Would you feel all right if your girl was only making $35,000 a year?

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Alejandro3000 · Accepted Answer

I'd date a girl to find out if she's happy with her life and move it forward like that. If she's capable of having a good lifestyle, why not. I'm not going to judge her and I don't have expectations about salary. However many women are so judgmental and I joke with them that I don't have a job when I see them being jerks asking me questions about my work. Because they take that as a deal breaker 😁 Hannah show confidence happiness and passion if you choose to talk about your career. Hope you're well and stuff,

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K-I-S-S · Accepted Answer

In this county you would be considered well off.

And i make my own money. My girlfriend was pretty poor when we started dating, she of course didn't know it at the time.

She thought the opposite, because i had just lost tons of weight, so a lot
of my clothes were big. I also liked to use an old type pc monitor, because it had a better image. So she thought i was poor too.

I wouldn't care how much somebody makes, i do care how they are or how they like to improve themselves. I like if they are a good person.

ChiTown33 · Answer

Yes. Because I don't define people's worth by how much they make and I hate people who do.
I only care that she she carries her own weight. Why because that makes her a woman of character. I'd much rather she make half what she could and do what she loved. Why because life is short. Too short to NOT do what you love. As someone who has spent the last 3 decades chasing that almighty dollar. I've been broke and I've been well off. And let me tell you after a certain point. More money does NOT make you any happier.

Xitomyth · Answer

I wouldn't care, honestly, I'm with her because I want to be with her, not her money. Everyone has their own set of skills, or lack there of, and that means different levels of pay. I'd be more concerned if she wasn't working at all, especially if it was due to her own decision making and personality...

TheorionMage · Answer

"Is she yur Hoe, or your Companion?"

If SHE'S earning it AND she finds the work she's doing satisfying
AND you're not some 'dead beat' 'pimpin' solely off HER earnings...
HOW MUCH ARE YOU EARNING toward your combined household's income & lifestyle?

BeMuse · Answer

If you can support your needs and your appetite for luxuries on your income then you should be fine. Different people live their life in different ways. If you’re not using people for what they have or earn then what you are making isn’t really a concern.

Adam1978 · Answer

That wouldn't be my issue but hers, if she can be happy under those circumstances, I am not making a issue out of it. I am not after my girlfriend money so her salary isn't a issue as long as it cover her needs.

jshm2 · Answer

I've dated girls making much less than that.  Unless you're dating for the money, it makes not a jot of difference what they're making. As long as the sex and company is good, she's alright.

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing wrong w that. But honestly most men including me don’t care how much she makes, usually that only matters to women. I could careless if she was working at McDonalds for minimum wage, as long as she was hot that’s all that is care about. Most men don’t care about that, she could be wearing a trash bag I wouldn’t care as long as she’s hot.

chnapo · Answer

Depending on the country, that could be a hell lot of money or not very much. But yeah, I would fell all right if my girl was making any or no money, as long as she is OK with it. She has to like her job and her salary. I am to support her in whatever she likes.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

As for $35,000 a year it’s better than nothing & with all honesty I wouldn’t have a problem if my girl made it.

adamp98 · Answer

Yes money doesn't matter in a relationship. If she is paying her way and treating you right then there shouldn't be an issue.

Lliam · Answer

Hell yeah. That's about what what my wife makes. I made more before I retired, but I wouldn't care a bit if she made more that me. We're partners. We used our combined incomes to make a life for ourselves.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

My g/f makes double that but it's not like we depend on her income anyway so yes of course it would be ok.

MTC29 · Answer

It is reality that women on average, make less money than men, so $35,000- particularly in Florida where I retired, would be realistic wage.

DJB72 · Answer

That's like R500k here in South Africa.  It's all relative. My business partner in Kenya could live for 10 years on that and still have left over. So yes, I'd be fine with it.

Anonymous · Answer

Sure, or zero. My wife doesn’t have a job but she takes care of almost everything else. I can support us both. Its probably cheaper for me than it would be living alone. If she finds something she wants to do great.

oldawg · Answer

I really wouldn't care if she made nothing because if she is someone who I want to be with then I don't care if she is piss poor

oliver4love · Answer

Money is not a matter when you love 😍 someone deeply from heart ♥

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Why would i care what she makes? As long as she has time to do the support role then there is no requirement. If she's not able or willing to fulfill that then id expect her to earn as much or more than me. Which in my case is not realistic i earn too much.

Avicenna · Answer

As long as it wasn’t in some expensive place like Manhattan, I’d be fine with it as long as she isn’t a spendthrift and/or heavily indebted.

wassim97 · Answer

Let me tell you something with everything happening in my country my salary rn is 50$ a month thats 600$ a year so you tell me if its all right if my girl was making 35k a year

RealMarek · Answer

The median income in the US is about that. Yes, I would be fine with it. Most men don’t care too much about what their girlfriends make.

Sweepthelegjonny · Answer

If she likes her job, doesn’t matter what she makes. Happiness comes first!

ArztSchlachthof · Answer

For what I care, she doesn't even have to have a job.

28ouc · Answer

yes if thats what she was happy doing for work or all she can do. as long as she was trying and helping out im ok with whatever she makes. we can work things out.

Floppy2112 · Answer

I don’t care how much a woman makes, I care about who she is

ohshee · Answer

It doesn't really even matter it's her job it's her money and if she's happy that's what it's all about

Nik1hil · Answer

If my girl was making -35,000$/yr. I would be happy if she was my kind of girl.. 😊😏

lucas262 · Answer

Money. Is not an attribute men find attractive. At least not to the degree a woman finds it in a man.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Is it such a bad wage? Would be about average in UK £28k. What are they doing? Are they still studying to better themselves? Are they following a vocation?

Massageman · Answer

That's about what she's earning now- - - - that's fine.

Would you feel all right if your girl was only making $35,000 a year?

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