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I was born in an upper class, old money family. Is it shallow of me to not want to marry a middle classed man and downgrade my lifestyle? (Page 2)
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Yes it does. Is there really THAT MUCH difference between upper class and middle class? If anything, middle class folks have a lot more fun because they don't have to act proper all of the time.
Well you're only entitled to what you can get. Are you hot 18 and a virgin? I mean short of that im going to bet against you succeeding.
I'm early 20's virgin who's slightly above average in terms of looks.
Not bad. But i mean highly wealthy? Good luck. Maybe a pseudo arranged marriage? You dont make or have your own wealth do you? Like your family isn't giving you 10 million dollars when you get married are they?
I will inherit some land and have some money in the bank. My parents are funding my tuition for medical school, so I will also be making my own good money.
Oh man. Good luck. you're going to end up with a well off but not well off enough man of a beta nature you will not realize until its too late he's boring asf and you will regret everything. Thats what id bet money on.
People date so she would realize if he is boring or not and there is nothing wrong in being beta
@Yyyyu all betas are boring. Im not talking about spouting off facts. Im talking about keeping her on the edge of her seat dying to fuck her husband regularly.
Lol if you think that toxic masculinity make someone interesting. Funny handsome intelligent beta who know how to respect women exist
@Yyyyu haha yeah ok 😂
Of course. You are superficial and you defend the interests of your class.
No, but probably will increase your chances of dying single.
Of course not! In fact, that would be stupid, unless he is exceptional, for example, a top student at Harvard or an Olympic athlete.
Do you have slaves too? I have lots of black child slaves that help me with my rich life style. Without them I would feel empty.
Yeah it does. You only limit yourself rejecting someone just because of their social class. But I suppose you're not wanting to have higher than yourself so it makes it a little better
But there is an issue she will make her future husband lose the house and go bankrupt because she is so use to spending money and does not know how to make wise financial choices!
No that’s normal but it limits your options for sure. What if you meet a guy who’s perfect in your opinion but he’s middle class? Just something to think about
Yes it does, but you don't really care and neither does anyone else.
It is not shallow but money is a walking shade. Life's turns can leave us in a different situation
May your family lose all of its wealth and may you be forced to live in the real world.
I am abroad currently in Asia and have been for much of my life. The real world is not very pleasant believe me.
@Jackblue I know that fact very well. But women are on a completely different level of delusion because of their life on easy mode model of living.
Well that is relative to one's experience, and while I am no doctor if she goes through medical school and a residency as a doctor in training she will be in for quite a wild ride from what I have heard.
@Jackblue doctors don’t know shit anymore. I can’t imagine going into that field just to get paid 6 figures to use google all day.
if you marry man less off than you, that doesn't mean your going to loss all the connections that allowed your family to be rich..
Yes, it's the same female hypergamy thing.
Congratz, you conformed to all the statistics, once again demonstrating their validity.
You want to control the relationship so it won't work anyway and guys can fake their wealth.
so you never worked? I mean laying in the sun in a thong bikini isn't work.
This doesn't actually mean anything. How much money does he have, what makes you think he's rich? Also if other guys are rich, are they subhuman?
yes and it is very common in females. Males usually dont feel the same way and will marry a women regardless of her social standing.
women marry up for a fact
Not only shallow but also selfish. Yet again, I expected this from someone like you
Probably no middle class man would want to marry you if they see you as high maintenance.
Most men don't want to marry anymore anyway.
No man in their right mind would want to marry this spend money machine. That's what the Asker is a money spending machine I bet she will be the wife that spends her family broke making her man go bankrupt and loosing the house. Clearly her parents never teach her how to manage her money or make wise financial choices.
@Alwayreckles93 She will end up married to a chandelier a bridge or her cats.
i'd hope you would marry whoever you fall in love with regardless of what class they are
All these guys saying its not shallow 🤦♂️. I mean if a man said the same thing 🙄
As long as you will not fire his ass at the Court for Chad that's not shallow
Your life your rules.
That is your free choice.
Downgrade? Yeah, you kinda are.
She said downgrade lifestyle, not downgrade guy.. Like upgrading a vehicle or computer, there are downgrades to that as well. It's just what it is.
I don't think that's shallow at all.
Can you give me 10,000$?
I guess you aren’t that upper class
She is snooty , not stupid.
I don't know ask your shrink 😂
Sounds like a recipe for failure
it is... and, it often spitballs.
Yes, it does.
Do whatever you want. It’s your life
I don't get it do you not have your own money?
She just wants to used her future husband credit card and shop shop shop. You will see she will make her future husband home go into forclouser and in debt.
Makes sense to me.
Yes..
very