Girls, my wife recently passed away, since then I wear her nighties; bras, etc. I feel closer to her when I do. Is there anything wrong with that?

[RSStevedmj]

We've been married 24 wonderful years and I miss her so much. I don't want to wear anything that's not hers and I don't want anyone else, she was and is my Soulmate.

Yes

No

[Siren777]

I am sorry for your loss.💔💕 I've encountered this once before with one of my employees. It was so sad to watch. She wore everything of her late husband. People would laugh and she would cry in the closet at work. I tried my best to help. She eventually left.
So all I got to say is that when you're ready , make peace with what you're feeling. One day you will have to let her go and her love will always remain with you. If this brings you peace do it in the comfort of your home. Holding on too tightly will only create more sadness. Hope you feel better soon.💕

[RSStevedmj]

Thank you Siren. All I have is my two boys (a dog & cat) and they give me comfort too. Have wonderful neighbor friends also. I visit her every Sunday & bring her flowers and I don't want to ever stop that. You said holding on too tight will create more sadness, in a way I understand that, and I know it'll take time, but in a way I feel safer being sad. I know, it sounds crazy, but that's what I'm going through now. Thanks again❤

[Siren777]

Take your time. As long as you need. If you find comfort in that then by all means. I just don't think it would be healthy to be sad for so long. I am sure she would want you to be happy. You have your babies and good neighbours. I hope it all feels better in time. So for now it's okay. You finding time to heal.

[RSStevedmj]

You are so kind Siren❤

[Siren777]

Thank you for saying that, I appreciate it💕