Well no, not from a moral standpoint. But nature doesn't give a shit about our morals. It's concerned about survival through different forms. And since we humans need to form structures in order to survive, divisions will inevitably be made. And they are the foundations that have made us who we are today.
"Lookism" is an inescapable thing. And the truth is that the people who think they always treat others varying in attractiveness "equally" likely don't. They're naive &/or are lying to themselves because it sounds good &/or it's how they wanna be viewed.
So as shitty as our situation is, the reasons why we innately view & treat attractive people better are because of reproductive reasons & our own survival.
For instance, we choose attractive mates because our brains see unattractive people akin to diseased &/or deformed people. And I say innate because even babies prefer to look at attractive faces! Many studies have even shown that we find more attractive faces to be more trustworthy as well. Like we perceive them to have all of the good qualities of being a human way before we think anything negative. And it's not the same for unnattractive people. It's the opposite.
This is the black pilled truth that people don't often like to think about or admit to. It hurts to hear. Especially if you aren't conventionally attractive &/or you've had certain false beliefs for a while.
So from the standpoint of the suvival of our species, we should treat more attractive people better. But not from a moral standpoint. & that's why this will always be a controversial thing.
And I say from a species standpoint because more like I said, physically attractive people tend to be very fertile. Physically attractive women tend to be very high in estrogen, and physically attractive men tend to be very high in testosterone. And we see that fertility as the human operating properly enouh for reproduction. And of course there are many other factors and qualities that can enhance the feeling even further.
But anyway... I checked "no" because even though I understand nature's utility in the first one, I just prefer to have ideals that are morally guided. And I just so happen to not be very attractive and I've felt just what it feels like to be on the bad end of the stick.10 Reply
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+1 yDepends on how they treat others. If a pretty woman treats you like shit, treat her 10 times worse than she treats you; if an ugly woman treats you like shit, tell her she's ugly then treat her 100 times worse than she treats you. If an attractive woman treats you with [genuine] kindness, treat her infinitely better than she treats you; If an ugly woman treats you with kindness, respond with the same level of kindness.
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+1 yI don't see how beauty can affect your grades in formal education. I mean sure it can if you're graded by your teacher but from where I am they give you back your questionnaires after grading and explain your mistakes to you for simple tests. For more important exams, your papers are not corrected by your teachers and the people who correct your papers don't even know who you are or what you look like. We also have 2 international exams where papers aren't even corrected in the country.
But yeah prettier girls do get treated better in certain areas of life, just not all the time and certainly not to the extreme you're describing it.
I wouldn't say that they should get better treatment but I feel like most people do have certain things that grant them favours in one way or another. It might be your social status, your charisma or your personality. Looks are just one of the things that can allow you to have those favours. It's just like a little plus, nothing wrong with that.
Some people are just lucky.21 Reply
Asker+1 yBecause teachers give better grades arbitrarily
Of course they shouldn't. Also something I noticed is that girls don't get treated by their looks, but mostly their reputation/confidence/way of living etc. A confident girl who likes hooking up with people, dressing "sexier", having a more lively lifestyle with many friends and outings will get treated better than a girl that's more attractive but is shy, nerdy, introverted, hates going out, doesn't have many friends and isn't very confident.
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I don't think they should. I think it's hilarious how so many people say the same, but they actually are a huge part of the problem. Pretty girls are great to look at but when you put them on a pedestal without any other standard, then you are making a fool outta yourself. Please, have some self-respect people.
Here's the kicker though. Because of all these people who "respect" pretty girls, if you can attract them, people will honestly give you more respect. It's easier to move up in the world. I have attracted women of all shapes and sizes, but when people see me with the most attractive women, more people want to be my friend and overall just spread more positive energy around me, including spending more money on me and giving me opportunities to make more money. It's as if I am a higher quality for being with an attractive woman. I do believe many of these people have selfish motives, but I actually believe that a good bunch of people truly just feel that I am a better person to be with, so it really is a huge bonus to attract pretty girls, and I think that actually is a big reason for why pretty girls are treated better. These people think that treating pretty girls better will reel them in, but it really just comes off as pedestalizing so the pretty girls feel above the rest.
All that being said, any quality person absolutely cares about much more than just physical appearance, and no quality person would tolerate someone just because she's pretty. For physical pleasure, maybe someone would stay for a bit, but committing long term with a girl who only has looks going for her is just plain dumb. Let's not be dumb but be quality people. Beauty goes way deeper than the surface, and many of these pretty girls do not work on their character because they are are too used to getting their way.21 Reply
Asker+1 yThats right. I've never been more highly accepted than when i had a pretty girl like me
+1 yShould anyone be treated better?
Equality says no.
Common sense says no.
But unfortunately the world is a F****** mess.
If I were a girl, I'd try not to be beautiful. Guys are easy, we'll think you are gorgeous either way. But if you find a guy who treats you well because you're pretty, you'll probably end up in a bad relationship with a selfish asshole.
I feel like pretty girls have it really hard. It's either people harassing you or people pretending to be nice to get what they want. I'd rather be alone and wait for someone who actually cares about me.20 Reply
Anonymous(25-29)+1 yPrettiness comes Inna variety of forms and in many cases it can be determined purely by your lifestyle choices;
You may have blemishes, but you can always follow a healthy diet and make your body your best feature with regular day-to-day exercise.
