Men, do you like outspoken women better than reserved ones?

Question

adjective Outspoken  : frank  in stating one's opinions, especially if they are shocking or controversial. 
 "he has been outspoken in his criticism" 
 
 Similar: 
 forthright  
 direct  
 candid  
 frank  
 straightforward  
 honest  
 open  
 straight  
 straight from the shoulder  
 plain  
 plain-spoken  
 vociferous  
 vocal  
 explicit  
 point-blank  
 round  
 blunt  
 abrupt  
 bluff  
 brusque  
 unequivocal  
 free  
 unreserved  
 uninhibited  
 unceremonious

Tstrbrainer · Accepted Answer

Outspoken women seem to be good in many areas, including in bed. At least she'll say straight to the face that I suck in bed.
So I get opportunity to improve 😉.

I don't care if a person is outspoken or reserved as long as they have common sense and are happy to bend over for some spanking

the_bruh · Accepted Answer

Every women is sexy and beautiful in their own way.

Qdbrown · Answer

You can tell some many men are looking for their single mothers.

If you want an interesting date, and some bedroom fun, outspoken women. Just don't wife her up. That would be stupid.

If you're looking for a wife, find a caring, easy-going, non-combative woman who is capable of compromising. This is a major wife quality if you want to try to make it a lifetime with her.

You marry some loud outspoken women because she seems exciting and edgy sounds like a great wife, and they initially seem sexually exciting as well. They get old and hard to work with as the years march on. She won't seen like anything buy loud and annoying as she ages. You will find yourself with a man cave and finding hobbies that get you out of the house, half drunk most of the time and that guy I see that drives slow the commute back home.

Pick wisely.

MCheetah · Answer

No. I like reserved women more, although I'd still want someone who has a spine. "Outspoken" with women (and quite a few men) is usually a euphemism for "bitch" (or "asshole," if male). I ideally want a woman who can remain polite and calm at even the most heated moments and tell someone off and embarrass them with grace and style... Something I'm still working on myself. I'm tend to disrespect people I think aren't smart enough to warrant my respect. I could stand to be more polite, is what I'm saying. But yeah, I would rather have a reserved girl than an outspoken (bitchy) one.

hahahmm · Answer

I can go either way but if she's outspoken (and the same is true for men) she should have be able to explain her beliefs without getting angry. I'm not impressed when people just repeat what they heard on social media/tv like a robot but they have no clue on how to defend the belief.

Aethereal · Answer

I think your votes might be a bit different if you used a different word for "outspoken" e. g. Direct, straightforward, or honest. At a glance, "outspoken" looks like a word describing someone who is noisy, likes to argue, and might be uncompromising or speaks without thinking. I came to vote for reserved women before reading all your description (I was just scrolling recommended questions)

If you look at questions asking men whether they like mind games vs. honesty, you'll see a large support among men for directness and honesty over vagueness and mind games.

JackSmy · Answer

I CHOOSE her for WHO she is, and yes, sometimes, she can be very outspoken about things that she believes in, and in every case, I could totally support that, ad love her passion, to that cause!!
Politically, we are close, but some things that we don't completely agree on, but that is OK!! Some issues, as well, and sometimes we explore those "issues" and maybe one or the other, maybe both, change our opinions, when challenging those ideas!
I can only be with a Woman that is confident in her self, and her beliefs, and won't change, just because I think she should; like I won't change, because she thinks I should!

ohshee · Answer

I love women who are confident who are smart or intelligent who aren't afraid to say what they have to say because of something they believe in and they're willing to take on the world for it but there's a way to use your words and your tone a girl that knows how to do this is the girl for me not somebody who's just loudmouth bold and makes herself have to be heard because usually those are the girls that are wrong do what they're even believe in they just do it to be heard to hear themselves talk those are the ones I don't like

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I like women who are confident of themselves but who also recognize that reasonable people can have differences of opinion and it doesn't mean that one is right and the other is wrong.

