Due to competition, attractive women are viewed as a threat. This has been happening to me a lot when I was in college, and younger women tried to attract guys that I had a relationship with once at the time and got away from even when I pointed it out. Women got angry at me for that. It has always been difficult for me to keep women as friends because college is a hellhole . As a graduate of college, I find trusting young women very difficult
Too many times have women said something to me while meaning something entirely different. Some conversations with women, I treat like walking through mine fields because of it. In my opinion, it's one of the dumbest things ever.
It’s not really code it’s hints and gestures they are trying to lead you to what they want but not just coming out and saying it because I don’t want you to think they’re vulgar or the other
The whole back-stabbing, unsupportive, last-min-mind-changing things irk me. I grew up with male friends for many, many reasons. I notice I’ve stayed friends with other woman longest when they grew up with male friends.
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Women aren't complex creatures. All you have to do is pay attention to actions and disregard words to figure that out.
why can't you guys just TELL ME? I've spent such a huge part of my life thinking I was unlovable, only to find out that there were a few girls in my past that considered hugging me and asking me to draw them a picture "OBVIOUS" signs that they like me. or girls that set up the atmosphere like they're about to prank me then ask me out to prom and expect me not to think it's a joke :(
Dude I dated this incredibly beautiful girl, we were flirty and crushing on each other and had two amazing dates then out of nowhere she said I should find someone else, because I’m such an amazing guy and deserve someone better😟 So yeah I’d say woman are complicated creatures
If a woman tells a guy openly that they are single and available... shouldn't a guy take that as a sign? I took it as a sign a few days ago and about got my head ripped off. I don't get it.
Why is it that women who profit from having sexual relationships with men say, "I'm not a whore because the dictionary says that a whore is paid for sex."
Because women get called whores for things and they’re not making a profit. And I guess it all depends on if they’re getting money for it or if it’s something else and the word is just offensive
Not paying on first dates, not making the first move, not preferring hard-working guys at their struggle period. Why do most women behave like some kind of prize (that's why men love to collect trophy girlfriends). If men are players then women make it a game, but life is more than a game...
Well it started back in the day where families with Mary off women for money and it will be the most beautiful daughter that they have. Men will go to war for the most beautiful list woman that they have. Women I only do what we know. That’s why we dress up that’s why we work out that’s why we try to be a skinny or is whatever beauty standards there are at the moment. As far as paying for the first date. Women are in tune with getting the alpha male who takes care of a woman and pay for a woman. And we want you to take the lead as a man
Of course, then women shouldn't complain why so many guys expect sex after dinner or sooner in relationships (as they had to pay a good amount on that ), or why the alpha male is dumping them after sex/pregnancy (alpha males aren't supposed to stick around after mating). Internet is full of nice guys crying over why they can't get women and women crying over why bad men are duping them after pumping.
OK one problem with this whole thing is no I’m not gonna except you wanting sex after dinner. That’s your problem I’m going home. And leave it to you being a nice guy maybe
So you want us to settle for a beta guy? Or a guy that we don’t think can take care of us or the relied upon
You can do whatever you want but certain things can have consequences, and you have to accept that other people will do what's best for them too. There are people with all sorts of combos.
Say now that’s when it sounds offensive. Or like a threat there shouldn’t be consequences for going on a date with someone. You shouldn’t expect to receive sex for something that I could pay for myself. If that’s the case then why not just go out as friends and I’ll pay for my half and you can pay for your half. That puts us on mutuals playing field. That way it won’t be no confusion.
I'm sorry are you being serious? The list is shorter of what I do understand and I've been married and had a girlfriend since I was 6 and I'm 53 no not the same girlfriend 300 and some of them
What that time of the month is like... I suppose it's hard to juggle the mood swings... unless one ever dates a woman or marries a woman who's never had period pain or period problems...
Oh. Can you help a man understand a little more. What can I say I'm a hopeless nerd a little 🤓🤓 but I hear some women use birth control to avoid altogether periods or period pain or just because they like the peace-of-mind with condoms and BC combo ☮️☮️😈😈
I don't understand why women constantly complain and are never satisfied with anything at least for very long. I also don't understand why women find hypergamy to be such a compelling strategy. Finally, I don't understand why most women don't understand how much work goes into making even just a small amount of money.
@genericname85 They do that also because they're bored, testing the guy, and/or you'll find that women love to yap because it releases dopamine in their brain.
There's a great book called "the Female Brain." The author was a Feminist, but later became anti Feminist because of Neuroscience and wrote her book.
