Why does he only communicate by sending memes? What does this guy want from me?

[Anonymous]

Hi all,
a couple weeks ago around the 4th of July I liked a bunch of this dudes pics on instagram, he gave me his number so we texted everyday and then he asked me if I want to go out the weekend he is back. He picked me up that Friday and took me somewhere nice for dinner. He also kept getting between me and the road when we were walking around. our text conversations prior to this meeting were light but constant, he made jokes about "wrestling" me but was not directly sexual and then also asked my ethnicity etc, we talked about our travels to other countries, music we are into, sent memes back and forth. after dinner we went to his room to watch TV.

Once in his room he cuddled me then started rubbing down my thighs & butt and then we started making out, I told him I was on my period and then we cuddled up and watched more of the show eventually we decided to sleep. He spooned&kissed me on the cheek, I turned to him we started making out again and he was hard, I gave him head which he said was amazing then we kissed and cuddled and fell asleep. In the morning he dropped me off and I texted him later saying "thanks for taking me out I had fun" and he replied "no prob. I had fun too. we will do it again soon." and that was two weekends ago we have not hung since. he sends me a lot of memes and we briefly talk on instagram but he does not text me at all and has not asked to hang since then. we haven't talked since Thursday, today he dropped a bunch of memes on me&said "meme dump sunday". why would he send me memes unless he is interested in me/fucking me or something but then why wouldn't he just ask me to hang out then I dont get the point of sending me random memes all the time. He is 31 if that helps. I do not want to make the move and ask him to hang. I don't get why he would waste his time and send me memes if he doesn't want to see me again? yeah I am just confused about the whole thing. no mean comments please I really want to know what is going on.

[FunkyMonkee]

Either he's interested and just too shy to come right out and say so or he's a still a bit of a kid trying to be funny and hope you like it. I remember when I was almost your age back in the mid `70's, these two friends of ours were coming over for the evening and I decided to put a lot of these tiny little stickers on the door frame leading up to our room on the 3rd floor figured they'd both read them and get a BIG laugh out of them when they came over! They were about half the size of postage stamps and were a lot like these memes. Well, a few hours after I put all those stickers on the frame, they showed up and walked RIGHT PAST them and never even noticed they were there!! A while later I showed them the stickers and they read a few, and that was it! The point being, maybe HE'S still too much of a kid (like I was at your age) to come right out and say he likes you. If you like him, go after him! Nothing makes a guy grow up faster than having a girlfriend!!

[Asker]

That gave me a good laugh! I just don't understand why he won't just ask me out again considering he asked the first time? I guess I'll try to show more interest and go after him lol

[FunkyMonkee]

Apparently, girls have it beat into their heads that they are NOT supposed to go after a guy because it'd make her look like a slut!! Does buying a cart full of groceries at the store make you look like a big fat pig? It's something you need! Something you want! You're not gonna sit around and wait for it to come to you, are you?
Shortly before my aunt Jean & uncle Wally died a decade ago exactly 1 year apart in their early 90's, Jean, at her anniversary, told us about how she met Wally. They were bowling on the same lanes one day and she happened to spot him (they hadn't met yet, didn't know the other existed until then) and she told some of her girlfriends with her, "I'm gonna marry that guy!!" Within a few years, she did!! That was back in the late`40's. Here it is nearly 100 years later and girls are still scared they're gonna be seen as whores just because they went after a guy they liked! They stayed happily married until their deaths.
You know how a girl got a guys interest about 150 years ago? She'dd walk in front oof him acting llike she didn't know he was there, drop her hanky oor something and keep walking like she didn''t know she lost it and more often than not, he'd pick it up and take it to her and they'd start a conversation. Try it with this guy and see what happens. At least that way you can't REALLY be seen as a slut. You accidentally dropped something and he returned it to you and you just HAPPENED to start talking with him and one thing led to another. Hey, if guys are gonna risk being seen as a pervert by going after a girl, why can't the girls do likewise?

[Asker]

That is actually a really good idea haha I will try that I am clumsy anyhow. I just hate how my generation does not believe in relationships anymore and guys are lazy and take to apps to meet women and then when nice girls like me make an effort it goes unnoticed. maybe I will end up alone lol

[FunkyMonkee]

Go get him, girl!! Cell phones are the height of laziness, these days!! It's bad enough I spend a great portion of my free days on this computer but at least I DO spend a lot of my time here working on the books I'm writing and editing recording projects. And, I make it a point to get other things done at the same time AND get outside for a while. I don't really like sittimg around all day but that's what I end up doing a lot! I miss the old days about 20 years ago when I'd bust ass at work in the print shop and then go play a gig at night until 2:00 a. m. with the band (drums), spend at least half my day swimming in my pool or riding my bike about 10 miles to hit a few of the local record stores and come home and have sex with my future ex-fiancé! I lost all of that within about a 5 year period and haven't been able to get any of it back! Okay, it leaves me a lot more time to work on my books and recording projects but, I've developed a root beer belly from sitting around too much.

[Joker_]

Maybe he's retarded

[Asker]

haha right! Like am I crazy or this is weird right? if he was not interested and we just stopped talking that would have made sense to me but I 'm like wtf lol

[Joker_]

same bro

[Asker]

the drama escalates bruh. I sent him back a ninja turtles meme that was like "didnt they say turtles hate straws" cus the meme is one of them using a straw in their drink, and he replies "love pizza" like what in the motherfuck does pizza got to do with turtles. retarded indeed.

[Joker_]

Truly retarded