How can I tell if a girl is trying to spare my feelings?

[Anonymous]

[jennifer_bloom]

If a girl tries to spare your feelings - she will look serious when she is rejecting you and will not make eye contact when she does it - and might praise you with an appealing comment about your personality or appearance after she turns you down and she will hide her other romantic interests from you or look depressed if you try more than a singular instant to date her. She will also use conclusive and summarizing language when she discusses her disinterest by marking the perimeters of her life or yours or your personality in a wholesome and inclusive sketch - those are signs she is being fake to spare your feelings - a simple act of non participation in your life is not sparing your feelings.

[Jaumet]

How can you tell if a girl actually cares about or just wants to get you out of her face... Think about it... what would do to either ease someone down of whatever reason they expected something from you without coming off as an asshole? Now, what would you say to a person that you just want to quickly and drama free get out off your face?

Trying to ease someone off gently takes time and tact. However, to simply get someone out off you face... all you have to is tell them what they want to hear. Then go on about your life without caring or doing whatever you said to annoying person... hopefully never to see them again. Now, what category are you in?

[Asker]

I have no idea