@Inbox yeah i do actually know why they do it as well :) but i find that most girls don't. and i feel like if they did and if they'd just be a bit more self aware, that could make life on planet earth more pleasurable for all of us xD
I’m only going by what has happened in the past. I’m not looking for anything to be wrong but at the same time you can’t just let your guard down and think that it’s all perfect. It’s not no one‘s test thing a guy is just and we’ve had our own traumas so we can’t just let go and think it’s just what it is no
"you can’t just let your guard down and think that it’s all perfect" you absolutely can. that's what trust means ina relationship. and of course it would be foolish to trust someone like that whom you only started dating. but long term, a relationship without that, is not worth while, cause that negative problem creating mindset will always find a fly that you can make an elephant out of.
by the way, i'm in no way triyng to be mean or something. sometimes i sound a bit rough. i don't mean it. i just think this is a very common problem that "mostly" women have. some men sure too. but not that often.
well usually then there are underlying issues, be it within relationship or within themselves sometimes also some can be more ambitious than the partner and that can creat friction
@devilish-cutie well sure. i'm not talking about those things that can be solved by having a good conversation with your partner. i mean they are your partner, cause you can discuss thost things right?
i mean when things completely get out of hand with emotional drama and her crying and shit, just to find out 2 weeks later that she's sorry about making a scene about shit that doesn't eally matter. it's not that "i" say those things are not worth drama. it's that they say that and are sorry about it... yet they will do it again periodically.
ok in that case probably cause men were conditioned to supress their emotions and women aren't s a lot of them express them freely. We are all emotional beings and get mood swings, for women is just more free to express their emotions than men. A lot is in the temperament. Some women also say they get mood swings cause of perios. And as a i said most likely is underlaying issue, if not in a relationship then within themselves; they have some issues w themselves... it might not have anything to do w relationships. Thats why relationships r hard as all humans are flawed and a lot not mature enough for solid relationship
@devilish-cutie men also have mood swings xD we can be depressed at times and see evertything from a more negative point of view. but emotions are not what determines our behavior. emotions are just your brains tool to helpo you fix something. and that tool is not always reliable. so i guess men learn when an emotion is helpful and constructive and when it's just abrasive and not helpful.
of course menn still feel those things fully. i guess that's what the "provider role" is. you can't burden your partner with those thigns. you have to protect them from that negativity that can be within yourself at times. i feel like women don't have that consideration lots of times. they'll just let it all out with not much consideration for their partner.
@devilish-cutie because believe it or not, those things hit us very hard too. but that shit would spiral completely out of control if men just let their emotions dominate like girls do sometimes.
yeah i said everyone has mood swings which applies to men too and as i also said men more keep it inside cause of our conditioning. But the problem w men and emotions is that men are too quickly to disregard emotions that can be very relevant as they are baically indicator of your morals and value system, also men can keep shit in too long and than explode.
@devilish-cutie why do you think men do that? cause they love falling apart cause they can't take suppressing their emotions anymore? no. it's cause weakness isn't an option in most cases... cause life is tough... cause they're the only ones that keeps things together. and if they fall apart, everything in their life will fall apart.
but think about it. what happens when a woman breaks apart? the man will take care of her, till she can stand on her own 2 feet again. what happens if a man breaks apart? the woman will leave him for someone else that can be a better partner for her... of course not "always" but most times. how many homeless unemployed women do you see? how many women do you see on the other side that get a divorce or break up cause their partner lost their job and goes through a difficult time of depression and having to rebuilt themself...
i really don't mean to shit on women. that just seems like the reality to me, that explains why men are like that...
that way of thinking is our conditioning, in my opinion we both should support eachother, anyone can be in time of crisis. Divorce and giving up on your partner usually depends on the level of your loyality as a person. If a woman expects a guy to not ever show his weak side, i wouldn't persoanlly be w such woman. Men should have higher standards. People are in all sorts of relationships situations that we nothing about. If you truly love someone you ain't just gonna leave them w first issue. That shows how strong therelationship is and love for eachother. Women usually leave men cause those men dont work on themselves and resolving their issues; a lot of them think they can change him etc. Basically those things are more complex. Male ego is also often the problem and reson why they keep it all inside but society made such terms too. But ifyou areseveral years in a relationship normal woman would want and expect emotions from a guy. And at the end noone of us can truly hide how we truly are and what is being supressed will always resurface.
