I think a mixture of both is the better choice because both partner bring needs in a relationship. I don´t know why only submissive women are told to be demure but that´s another question. For me it´s important that the both find a constellation they like. I also clicked a mixture because I´m a different character being around different people. I behave differently talking to strangers than to talking to friends.
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I like an assertive woman who challenges me in life. It encourages me to grow.
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The thing this doesn't quite show is that the alpha sort of men looking for relationships are the main ones selecting submissive while the beta sort of men are selecting independent. The next biggest group is alphas selecting independent but only because they are only wanting casual relationships and dont want to have any responsibility towards the woman.
So as a woman, even though yes its somewhat equal in a way... that hot, confident man you are crushing on most likely wants submissive for a relationship or he is just trying to pump and dump you basically.Option C, a mix of both. A woman who isn't cowardly, meek, or a pushover, but at the same time, is nice, not negative or aggressive, feminine, and knows how to let her man be a man without trying to be the "man" herself. A woman can be brave and strong and stand-up for herself without being a b*tch doing it. Too bad, Hollywood doesn't understand this anymore.
I’m a woman. He can make very submissive in bed but he can't make me in daily life. I worked so hard on myself in a younger age to be here today
I prefer a woman who strives to have a good life in terms of independence and well being. It doesn't really matter in which state she's in life (independent or not), as long as she's trying her best to have a good life on her own.
Strong & independent women 😍
I'm a bi-slut, but I'd be more willing to straight up marry a dominant woman, even though I don't plan on getting married.
Submissive and demure of course. If a girl is deluded enough to think she can be the leader and dominant one in a relationship then she is living in la la land and one day someone will snap her out of that stupidity.
It really depends on the woman so I just voted both.
Mix of both, but not borderline and psychotic version where she switches between calm sheep and pissed Valkyrie
I’d rather not be in a constant power struggle with her over every little petty thing so I’d rather go with submissive if I had to go with only extremes in either direction.
Its a huge turn on to me to be involved in a relationship with a strong and independent woman it's always a going to be moments of mystery and surprise
Also gives me a chance to step out of my reality and into there fantasyI've been watching the t. v. show "don't trust the B in apartment 23". the two main characters are submissive/demure and assertive/independent. They're both attractive so honestly I don't think it makes a big difference.
The men who answer independent or dominant are hardly men at all. Probably scared to take charge for themselves.
A mix of both as most people really aren't as one dimensional as they think or want to be.
My fiancée is independent, dominant and leads the relationship
I like it heheA real man is dominate and expects a submissive wife.
Either or doesn't matter. Assertive can't be overboard or its just bossy etc.
A balance, i'd like her to challenge me and be aggressive too
Mixture of both. Strong women in life but the more submissive and obedient in the bedroom the better
I love assertive, dominant and sexually aggressive girls.
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