I think you have the wrong definition of what a nice guy is a nice guy isn’t rude or mean. If someone is acting nice and they secretly have ulterior motives then yeah but a genuine good guy isn’t gonna be rude or mean and secondly he is gonna be friendly and polite to everyone not just women. So I admit I suffer from low self esteem but it makes me feel better if I make someone else’s day better or if I did another kind act. The feeling of wholeness that you helped someone in your heart is awesome.
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Getting treated like shit by every female and then finally being sick of it makes anyone seem angry. But the stupid idea that nice guys think you owe them is just a bullshit shaming tactic. The nice guys who become assholes are not mad because you won’t fuck them, they are simply tired of you expecting them to keep bowing to you and tolerating your childish bullshit and games. They don’t owe you shit any more than you feel you owe them anything.
Nice guys are actually not nice. They are assholes and deserve to be treated like shit. By the way it is your fault if try to impress a bitch and whine and generalize women
@hi_it_is_me123 yes. In you definition, it’s a loser who bows to vagina to try on win pussy points in the hopes it will get a girl to like him. Generally he gets used by females because he is a simp and then he becomes angry and bitter at females in general because of their treatment of him.
Maybe something went over my head but how would ya know he is nice if he is been rude and mean? Also some people may just come off rude about something or have strong opinions and be really nice if you get to know them.
I personally don't have any problem with being kind but sometimes I see a person just depending on me because I help them then when I need their help, they don't so then I get cut the connection. I wouldn't be rude to them, just will stop creating time for them. What did nice guys did to you?
That's pretty much it right there... they just can't wrap their head around the fact that girls don't like nice... When they see a girl with an asshole they dont think hmmm im getting zero pussy and. That guys got tons... maybe I'll try to be more like that guy... instead they are sure the girls are mistaken and are looking for pathetic clingy guys so they double down
Nice guys are mean and rude because that's what girls feel the need to convince themselves to feel less guilty about rejecting them and hurting their feelings. For the record, it's absolutely ok to reject people for any reason, and it's also ok to express when your feelings are hurt by painful experiences like rejection! Let's all get along, folks :D
A think it's just honesty to try and help the situation no matter what it might be about without holding back but it's just to try and help overall and give you a clear understanding on where they stand
It could be multiple reasons why they are rude. If you're an all around Jack ass I will be rude as fuck to him. But if he's fed up with you then that could be a reason
Cause they know that if you won't put out they can just go find it somewhere else... Where the "ugly" guys know that this could be their one and only shot... So they want to make sure they don't do anything to lose you.
Im one of them just looking for a girlfriend that will accept me for who i am and possibly fall in love with and would spoil her by giving foot massages and back rubs, cuddling, just hangout and tlk and just be ourself
Huh. I've asked the same thing before and so have many guys. Doing so, we quickly learn a lot. If we dare to question this status quo, we must be: -A loser -Lonely -Confused -Bitter -Forever alone. -Somebody society begs not to multiply.
@yucel_eden Exactly. It's like assholes are assholes not necessarily to get girls, but they do, then they happily beat them for fun and for sure are the better, more honest men than nice guys. Yay logic! :D
Well if someone’s a genuinely nice guy he isn’t. But girls tend to be able to tell when a guy is just genuinely being nice verses thinking he’s entitled to sex.
Alright, I answer this one because I like long hair... This question is meant to be rhetorical. It's a question that also has sarcasm. Of course, real nice /kind guys are not mean/rude. However, there are men that will be nice until they don't hear or dont get a result they were expecting, and suddenly that woman turns into a person who leads them on. He turns himself into the victim and justifies any malice because he was wronged.
In general, people who are genuinely kind /nice even when wronged will know that everyone has the right to be mad, but that doesn't justify wrong behavior.
Those kinds of guys that are nice until they don't get a result obviously have an expectation and have probably been spoon-fed their whole lives. I'd say they are way overthinking it if they think the chick lead them on like that and didn't meet their expectation. Sounds like he has narcissistic traits so just be weary of that behaviour, especially if he's trying to turn himself into the victim and justify malice because in his mind he was "wronged". I'd cease communication with this person and ignore them.
Yep, I do find them annoying they are so desperate that they even compromise their own self respect just be in a relationship with a girl and that girl doesn't give a f*#$ about them.
Yep, those guys are annoying, they need to focus better on their careers. Because if they, won't they'd not only eventually become depressed but also homeless.
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I think you have the wrong definition of what a nice guy is a nice guy isn’t rude or mean. If someone is acting nice and they secretly have ulterior motives then yeah but a genuine good guy isn’t gonna be rude or mean and secondly he is gonna be friendly and polite to everyone not just women. So I admit I suffer from low self esteem but it makes me feel better if I make someone else’s day better or if I did another kind act. The feeling of wholeness that you helped someone in your heart is awesome.
Getting treated like shit by every female and then finally being sick of it makes anyone seem angry.
But the stupid idea that nice guys think you owe them is just a bullshit shaming tactic.
The nice guys who become assholes are not mad because you won’t fuck them, they are simply tired of you expecting them to keep bowing to you and tolerating your childish bullshit and games. They don’t owe you shit any more than you feel you owe them anything.
