I'm not a fuckgirl! Why do guys treat me like I am?

[rachel7895]

Why is it so hard to find a boyfriend! Noone but fuckboys like me, and I don't want that. I don't get it cause I'm not that type of girl. I Don't party, or go to the smoke pit, or post dumb shit all over social media. I'm smart and guys tell me I'm pretty all the time. I'm not bragging or anything, if anyone took it that way, I just mean I know I'm not ugly to a lot of guys. I want a relationship but every single guy just wants to smash and not just hang out. I feel like I'm cursed or something!

[Anonymous]

You're not cursed hun. But since you're not having any luck with guys right now AND you're young... just focus on school, family, friends, extracurricular activities etc. Guys can be really stressful. You don't need to deal with them right now. I should've taken my own advice years ago. Anyways, cut those fuckboys/"I just wanna smash" guys OFF. If he isn't giving u what u need, MOVE ON. Do not entertain them for a mili second or else you'll start liking them and things can get really ugly from there.

[JustRollTheDice]

Nah its just the guys in your age group they get better at controlling their 'smash and go' impulses with age

[CandaceG]

Been there, caught feelings for an f-boy. It is the WORST

[Arbalest]

The only guys left with any confidence in the world are fuckboys. And women gravitate to confidence, and attract confidence. In my opinion there's a small amount of men who are confident as well as being great guys. The rest of the great guys are not confident and lacking experience because of it.

[rachel7895]

Well that sucks

[JesseEllyson]

I would suggest that you are hanging out in the wrong crowd. Also, by your choice words and your grammar, I see that you are young, possibly in your teens. Guys your age are driven, largely, by their hormones. You might want to look at a slightly older group of guys.

[rachel7895]

thanks

[KyotoTheFox]

You are to young for this crap. Go back to doing your homework and stop thinking about relationships.

[edgyfox]

A lot of guys are like that but there is a few like myself that really doesn't have a huge interest in sex at all. Than I am also happily single too. But I do like to make new friends as I think you can learn a lot with new friends.

[luckyyirish]

Best advice, quit trying to get in a relationship. Can't force something like that. When it happens it happens, but until then don't worry about a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Ask the Sisterhood... men adapt to what's in demand overall...

[disgustingweebtrash]

That sort of stuff will happen with guys for you, just be careful with guys

[Anonymous]

Wait girl, be patient, at your age love never lasts and be it with a fuckboy or a good one, you will still end up breaking up. Be patient.

[MsMusic]

I've only ever been interested in guys 20+

[Anonymous]

you must look like them