Men, do you like outspoken women better than reserved ones?

[anon1903]

adjective
Outspoken :
frank in stating one's opinions, especially if they are shocking or controversial.
"he has been outspoken in his criticism"

Similar:
forthright
direct
candid
frank
straightforward
honest
open
straight
straight from the shoulder
plain
plain-spoken
vociferous
vocal
explicit
point-blank
round
blunt
abrupt
bluff
brusque
unequivocal
free
unreserved
uninhibited
unceremonious

I love reserved women more

I love outspoken women more

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+1 y

Just an head's up : it's got little to do with personality dimensions : extroversion or introversion as you can be a curt, popular person and strongly opinionated nerd so...

[Tstrbrainer]

Outspoken women seem to be good in many areas, including in bed. At least she'll say straight to the face that I suck in bed.
So I get opportunity to improve 😉.

I don't care if a person is outspoken or reserved as long as they have common sense and are happy to bend over for some spanking

[the_bruh]

Every women is sexy and beautiful in their own way.

[cjmtherfcker]

Funny i never hear women say anything similar about men

[anon1903]

Then you follow the wrong ones around.

[the_bruh]

It's the sad truth, it takes time for them to understand it. They're not like us.

[cjmtherfcker]

So you think all men are beautiful in some way?

[anon1903]

Of course.

[cjmtherfcker]

well guess u got a new follower then

[anon1903]

Appreciated.

[cjmtherfcker]

Absolutely. happy to show love to those that appreciate

[rondon06]

"Every women is sexy and beautiful in their own way"

Does that include vanessa george?

I'm gonna have to call you out on such a disingenuous generalisation

[the_bruh]

Yeah lemme ask u this? For who is it easy to get laid when they want?

[Qdbrown]

You can tell some many men are looking for their single mothers.

If you want an interesting date, and some bedroom fun, outspoken women. Just don't wife her up. That would be stupid.

If you're looking for a wife, find a caring, easy-going, non-combative woman who is capable of compromising. This is a major wife quality if you want to try to make it a lifetime with her.

You marry some loud outspoken women because she seems exciting and edgy sounds like a great wife, and they initially seem sexually exciting as well. They get old and hard to work with as the years march on. She won't seen like anything buy loud and annoying as she ages. You will find yourself with a man cave and finding hobbies that get you out of the house, half drunk most of the time and that guy I see that drives slow the commute back home.

Pick wisely.

[anon1903]

Speaking as an outspoken woman, I wouldn't wanna be tied down either.

[MCheetah]

No. I like reserved women more, although I'd still want someone who has a spine. "Outspoken" with women (and quite a few men) is usually a euphemism for "bitch" (or "asshole," if male). I ideally want a woman who can remain polite and calm at even the most heated moments and tell someone off and embarrass them with grace and style... Something I'm still working on myself. I'm tend to disrespect people I think aren't smart enough to warrant my respect. I could stand to be more polite, is what I'm saying. But yeah, I would rather have a reserved girl than an outspoken (bitchy) one.

[hahahmm]

I can go either way but if she's outspoken (and the same is true for men) she should have be able to explain her beliefs without getting angry. I'm not impressed when people just repeat what they heard on social media/tv like a robot but they have no clue on how to defend the belief.

[hahahmm]

Silence is golden too. Even if she's outspoken she should know how to be quiet and listen to the birds singing.

[anon1903]

That's true.

[Aethereal]

I think your votes might be a bit different if you used a different word for "outspoken" e. g. Direct, straightforward, or honest. At a glance, "outspoken" looks like a word describing someone who is noisy, likes to argue, and might be uncompromising or speaks without thinking. I came to vote for reserved women before reading all your description (I was just scrolling recommended questions)

If you look at questions asking men whether they like mind games vs. honesty, you'll see a large support among men for directness and honesty over vagueness and mind games.

[JackSmy]

I CHOOSE her for WHO she is, and yes, sometimes, she can be very outspoken about things that she believes in, and in every case, I could totally support that, ad love her passion, to that cause!!
Politically, we are close, but some things that we don't completely agree on, but that is OK!! Some issues, as well, and sometimes we explore those "issues" and maybe one or the other, maybe both, change our opinions, when challenging those ideas!
I can only be with a Woman that is confident in her self, and her beliefs, and won't change, just because I think she should; like I won't change, because she thinks I should!

[ohshee]

I love women who are confident who are smart or intelligent who aren't afraid to say what they have to say because of something they believe in and they're willing to take on the world for it but there's a way to use your words and your tone a girl that knows how to do this is the girl for me not somebody who's just loudmouth bold and makes herself have to be heard because usually those are the girls that are wrong do what they're even believe in they just do it to be heard to hear themselves talk those are the ones I don't like

[OlderAndWiser]

I like women who are confident of themselves but who also recognize that reasonable people can have differences of opinion and it doesn't mean that one is right and the other is wrong.

[TwistedTube]

This. I know some very outspoken women, but most of them think that their opinion is "right" and opinions contradicting theirs is "wrong".
I have nothing against outspoken women. But I do want to be able to have an intelligible conversation concerning our opinions. If you can't help but see opinions that differ from yours as nothing but "wrong" then that's a turnoff

[anon1903]

TwistedTube

Ah, what about women with moral relativism mindset?

[TwistedTube]

well that would entirely depend about what morals they have different. I'm able to compromise quite a far way, but some morals are just "built into" your core, someone opposing those just brings you shivers. a woman like that I would just simply never be happy with. overall I do agree that morals are relative though.

[anon1903]

Duly noted.

[Omario2049]

This is a tricky one because women often get the balance thing off, they're either completely stuck in their heads or an obnoxious blabber mouth shoving her opinions down other's throats. However reserved will always get preference because they will come off as less of a flirt or slut. Unfortunately. While outspoken are almost always better in bed because they actual talk during sex. So situational awareness is ideal, if outspoken women would know when to just shut the fuck up, they'd run the world. But it's easier to teach a woman to come out of her shell and speak when it's important and necessary than to get the outspoken one just to shut up even once per year.

[ShortCircuit]

I wouldn't mind if she was outspoken about certain things if we happened to have similar views. However, I'm definitely going to be turned off if she is outspoken *and* we have opposite views. And, in general, I prefer women who have a more reserved temperament most of the time.

[anon1903]

I see 😒

[yoyoyoyoyoyoyoyoyo]

I like outspoken women,

however,

there is a few women who are rude and just belligerent assholes, and those women shouldn't share their opinions EVER. lol.

But that's the same with men, I don't think men that are belligerent assholes should share their opinions.

It has become a cultural thing to have strong opinions and bias, and for people to just talk out their ass, and that should never be okay