Omario2049 · Answer

This is a tricky one because women often get the balance thing off, they're either completely stuck in their heads or an obnoxious blabber mouth shoving her opinions down other's throats. However reserved will always get preference because they will come off as less of a flirt or slut. Unfortunately. While outspoken are almost always better in bed because they actual talk during sex. So situational awareness is ideal, if outspoken women would know when to just shut the fuck up, they'd run the world. But it's easier to teach a woman to come out of her shell and speak when it's important and necessary than to get the outspoken one just to shut up even once per year.

ShortCircuit · Answer

I wouldn't mind if she was outspoken about certain things if we happened to have similar views. However, I'm definitely going to be turned off if she is outspoken *and* we have opposite views. And, in general, I prefer women who have a more reserved temperament most of the time.

yoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyo · Answer

I like outspoken women,

however,

there is a few women who are rude and just belligerent assholes, and those women shouldn't share their opinions EVER. lol.

But that's the same with men, I don't think men that are belligerent assholes should share their opinions.

It has become a cultural thing to have strong opinions and bias, and for people to just talk out their ass, and that should never be okay

Gespenster_division · Answer

Doesn't matter really.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Outspoken, kind, and sharing of the same opinions.

just being outspoken doesn't make a person more or less desirable, it just makes it easier to understand what they think.

What makes them more or less desirable is compatibility, ie what they say when outspoken.

Kaamraj · Answer

Men don't want partners who are total recluses and cannot communicate, neither do they want someone who lectures them constantly on things, especially social justice (SJ) issues.

Rennitenn · Answer

I dont mind as long as they are loud or obnoxious about it. If they are I probably don't have the patience these days. Social justice is the problem. It's not real. If it was real people would not only give people the benefits of the social justice if they go along with their political demands. They must go along with their political demands. it makes social justice a fraud. And those are really the only ones that are the kind of people you're going to have trouble in a relationship with

BigBadWithNames · Answer

Outspoken. It's hard enough to figure out what the hell women want. A reserved woman would drive me to drink.

exitseven · Answer

I like people that speak their minds. I do not like it when people belittle others who do not agree with them.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yeah outspoken every time. I prefer it out in the open.

Aether1 · Answer

I like outspoken women better, it would make things a lot easier if I know her true feelings. I'm very brash and I can share my feelings and thoughts pretty easily.

crmoore · Answer

I mean, I like more delicate women. They don't tend to be particularly outspoken. That being said, I'd still want her to feel like she can tell me anything.

Akuroi · Answer

Depends. Sometimes, a little reservation would be appreciated. Sometimes, it would be better to be outspoken. It goes the same with men as well. Too much reservation is a sign that they don't trust their partner to listen. Too outspoken and they'll drown out the other. It's a tentative balance.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Outspoken of course. A woman who feels like she's walking on glass, is upsetting.

SimpDotOrg · Answer

Yes, so annoying to have to reel opinions or other information outta someone. Talk to me!

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I love outspoken women. As long as I find one who likes outspoken guys, things work quite well.

throwsomecheeseonit · Answer

Depends just like a guy friend if you are outspoken and speaking gibberish with no information to back it up no but if you are outspoken and making sense and actually knowledgeable about what you are talking about yes.

TremorJay · Answer

I think balance is best, but I would lean towards someone a little less outspoken, and a little more reserved.

JayFromEngland · Answer

I definitely prefer people who are honest, open and genuine. Outspoken is good as long as they aren't being spiteful or intentionally disrespectful.

Still-alive · Answer

I do like outspoken women. it's encouraged in my family and i respect it always

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

If you mean women who are direct with their communication, then yes. Being outspoken is not a good thing actually. Nobody wants to hear an opinion on everything.

loveslongnails · Answer

I think it would depend on the topics they choose to speak out on, what they're level of knowledge is on the subject, and how much thought goes into it before the mouth is engaged.

kitkills · Answer

Anyone outspoken is inherently better. I want to know who I'm dealing with.

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