Why does women have such a deep hatred for quiet guys?

[Anonymous]

If you're a teen girls ate mean to you, bully you (name calling, pushing you around) even though you never bother them, they only treat you bad because you're a quiet guy and even knowing you're not allowed to do anything to stand up for yourself because they are girls and you're a guy no girl would stand up for you they'd rather laugh

If you're an adult even women would make fun of you, loose respect for you, see you as weak, not worth knowing, as a turn off, be a jerk to you even though you did nothing to them, tease you for it and its only because they see you as a looser because you're a quiet guy
Even worse if you have insecurity issues they see you as worthless and not a real man

But why?

[errorgoodnameunfound]

If the types of women you mention are in fact toxic, it's likely because you being quiet gives no insight to what sort of possible weaknesses you have and they may only be able to do o much only by the outside. I advise that if a response is necessary to be stoic and straightforward, even show you know how to speak their lingo and play along if needed. It takes a lot of effort, patience, and observation, but you too, can learn to see the weaknesses of each of them and use it to an advantage if needed. EVERYONE has a weakness because we are all human beings hard to make but super easy to hurt or kill.

[On_the_other_hand]

Good chance they like you. I've had girls get mad because I wasn't interested and I've had ones be bitches because I didn't initiate, cause I was never gonna.

You should ask them "Why are you being mean to me?" Then come back to GAG with her answer.

This has nothing to do with who you are, there is some other dynamic at play.

[CreativeMumble]

Sounds like toxic people.

It's not a gender thing, you've just met real jerks, sadly they do exist.

[Anonymous]

If it is happening to you, ask them why they are like that to you.

[WindAtMyBack]

If any of this is happening, it's not because you are quiet.
By blaming it on the wrong thing, you are not figuring out what is the real cause.

Women do NOT normally treat guys this way. They just don't. If this is really happening, then there is something else going on, something more than just being quiet.

[AlwaysBelieving]

I'm thinking it's because they don't understand the quiet guy. I was quiet through high school and college and haven't had the experiences you listed. This was probably because I didn't allow it. I was more the observer (being an introvert tends to do that).

To bring a guy down, women do as you've listed to get a reaction from him.

[Don-_-Don]

They're teens, you shouldn't expect them to be all that reasonable, generally speaking.
People don't need a reason to be assholes, or some people will just find one, being too quiet can be one of those things.

[Tedee18]

He talks about it happening in adulthood also, though.

[Don-_-Don]

@Tedee18
In that case my point still etand for adults.
A lot of adults still act the same way teens do.
A lot of adults ain't shit in my opinion.

[Anonymous]

you might be unpredictable and dangerous to them. If they have no data bank of interactions or dialogue with you they have no idea what you might do or say. If you communicate more and they see that then you are no longer an unknown. Also there is a perception that a lot of psychopaths are quiet guys.

[Quackthulu]

You do realize there is a big ass difference between indifference and hatred, right?

[Texaskid1]

Most women don't behave this way. If anything the quiet guy can come off as enigmatic - which can work to your advantage if well played.

[winterfox10]

Quiet guys don't communicate as much. I think that makes a lot of women uncomfortable

[_SOARER]

Speak up boy!
Women like a man who isn't timid
It's good to speak.

[Browneye57]

Quit being a weak-suck beta cuck. Social skills are LEARNED, so get busy. And quit your whining.

[Anonymous]

Women nature can be more cruel than Men nature

[Cryptic-Game]

They like bold and confident men.