Why do some guys just treat me like a side piece when I'm not that type of girl?

[Anonymous]

I love to workout, paint, I'm educated and I'm confused with this guy that treats me like some dumb girl with no life.

[FilmGuy93]

I don't want you to hear this as me saying you don't add anything to his life, because I'm not saying that at all. But I'm asking this literally; What do you, as a person, add to the lives of the men you're dating?

I think a lot of women presume their value and presume that men will just see it, but that's not always the case (or even usually). This is especially true when women do things like work on their careers and all that, thinking it makes them a more desirable mate, when the reality is that men just don't care about how much a woman earns.

[LZPanzer]

Congratulations, you chose a douchebag.

Do you keep attracting these types of guys?
Is he the first or just the latest?

[Asker]

He was my first person I was attracted to

[LZPanzer]

At least you were smart enough to realize something was off

[Asker]

Yeah didn't listen to anything I like doing

[ct1243]

A lot of men are stupid and don’t realize the worth and value of decent women until their gone

[humayun69]

I realise and acknowledge the worth and value of a decent woman but a lot of women nowadays seem to be straight out skanks and trash, that said, with a little I know about this girl I wouldn't treat her like a "side piece".

[ct1243]

A lot of men use women as side pieces and take advantage of them. I’ve been used by men - now I don’t trust any of them anymore

[humayun69]

first of all, it's really stupid to say all men do this and not trusting them at all anymore. Secondly, this wouldn't happen if women don't give signs that they are looking for that and in my college almost all girls give hints to boys around them, so it's not men's fault who went into a one night stand sex and now the woman gets feelings for the guy.

[ct1243]

I didn’t say all men I said a lot of men nowadays

[ct1243]

I’m not out here looking for anything it’s gonna find me the right guy

[humayun69]

not doing anything won't actually help you at all as nobody would be aware if you want something, but if that's your plan then alright.

[ct1243]

He will find me ! I don’t care how long it takes he has to find me this time

[humayun69]

ok, good luck I guess.

[anylolone]

Good fucking question.

Please elaborate more on the example.

[Asker]

Treats me like those skanks who have like 10 plus partners and not much to say other than makeup

[anylolone]

What does that entails?

[Leavesbound]

Then reject him and move on. And if he can't take a hint I would like to remind you that you have a pair of hard toe shoes and his balls are vulnerable.

[Ousaf1]

You give side piece energy or you go to the wrong type of guys

[Asker]

I dont feel I do because I'm a massive geek

[Ousaf1]

Do you have a nice body? It might also be that

[Asker]

Yes I have a fit body

[Ousaf1]

Fit or curvy looking body?

[Asker]

Fit body

[Ousaf1]

Try to date other types of guys and see what happens

[Asker]

Yes all I can do maybe those are players

[boggboss]

If u let him treat u like that he will think you are that type off girl

[Asker]

Oh really he seems to think he can get away with it

[Dchrls78104]

And why do you stay with such a guy? Why not instead seek a different person, or else learn to value your own company?

[Wise4myage]

Take a closer look at why you are letting this happen.

[jshm2]

Why are you clinging to such a guy though?

[jasco]

Mm well i suggest you just leave him be than

[Gwenhwyfar]

Ignore him

[In_Trance]

because that's how you present yourself to them

[Anonymous]

You allow it.
Glad i could help!

[Sam_The_Savage]

Bkoz you're..