I don't understand why you would assume that. If I assumed a good friend liked me, and I was interested, I would be totally returning his calls or texts, because I would feel like I had stepped up!
I think you're assuming it all wrongly. In fact, I think it's the other way around.
Maybe she thinks you're interested in her, misinterpreting your invitation. Maybe she thinks you want to take things kind of "serious" or "public" or something, and she's pulling away, trying to set some boundary, hoping things will go back to the way things were. Don't believe that these are "mind games" trying to get you into some flirtatious game. I bet they aren't.
Speak to her. You might be seeing this all wrongly. Also, don't be like "are you interested in me? because you're just a friend", because if this isn't the case, you will be the biggest selfish jerk. If she is interested in you, I think that if you tell her "i see you as a friend and nothing more" will push her away even more. Be wise with words. A girl never forgets.
You should just come out and ask her why she isn't returning them. If it's not something like " my phone is broken, " or any other decent excuse, then she might like you. You should just ask her lightly if she is interested in you in that way, if she says yes, just straight out tell her that you only see her as a friend. Don't be too harsh though. Try smiling or showing sympathy and that should make her feel a little better.. If she doesn't like you, then just say " someone told me you did " or just find a way to brush it off. If they ask who, say you don't know their name.
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tell her not to be so assuming lol jk.. tell her casually when you're having conversation with her that she's like a good sister to you bla bla and you can also mention to her your crushes... in that way she'll take it as a clue that you're not interested on her.
In all honesty, I don't see why you're assuming she likes you because she isn't returning your calls or texts. It seems to me that she just is trying to get out of going out with your and your friends. If she was gonna play hard to get, surely she would've been doing that for a long time already?
I'm gonna be like the guys here now... She's friend zoned...!
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