Girls, Are girls/women uninterested in you if they don't want to meet up?

[Ousaf1]

I'm not talking about people who just met each other ofcourse they both have to be comfortable with each other first

[btbc92]

The answer is still the same regardless if they just met you or knew you for decades. Women do not know your intent unless you say something. It is implied you want a date or something more. That doesn't mean a person wouldn't be interested. That varies from person to person. But that they don't know what your actual intentions are, are scared to lose your friendship, and or feel that they cannot trust you. Being comfortable has to do with understanding you and all of you. And whether or not they can be experienced in dating other men. I personally would not meet up with a male friend alone, because it crosses boundaries and people will assume were dating when I am not. I rather we go as a group with all of my friends hanging out as friends. Not alone. If we are just talking about something or he is in distress that may be different. But if he is looking for something else, that will make me pull back because I have to prepare for that guy to leave because he doesn't want the "friendzone". Again, it has nothing to do with being uninterested. We know you want more, and to avoid the confrontation, you pull back and say no. You cannot force a person to just be interested in you. If you already knew you wanted something else you should have said something before that. The last thing a woman wants is to be blindsided.

[pleaseloveme]

Even if you state your intent, some women just won't believe you. Everyone is so guarded and traumatized from past relationships they might fear taking the plunge to meet someone new.

They might be depressed or scared of covid.
They might have anxiety that you won't like them.
There are thousands of reasons why they might not want to meet, doesn't neccesarily mean they aren't interested in you. People are just cowards/ overthinkers sometimes

[Anonymous]

Depends on the person, but girls have a lot of simps in general and the more you try the more desparate it looks. If she's interested, she wouldn't hesitate talking /going out with you. Although, if it's just once or twice she may really be busy or have a problem.

[Jojo74doug]

Often times it’s more fear than a lack of interest… I would really need to push myself to go out on dates in that portion of my life… the anxiety is high.

[AmandaYVR]

Could be uninterested.
Most likely they're afraid/nervous, and want to get to know the guy more before they feel safe (or interested.)

[15_Debo]

If more than 2 times and makes lame excuses about not meeting
then surely they aren't interested in u

[jennifer_bloom]

Not necessarily, it could mean they don’t want to be used for sex

[JosyJosy]

If they keep leaving you hanging, I'd have to say no

[Anonymous]

Nope, I get that sometimes people are busy but if she never makes time for you she’s not interested.

[opacarophile]

Girls have their reasons as to why they don't want to meet up yet. Better communicate with her for you to have a peace of mind.

[Flower7]

Yes, that’s usually what that means.

[katiesmuff]

That would be a pretty good guess

[Gwenhwyfar]

Depends. Not always.