How do I just be nice without them reading into it?
I'd say drawing the line from the beginning. Make sure they know you are not looking for sth other than friendship. Dont engage in date-like activities. Treat them a bit more like you would a male friend. For more obvious signs call them dude or buddy or just friend. Maybe in the beginning dont do stuff just as the two of you but with a group of friends.
It could just be that you have a very flirtatious way of talking to women without even realizing. Which can just lead to misunderstanding. I dont know you so I can't speak on that. But it could be a possibility
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There's no intent other than being polite and friendly
@maxdoesss Did she think you were flirting with her or something like that?, Just tell her you don't like her simple as that.. you make it complicate.. more complicated than it has to be.. 😒
How would I know? Why would I tell someone I'm speaking to normally that I don't like her?
Of course some girl downvotes me because she prefers wishy washy bs for her own ends.
I think I'll just mention I have a girlfriend
Yeah, dishonesty is always a good thing...
Saves me the trouble of having to deal with an unwarranted passive aggressive attitude
I agree, solid advice for everyone.
@addicted2u Exactly!, He probably let her on something to make her think that he liked her. Then he probably turned around and said he didn't like her after he got what he wanted. 🙄 In typical guy fashion.
Nope. Just being polite and friendly
@maxdoesss There is probably more to the story than you're telling us... 🙄
@PetrovaFire92 Plenty of women do this too. Don't put it all on guys
@Silver158 girls don't use guys for sex and then say let's be friends... If a girl doesn't like you they'll tell you. With honesty straightforward. whereas a guy would just play with the girl's feelings and say let's be friends after she gets used for sex or to make another girl jealous or something.. then he regard her like trash.
@PetrovaFire92 yes. And let me be clear, the OP says these girls are “hating” him and that it’s happened multiple times. Maybe OP is exaggerating about their reaction? Maybe OP is clueless about his affect on women and doesn’t realize he’s leading girls on? I doubt multiple girls would overreact and “hate” someone who simply turned them down.
Well about 10 girls hate me already
@PetrovaFire92 yes they do... Do you even live in the real world?