made me feel "I'm not enough". I guess I got to find a partner who accepts me for who I am
The same reason men rather have a skinny woman than a fat one: aesthetics and it's a preference.
As someone that exercises, I don't want a guy that's fat or too skinny! I would prefer either a fit, athletic guy, or an average guy that's somewhat in shape. Basically he needs to be able to keep up with me.
And no, I'm not trying to justify why people prefer skinny over fat people. You're talking to a girl that used to get looked over ALL the time because I was fat, so men do it as well! As much as I don't like it, or necessarily agree with it, it comes down to preference.
Womens like muscular boys, typically with a lean physique because that makes muscle look bigger. This is because on a subconscious level, having big visible muscles tells her you are well fed, and consistently fed. As well as strong. Which makes you a good protector/provider. Or at least that's how her cave girl brain perceives it. And what the cave girl brain finds attractive makes her vagina tingle.
On a more conscious level, having a trim muscular physique tells her you are disciplined, can control yourself and get shit done. It makes a good impression the same way having a clean home or car does.
The same reason why you guys go for skinny girls , skinny is attractive and means healthy life style and probably the man works hard, fat is not attractive and projects laziness and women often want to be with a hard working man so yeah... but we are not that shallow , for me as obssessed as I'm with skinny tall man , it didn't prevent me from falling in love with an obese man who is now my ex due to his shitty personality , personality can always make up for anything , but still if it's not a medical condition , you can get fit any time...
I like skinny guys cause I view them as more mysterious and self controlled and healthy and young due to having a good BMI - I think thatâs the only reason I like skinny guys - visually and sexually a muscular guy is more evocative but they look ugly faster due while thin guys are still good looking after 20 or 60 years
I prefer a cute plus size boy. I like him to be a little chubby. If they're not it is also fine, my preferences aren't set in stone. I can learn to love most bodies.
I've always thought skinny boys are better hung, its not any surprise, anything not all rolled up in fat can hang out. If she's not after the dick then she maybe just doesn't like fat. Guess Im guessing but i lost some fat about age 14 , not a lot but enough to accentuate my better things, or was that puberty?
I personally am big in fitness, I go to the gym 5x a week so Iâd like to have a partner I can go to the gym with and thatâs just who Iâm attracted to, I mean I donât like super skinny guys but also not super fat.
Some women don't find fat guys are attractive. Some women don't find some skinny guys attractive. Personally, i dont care if he's skinny or fat as long as he isn't super skinny or super fat. But I do prefer a guy who's a little chubby since I'm a little chubby myself. I want a guy with a body mass similar to my own.
It is kinda true but they have to be attracted to who you are and your body because maybe some of the men will be cheating on you with sexy girls because you aren't sexy.
@Tedee18 not really. If you do not like the person, break up and find someone else. Why they will remain and cheat and make a mess. The answer is simple. They just want the benefit and not the cons. That why. If you do not like the body of the person then why they say yes? The answer is simple. They do not know what is commitment and responsibility.
Personally I prefer skinny guy because I'm pretty small myself. Although a lot of girls nowadays seem to like 'swole' guys which are really just muscular men with a decent amount of body fat, while guys that are skinny are different from ripped, being ripped means you have 4% body fat or less. Skinny guys could have more fat than that but no real define muscles. But again personally, I'm not a fan of muscles so skinner guys are just easily for me to date
@aieeazumui I've dated shorter guys I don't really care as long as he's not significantly shorter than me it's not a big deal but I feel like guys like that would have more fun dating girls 5'1- 5'5
@aieeazumui I know a lot of men ( not all men of course) like to feel taller than their partners so they feel tough and masculine. Like my boyfriend is 5'11 1/2 and he loves that I'm shorter than him so he feels like a manly man
Does this question really even have to be asked. Why does anybody like skinny over fat because fat looks unnatractive and unhealthy. Im sure there's some chubby chasers but by far both men and women prefer skinny over fat.
Yeah but everyone has their preferences and love can always override anything physical. Iâve been attracted to guys I normally wouldnât find physically attractive because I was emotionally attracted to them
Absolutely. You can be fit, have some definition, or athletic. But don't be a nothing excessive like bulky and out of proportion. I not skinny or fat. Just be normal and that's more attractive.
I personally donât care as long as your healthy. You can be fat and be healthy, skinny guys make me feel self conscious but bigger boys are nicer have better love.
You can not be fat and healthy. You can't even get fat if you're healthy, as a healthy body/brain self regulates caloric intake to maintenance. The regular overeating required to get fat inherently means something has to be wrong with you.
I do not agrea, this is not true. You have 3 commom genetics with humans. You have the actual normal people who lose fat easy but gain fat easy aswell. You have the people who almost lose no fat but gaining fat is easy. And you have those people who find it hard to gain weight but easy to lose fat and can almost eat as much as they want to and still be skinny. The fact that you say everyone chooses to be overweight is just ignorance from your part, not everyone has good genes like you and some people have to work out 5 times as hard and never eat something unhealthy and constantly check that they eat enaugh but not too much, just to be skinny. And for some people this is not worth it.
Because women genetally have loq self esteem. And it's really not about what they think, it's about what everybody else thinks. And so they need a trophy that tells her she's good enough.
Uh... great. Congratulations on your degree. You're still doing here what I described, which is picking and choosing what you want in order to attempt to make a point.
Talking for myself. I prefer my man strong and healthy. Not skinny because thats just too werid. I have quite the body myself. so I prefer an equally healthy and for man.
He had to think of an adjective with more negative connotations for his question to work. Asking "why do women like hot muscular men" just wouldn't work.
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