Aww who hurt you
Nice guys are actually not nice. They are assholes and deserve to be treated like shit. By the way it is your fault if try to impress a bitch and whine and generalize women
@hi_it_is_me123 Aww childish shaming tactics... get a better reaponse.
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No i am not. Do you even know what nice guys actually mean?
@hi_it_is_me123 yes. In you definition, it’s a loser who bows to vagina to try on win pussy points in the hopes it will get a girl to like him.
Generally he gets used by females because he is a simp and then he becomes angry and bitter at females in general because of their treatment of him.
No, a guy who pretends to be a nice guy and if he does not get the response he wants from a girl he shows its real face and
By the way assholes exist in both genders
So generalizing is not that a good idea
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Maybe something went over my head but how would ya know he is nice if he is been rude and mean? Also some people may just come off rude about something or have strong opinions and be really nice if you get to know them.
I personally don't have any problem with being kind but sometimes I see a person just depending on me because I help them then when I need their help, they don't so then I get cut the connection. I wouldn't be rude to them, just will stop creating time for them. What did nice guys did to you?
That's pretty much it right there... they just can't wrap their head around the fact that girls don't like nice... When they see a girl with an asshole they dont think hmmm im getting zero pussy and. That guys got tons... maybe I'll try to be more like that guy... instead they are sure the girls are mistaken and are looking for pathetic clingy guys so they double down
Nice guys are mean and rude because that's what girls feel the need to convince themselves to feel less guilty about rejecting them and hurting their feelings. For the record, it's absolutely ok to reject people for any reason, and it's also ok to express when your feelings are hurt by painful experiences like rejection! Let's all get along, folks :D
A think it's just honesty to try and help the situation no matter what it might be about without holding back but it's just to try and help overall and give you a clear understanding on where they stand
It could be multiple reasons why they are rude. If you're an all around Jack ass I will be rude as fuck to him. But if he's fed up with you then that could be a reason
Cause they know that if you won't put out they can just go find it somewhere else... Where the "ugly" guys know that this could be their one and only shot... So they want to make sure they don't do anything to lose you.
Im one of them just looking for a girlfriend that will accept me for who i am and possibly fall in love with and would spoil her by giving foot massages and back rubs, cuddling, just hangout and tlk and just be ourself
That's the way they were out the assholes/bitches...
Yes because they're...'not nice'
'nice guys finish last' is the saying. The meaning is that they say they're nice, but they're not
Interesting. Everyone assumes the nice guys really aren't or have some motive. Sooo... it appears the women really want an asshole who abuses them.
Based on the answers from the women, they really dont give decent guys a chance.
Oh no no NO. It's very logical really. It's like... ya know how up is really down? Yah. "up" is not actually up. But down. :)
How can someone be mean and rude, but also nice? You're confusing me😂😂
Huh. I've asked the same thing before and so have many guys.
Doing so, we quickly learn a lot.
If we dare to question this status quo, we must be:
-A loser
-Lonely
-Confused
-Bitter
-Forever alone.
-Somebody society begs not to multiply.
Ah such a smart, logical society we live in :)
She’s not explaining her self properly.
Nice guys are nice and they think that them being nice entitles them to a women.
So when they are rejected they get angry for various reasons. Hence becoming rude.
They are children basically
@yucel_eden Exactly. It's like assholes are assholes not necessarily to get girls, but they do, then they happily beat them for fun and for sure are the better, more honest men than nice guys. Yay logic! :D
Well if someone’s a genuinely nice guy he isn’t. But girls tend to be able to tell when a guy is just genuinely being nice verses thinking he’s entitled to sex.
I don't quite understand your question.. How can a nice guy be mean/rude if he's nice? Can you elaborate on it for me?
Alright, I answer this one because I like long hair... This question is meant to be rhetorical. It's a question that also has sarcasm. Of course, real nice /kind guys are not mean/rude. However, there are men that will be nice until they don't hear or dont get a result they were expecting, and suddenly that woman turns into a person who leads them on. He turns himself into the victim and justifies any malice because he was wronged.
In general, people who are genuinely kind /nice even when wronged will know that everyone has the right to be mad, but that doesn't justify wrong behavior.
Oh the irony, simp.
I still don't understand wtf a simp is... but I don't think anyone is "simping" here Whatever im to old
Those kinds of guys that are nice until they don't get a result obviously have an expectation and have probably been spoon-fed their whole lives. I'd say they are way overthinking it if they think the chick lead them on like that and didn't meet their expectation. Sounds like he has narcissistic traits so just be weary of that behaviour, especially if he's trying to turn himself into the victim and justify malice because in his mind he was "wronged". I'd cease communication with this person and ignore them.
I don't know what a simp is either. New generation, kid slang for something.
Are you talking about SIMPs?
Yep, I do find them annoying they are so desperate that they even compromise their own self respect just be in a relationship with a girl and that girl doesn't give a f*#$ about them.
Yep, those guys are annoying, they need to focus better on their careers. Because if they, won't they'd not only eventually become depressed but also homeless.
Because they're not really nice guys lmao. Don't be a nice guy, be a good man.
If they're so mean/rude, then they are not nice.
but they insist on calling them nice because they refuse to believe actual nice guys are ever taken for granted
I said the same thing before. But apparently, I'm now, magically, a lonely, bitter, incel because of it. OOPS. :)