She wouldn't give me her number after meeting this summer?

[Anonymous]

i find it all weird , we meet earlier this summer but only started talking a couple weeks ago. i've bought her and her girlfriend's drinks at the bar twice in a row now. and saw them at the place they work , we even sat at a table together and hung out

then the other day i saw her there again , she was at work but then off work on break and she sat beside me at the bar , some of her co workers were also around. anyways at some point i pulled out my phone and asked for her # , didn't think it be a big deal as we've been talking at bar and there a bit now

but she wondered why i was asked but took the phone anyways and put her name and a # number in my contacts but then said she didn't give out her number to people much anymore. i assumed she reluctantly still gave it to me

but when i tried to text it yesterday it doesn't work at all , you can't send anything to it so it can't be her # or put in wrong

but confused as she always seemed happy to see me and i though we got along pretty well but her job is seasonal so perhaps its her way of saying she doesn't think she'll see me once she leaves and returns to normal routine

[Black_Ivory]

For clarifications sake. Are you male or female?

You sound like a guy asking a question on an app called girls ask guys. But if you are a lesbian woman that is asking guys advice on why a woman would not give you her phone number, then this inquiry will make more sense to me.

Then I will be ready to respond to you and your questions.

[Asker]

no i'm a guy for sure , i figure perhaps she didn't give me the number cause she doesn't see a future as she's only her seasonally and i live here permanently. i felt we got along really well and she always seemed happy to see me

[Anonymous]

You’re literally kidding me. Where’s the part where she has a boyfriend you allegedly worried about? Or that you’ve known her before she worked at that bar? This is absolutely a case of obsession and you need professional help. This is insane.

[Opinion Owner]

Altering this story over and over to get responses that work in your favor is NOT healthy. Be real about what’s going on and leave that girl alone. This weirdness is probably why she won’t make you a real friend.

[Asker]

this was a different girl , i started to talk to this one a few weeks ago as a way to move on from the other one. she works at a different place and i see her at this bar nearby.

she asked me some weird questions the day we hung out at the table , such as who i lived with? like why would she need to know that and what i had been doing during the day or when not there. like there were trying to feel me out or suspected something about me. i didn't really answer her questions which might of annoyed her

but she still talked to me and seemed happy when she saw me the other day and sat rate beside me at bar , but maybe i embarrassed her infront of her friends by asked then?

[Opinion Owner]

This sounds eerily like the same girl even down to the seasonal job. If this is someone different I’d still feel the same about it not being a good idea to pursue that. Meeting girls at work doing their job is hard to know if they’re really interested, and give you the wrong impression. Otherwise she wouldn’t have given a fake number.

[Asker]

she goes to this nearby bar on a regular basis , that was where i had bought them drinks , she wasn't working then but get what your saying trying to get to know her at work perhaps isn't the best idea. although she wasn't always busy at times so i could talk to her there.

around my area most younger women work in restaurants/hotels , there isn't much else here that they'd work at this time of year , its a very seasonal tourist area

[Anonymous]

Just because you talked a few times doesn't mean she wants you to call her. We have many tricks to get rid of guys who ask for our number.