Why do girls get mad with you if you don’t make a move? it’s like they are upset and angry that you haven’t done anything yet?

[Anonymous]

[btbc92]

Women get upset at the fact that you know exactly what you say you want or thinking that you want and you don't even bother to at least tell us exactly what you want. I cannot speak for other women but I think it's very clear depending on what type of person you're dealing with and what your tent is what it is romantic or sexual, you may be dealing with an individual who can't handle the simple fact and reality that they are the ones that need to make up their minds what is that they want so that the other individual is very aware of what kind of situation each of you are looking for.

I would not go as far as to say men are clueless because again, everybody is not the same in every situation is not entirely the same. But what I will say what makes a lot of your men clothes at the simple fact that the things that they're just directly right in front of you and that person tries to tell you that you don't want to at least listen. Especially with a lot of men acting very biased towards women because they stated women are not going to help them so-called get laid when that shouldn't even be your focus in the first place and neither should you be treating sex all women like that in the first place. But because a lot of men do that in the first place that's why a lot of human-animal problems and then you don't have any solid relationships not only with your own sponges who were the women that you say that you want to date or is dating. That's why women at that point. Not only losing interest in a particular guys. But she wants to move on to somebody else's not going to play games.

[Asker]

Right so basically girls are mad because they expect something to happen and when it doesn’t they are confused and may think you are playing them, so that’s why it’s important to be direct and tell them what you want from them/looking for etc?

[btbc92]

No. That is based on her 10th. For somebody that wants something to happen if usually are the sexual or romantic but it's usually tends to turn sexual eventually. Which again ends up being her fault because she's usually ask her something that she died do not ready for or she's expecting something at a certain level that a man supposedly should know when that is not always the case. Especially when we are not living in a time of chivalry any more men are sadly acting like horn-dogs as is women nowadays. So everything is hypersexualize people assume everything is always that. However, many women especially immature don't like to be direct and I definitely don't want to tell a man what she wants simply because she is specimen to do everything for her in a cent not because it is a man's job to pursue her but simply because she wants to be catered to and receive attention unless she just haven't been taught any better or she's extremely young and haven't matured yet to know how to communicate like an actual adult. Everybody at some point been through this and even though I knew better in some degree it was Drew trial and error cuz some guys as a lot of women are not very receptive of people that are intended there right. I won't even get into that conversation is a lot of pain with that. However to overall answer your question it is assumed that a man wants something as well as it is assumed from a man's perspective that a woman wants something which is why this causes so much problems in a relationship regardless of friendship familial Etc.

[btbc92]

However. It's overall best in your interest depending on what it is that you personally want to tell the person what it is that you want. If that woman feel that is not romantic you need to tell her directly that will unless she is not somebody that is looking for that kind of relationship if she knows that she wants to confirm you some used to evenly tell you exactly what she want to set up blaming you for something that she already wanted also. Not fair on the person that did not know.

You also got to remember with a lot of exposure to media and television is not people that give us mixed messages about how the opposite sex at least thanks letter loanpal friendships and family or whatever is supposed to run, we become not only the synthesized to this stuff but we begin to not be well aware of everything that goes on around us. If I would have known that being direct with a person especially to another man would save me a lot of Heartache I would have done so years ago. But due to me being abused and bullied by a lot of people, it is hard for me to express myself not because I'm not an expressive person but because people will take advantage of me. I don't be direct with men anymore because they don't want friendship they want sexual relationships. At least for the majority of men that tries to enter into my life.

[btbc92]

Based on her intent*
For somebody who want something like that happen it is usually sexual or romantic*
It's her fault she don't say anything in the direct because he's expecting something on a certain level than men are supposedly in her mine is supposed to react instead of just telling him exactly what she wants *

[OlderThanILook]

I don't know but I've had this happen, but not because the girl was interested in me. I just wasn't interested in getting played, and some girls can't handle the lack of attention.

[DrAdams]

You haven't said what you want - all potential relationships require communication.

[SamFromFL]

Because they are frustrated after months of crushing on you that you haven’t taken action.