Can girls have guy friends? And Is it weird for a girl to have lots of guy friends?

[Sweetener_]

I'm a girl and I've always had guy friends more than girl friends, and I don't mind at all 😂

[lilsezza101]

I bave a small group of female friends which i get bored of because the conversation is either bitchy aboyt me being the only single. Or about marriage and kids which i have zero interest in.

I would like more guy friends because conversations vary and also someone to kick my ass at the gym haha.

Problem i have is that guys i meet (usually through work) want to be my friend then get weird on me when they have a girlfriend. Like they want to keep our platonic friendship a secret. This is shady af and i won't entertain it. It makes it look there is something going on when there isn't. Or they stop talking to me when they have a lass but come back round when they have problems in their relationship.

BOY BYEEE

Or they end up liking you or you like them and the friendship is ruined. Would love to have platonic male friendships but boys i know are inconsistent af.

[jennifer_bloom]

I don’t think it’s healthy for a girl to have lots of guy friends unless she met them at church or work or she has a trait that makes her incompatible with her male friends such as being one foot taller than everybody else or being very unattractive or bringing her boyfriend / husband with her on all the social outings. I used to go to a church with 4 single guys and two avoided me cause they did not want me romantically and two harassed me because I refused to date them. None of them were willing to treat me like a normal person - I was either a girl they wanted to date and tried to force a relationship with or a girl they thought was too ugly to date and avoided to maintain their expression of disinterest - To them I was either a desired sex object or a repulsive sexual object - but never a friend or a sister or an equal.

[NamerOfStars]

They certainly can. Feelings can and do develop, but you choose whether or not to act on them. I remain baffled by the constant assumption that if your brain says "Ooh, s/he's cute", you are forced by some kind of divine intervention to date. Apparently I'm the only person in the word who can say to himself "Yeah, but it wouldn't work out", and move on.

[EyebrowChewie]

No its good, if you get on more with the opposite sex it can help. Just know you'll meet some guys who are total losers who will have insecurity and self-esteem problems. Trusting a girl is obviously harder if she 'flirts' with all her guy friends, but i doubt a decent girl would have her reputation damaged unless she's got a player attitude.

[EyebrowChewie]

ty ^^

[btbc92]

Nobody can tell you to not have guy friends. Just not guys who aren't being a friend but is lusting after you or not respecting you and or relationship if you get into.
It is not weird for you to have lots of guy friends. What's weird is lacking balance between female and male friends which can give people the wrong perception. Other than that, if you have great friends who aren't trying to get into your pants, then it's strictly platonic, and its personal nobodies business.

[TheLawAroundHere]

No, not at all. Having more guy friends than girl friends shows serious intelligence. Lol!!! A lot of girls are kind of...("C"-word)-y.

Just be careful. Its a safe bet that, at some point, an easy 75% of these guys are gonna start seeing you as a woman. Not just a friend. Half of those 75% will say something to you about it. As i , they will hit on you or suggest that you start dating.

[winterfox10]

I'm going to give you the same answer I always give to people who ask this question. I'm sure that it's out there, but I have never seen it in my own life. I have never once met a woman with lots of guy friends who was genuinely just friends with those guys. Every single time, those dudes were tryna fuck. Whether or not they actually could? That's a different story. But the point is that they weren't just friends.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I’m a girl who mainly hangs out with guys and they treat me like a little sister or jokingly as another bro. I know so many people who think it’s weird or somewhere along the line things will get weird but I always grew up around guys so for me it’s completely normal

[psychoticanimaIIover]

There’s nothing wrong with being friends with people of the opposite gender, obviously, but there does seem to be a pattern with girls who only have guy friends. They tend to be narcissistic, jealous and self-involved, crave male attention and find themselves unable to get along with other females because it means they have to share the limelight some of the time.

[misanthropistkev]

Yes girls can have guy friends and not it’s not weird to have many friends just shouldn’t cross that line with each other and I think a lot of people get confused because they know you care about them and they mistake it as you having feelings for them which you do just not romantic feelings don’t get me wrong I love my female friends but not like that and I hate when they catch feelings because things are never the same

[J_12_L]

It varies with everyone. Like my girl friends are just my friends and nothing else. No feelings or anything like that bc they’re just my friends.

[Hannah_le]

I have quite a lot of male friends and it doesn’t matter of the sex or anything as long as they are chill and you guys get along.

[MarkyMark77]

@Hannah_le do you think u have more male or female friends?

