Why would she give me her number, but won’t respond when she told me to keep her updated about my plans?

[FruDawg1]

[GrowingUpFast]

I’ve been told this by people that girls give boys phone numbers to avoid getting asked out or to let them down easy. Either way I highly advise you to talk about your plans in person once you actually have a plan. That way you can get a better understanding of how she reacts you can read emotions and body language. If you talk to her over text your not actually talking to her you’re talking to somebody that has 24 hours to think of a good response to not make you feel bad. If you talk to her in person she has nothing more than one second to respond to what you’re talking about. You easily notice how she feels about you talking to her in person talking over text should be something you do once’s you start dating.

[FruDawg1]

It’s hard to do that since she lives in another state

[GrowingUpFast]

That’s something you probably should’ve mentioned because long distance relationships especially if you haven’t already started dating usually don’t work out. Is this just like an online relationship with someone or somebody you know but moved to a different state. It could truly just mean that she’s busy. Did she just move to a different state? Maybe she’s just settling in.

[FruDawg1]

Oh, I actually realized she wasn’t responding because I was sending messages to the wrong number

[GrowingUpFast]

Wooow haha.

[Anonymous]

Not everything requires a response. If you update her on your plans but don’t follow that up with trying to make a new plan with her or something of that nature then what is she supposed to say?