I didn't go to the gym until spring this year and I've always had an unintentional hourglass figure based on my lifestyle choices (not that men need one).
The healthier you are in body, the healthier you are in mind.
I passed all my grades at school and went to Uni through self-care. You're a gem, you just need refinement.01 Reply
Opinion Owner+1 yAnd no, I was NOT supported at school etc. They literally gave me an award for shocking them with my grades because they obviously saw very little in me.
No, of course they shouldn't. People should be treated by the way that they act and their behavior and their character. But the bottom line were biologically wired to give preference to people who seem to have better genes. Sad truth but now with all the social media and stuff it's become so heavily emphasized that it's actually going to our detriment.
10 Reply337 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Well I would say you shouldn't give them better grades unless they deserve it. Same goes for job positions. But it's in human nature to be nice to people you want to get close too. So why are so many female treating them out of the ordinary? Is it to take a shot on the guys she doesn't want?
00 ReplyNo doubt there is something called as "pretty privilege" women who are exceptionally good looking or even above average are treated better than men at least because they have higher sexual mean value (SMV). However, the downside to that is that it's temporary; from 15-30, after that there are more girls who are younger and looks fade with age, while expectations and entitlement don't.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yWhen I was in high-school, college & university most of the very "pretty girls" were more interested in fucking anything with a dick - and if rumor about Sara from the cheerleading squad was to be believed that included her family's two dogs - than applying themselves and actually getting good grades.
00 ReplyThere was a study a number of years ago with sound and video recordings. The study showed that prettier students were given preference and treated better. The teachers were surprised to learn that they were giving preferences to prettier students as that was not their intent.
00 Reply961 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. i think id be considered a pretty girl and both my parents hate me and i didn't graduate high school until i turned 20 lol so either im not a pretty girl or your assumptions are flawed
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Asker+1 yOr you dont understand stats and generalizations
Asker+1 yyou're even assuming your pretty :P
Asker+1 y@Account she's just not my type i guess. You get scissor her, idc, literally not attracted at all to her
Asker+1 ySpeak the same as me and ill do worse back to you😎
+1 yEveryone should get a fair chance of being treated nicely and equally. I will be honest we are humans and it so happens that the better you look in beauty and physique wise somethings will be easier for you. It comes with its pros and cons.
10 ReplyI have definitely been treated better because of my looks before and it hurts because i'd rather be valued on my personality
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+1 yI mean models and rich men are hooking up and they know better about their business. Yeah.. it’s a business that they know and easy to get what they want using their money and looks. The rest of people are cursed and they will never know the high society.
00 ReplyTo me its an obvious no, its a form of discrimination, but be aware, sometimes it works the other way.
In business I have witnessed female bosses act badly to attractive female employees, I assume due to jealousy, I have interviewed people for a job, and then been told by my boss that "she is too attractive".00 Reply- 848 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
+1 y" literally more gifted " ---Forget for a moment that the word "literally" has no business being used here, but this entire statement makes no sense at all. Absolutely none. So to answer your question, "should they be treated better" - no.
00 Reply I don’t think prettiness affects grades it might affect self confidence which trickles down to their performance in school but that’s a personal issue
00 Reply4.3K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Of course not, but the world often isn't fair.
I do go out of my way sometimes to be extra nice or helpful to less attractive women.00 Reply- 408 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
+1 yNo everyone should be treated equally no matter how pretty their faces are.
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Asker+1 yIf everyone agrees, then how come teachers dont treat people fairly
+1 yIt's not about how prettier the girl is decides that. It's just how infatuated you are with the girl and what or how far your willing to go for her and make her feel like a queen.
00 ReplyNo, but they definitely shouldn't be treated worse either.
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Asker+1 yAre you trying to be funnyy? Sounds like what a pervy teacher would say when confronted
Asker+1 yReally pretty girls can't get knocked down
302 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Fuck no. a lot of girls that are attractive act like rude bitches. I blame the simps & beta blue boys for this as well. But nah respect is earned, not given.
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+1 yNo they should not but I think they actually do get treated better in some ways.
00 ReplyPeople should be rewarded based on their competence.
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+1 yYes, and ugly girls should be beaten... just for being ugly.
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6K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. They all get treated better because a man wants them
00 ReplyTo the people saying yes, should uglier girls be treated worse then?
00 ReplyIdeally no.
In practice, pretty people will be treated better.00 ReplyThey should but not anymore than Ugly People or Shy People.
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+1 yEveryone should be treated equally so that includes "look don't matter."
00 ReplyEveryone should be treated equally pretty or not
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Asker+1 yHow come nobody does this in practicr
+1 yNo but we all know they are.
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+1 yNo , but they usually are anyway.
10 Reply Depends on their personality
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+1 yNo they shouldn't be treated better, it's unfair.
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+1 yTo what end? Do they bleed silver, or piss gold?
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+1 yNo, we should be treated equally!
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All the girls
No. But are they? Yeah...
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+1 yBeing pretty has its profound privileges so yea
00 Reply862 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Most are treated better
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+1 yPretty girls get enough praise already.
00 Reply1.3K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. They have enough privilege as it is.
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+1 yOf course not
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+1 yThey should be equal to everyone else
00 ReplyNo of course not
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+1 yof course not.
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