[Hannah_le]

Mm yeah a bit I do

[Hannah_le]

Have more male friends

[chicchic]

I used to have a lot of guy friends. In the end, a lot of them have not remained as close to me, because of them moving on seriously with the girlfriends and wives. I regret it now to be honest and wish I'd focused on my female friendships more so.

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

I have guy friends. Lots of guy friends. No I haven't engaged in any sexual activity with them it’s strictly platonic.

[SjE78]

nothing weird about it i have a lot of female friends and my past girlfriend's had a lot of male friends, nothing wrong with it and anyone who has a problem with any girl/woman having male friends need to stop being so damned selfish

[mizakazim6996]

Yes, girls can have guy friend but most of those guys aren’t interested in platonic friendship. And yes it is weird for a girl to have more guy friends. Most guys will not be interested in a girl if she has lots of guy friends.

[hannah7]

If you're nice to people and kind of outgoing, you'll have friends of both genders. Most of the guys probably do want to hit it but it usually only interferes with the friendship if that actually happens, lol.

[kkirk4442]

There is nothing weird about having friends of the opposite sex.

[loveslongnails]

I don't think so. The only time I like to spend with guys is playing sports or the occasional drinking time. Otherwise, I prefer the company of women.

[Orangeandturquoise]

Why weird? Be friends with whoever treats you like a friend and don't care about what gender or sex they are :)

[AndyOh]

I think it is okay, as long as my girlfriend with all the guy friends is not screwing them.
And, is she going to be okay with all my girl-friends? I have a lot of them.

[Raveagit]

Yeah... that one slutty "i'm not like other girls" show

No man worth the name accepts his partner having a bunch of orbiting betas

[AlexanderAnttila]

I think it's always healthy to have friends of the same gender but it isn't a must.

[CoolKatie]

I have more guys friend than women find since I have a learning disables there are more guys with a learning disables.

[Gravit1]

Depends on the mindset of the individuals. If their relationship is spiritual it is just fine.

[jasco]

Its fine if there here before and not find after. Plus most guys usually just wanna get a chance to fuck her so eh I don't know. I would be cautious but i trust you enough not to do anything behind my back

[Purple_Rose]

I see a lot of guys saying it would be an issue. Would it still be an issue if all of her guy friends were gay?

[Schizoaffective]

I wish but most my guy friends end up crushing on me.
it can happen tho

[xxAlanaxx]

I see nothing weird about being friends with the opposite gender.

[dpy87]

Not without one developing feelings. Nothing wrong but don't be surprised if they're all trying to hit on you. They're probably all waiting in line.

[iseekpinetrees]

Yes but most of those guy friends would fuck u at the drop of a hat.

[Anonymous]

No, There’s nothing weird about it you can have wonderful relationships with men without sleeping with him

[slatyb]

Yes, of course, and no, it's not particularly weird. I like women who like men.

[guywho]

This means two things, you were raised by your dad only or you have daddy issues.

[Anonymous]

it is common nowadays, but a girl shouldn't be naive. many guys will take advantage of her this way. not all but many

[R3DthatDude]

It’s completely fine. I get it, you girls are like cat and dogs with each other sometimes. You guys competitiveness is crazy lol

[R3DthatDude]

By the way. Who’s that girl?

[Shihab-91]

for me no and I never did I just need 1 girl in my life and that's it.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/RLqK0DTevxA

[JosyJosy]

Yes we both are living proof so

[Sweetener_]

Lol 😂

[AmeerX]

I used to feel weird but now I am starting to get it a bit. It is about love and affection for more than kne person

[Anonymous]

It's okay, but your future boyfriends might feel jealousy about it?

[Anonymous]

A girl with a ton of guy friends is usually a red flag. In my experience it's been women with tons of guy friends that tend to cheat more often.

[Vasiliki75]

A little unless they live the alternative lifestyle.

[Tomtom9090]

Yes she can and yes it is. What commonalities and interests would a female share with men?

[In_Trance]

Nope

[Gwenhwyfar]

Totally not weird at all

[bclbn77006]

no, it is weird.
because all guys like to make beautiful girl as their friend.

[bannacookies]

Yes they can. No, it's not weird.

[AFellowWeeb]

Not my cup of tea dating a girl like that

[collie22]

its not weird, she likes guys

[maimai_]

as long as you aren't a pick-me

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Yes and no it’s not weird

[Anonymous]

Not weird.

[GAGSucksBalls1]

Nope

and yes

[Waldoe]

its Fine...

[EaterPeter]

Yes and yes.