@devilish-cutie well divorce rates tell the story that it is factually true that men can't fall appart, cause women will more likely leave than carry them till they build themself back up... so is that conditioning? or is that just the cold hard reality?
no, you cannot put cause of divorce as men falling apart in my experience there are many causes but most often isthat those men are not willing to put in the work to resolve relationship issues men also stick to relationships only cause of sex and they are usually being the ones that cannot function without a woman if she leaves them as they could only be emotionally open w her and they dont want to and kinda can't get back to before when they werent that way w anyone
@devilish-cutie "they are usually being the ones that cannot function without a woman" what makes you think that? like don't we live in a supposed "patriarchy" where men exert dominance over women by earning more than them and keeping them out of jobs? like if that's true, then how can me "not function without a woman"? i mean more men are single than women. that's also a fact. and more men are long term single than women. so how do you substentiate the claim that men are less able to live without a woman? yeah men have a harder time finding sex. but that's hardly a reason a man would stick with a shitty partner.
i meant when a man can be emotionally open i only with a woma and once he experiences that its hard for him to not be able to be that emotionaly open anymore and therefore he "cannot function without a woman" to the point hed stick w shitty relationship. But both men and women have really hard time as anyone being alone, its natural to seek partner and a relationship.
And as soon as you let your guard down a guy can walk all over you and you won’t be able to get your ass back up. Love hurts sometimes and a lot of guys aren’t good guys that’s already drag the female through the mud and now you have to deal with that shit too. Again it falls back to past problems that we now have to look out for now
@NicoletteXO I should have said #NotAll. I know many of you fine ladies that interact with me on here, after conversing a lot wouldn't do that to me or another guy. I'm trying to learn early warning signs before it's too late.
First nobody condones cheating!!! If you cheated on her first and she’s just doing it out of a reaction that happened to her that’s just it. Not all women are like this sorry
@Justneedtokno 1) I've NEVER cheated on a woman in any capacity and never would. Not emotionally, physically, or anything. 2) As I stated to NicoletteXO I should have used #NotAll. But yes in my experience every woman at some point cheated on me.
I wasn't yelling. But I have never and will never cheat. Cheating isn't in my DNA. Put a gun to my head, I still won't cheat. that's the ultimate betrayal.
I think it has to do with HOW you show interest, and there's a lot of unattractive ways to do that, which can turn women off because it shows you're a loser instead of the hot guy she hoped you were.
Also sometimes the girl thinks the guy is too good for her and if he shows interest at the wrong time or in a lame way, he shatters the fantasy.
Why they assume I'm boring, but act like I'm Dexter Morgan if I know more about a subject than she does. Or scream bloody murder if I call her out and catch her in a lie.
You know half the fun of life is trying to unwrap the mysteries of any said woman is an intricacies of getting to know someone. I prefer to experience these things on my own rather than ask a woman who poses this type of question. 🌹
Under which circumstances does a woman want one specific man she'd like to live with to father her child, vs one (or many) to father it and then to live with someone entirely unrelated (or just one of the fathers).
OK one this seems specifically specific you might need to go ask that woman.
Normally oh woman wants to settle down and if she has a child with that person She bear some type of feelings for you especially if she decides to carry it for nine months. That’s a long time in a woman’s life hard long pain. Honestly not all relationships work and that area before marriage
No, it's the desperate guy who's easy to manipulate. They're easier to get to pay for kids sports, dinners out, Christmas gifts, etc. While their baby daddy is probably spending all his money as soon as he has it
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Due to competition, attractive women are viewed as a threat. This has been happening to me a lot when I was in college, and younger women tried to attract guys that I had a relationship with once at the time and got away from even when I pointed it out. Women got angry at me for that. It has always been difficult for me to keep women as friends because college is a hellhole . As a graduate of college, I find trusting young women very difficult
Explain the code talk.
Too many times have women said something to me while meaning something entirely different. Some conversations with women, I treat like walking through mine fields because of it. In my opinion, it's one of the dumbest things ever.
Well it’s because a lot of women want to seem innocent and sweet but we also like a venture and confidence and trying new things.
If that's the case, women who do that shouldn't get upset when their little code talk goes over the heads of the guys they're talking to.
It’s not really code it’s hints and gestures they are trying to lead you to what they want but not just coming out and saying it because I don’t want you to think they’re vulgar or the other
The whole back-stabbing, unsupportive, last-min-mind-changing things irk me. I grew up with male friends for many, many reasons. I notice I’ve stayed friends with other woman longest when they grew up with male friends.
Women aren't complex creatures. All you have to do is pay attention to actions and disregard words to figure that out.
Thank you
why can't you guys just TELL ME? I've spent such a huge part of my life thinking I was unlovable, only to find out that there were a few girls in my past that considered hugging me and asking me to draw them a picture "OBVIOUS" signs that they like me. or girls that set up the atmosphere like they're about to prank me then ask me out to prom and expect me not to think it's a joke :(
because everyone fear rejection and they want a guy to also put an effort
We're not dependable creatures. Why are we like that?
As caring nurturing creatures we tend to mold ourselves to do that
Dude I dated this incredibly beautiful girl, we were flirty and crushing on each other and had two amazing dates then out of nowhere she said I should find someone else, because I’m such an amazing guy and deserve someone better😟
So yeah I’d say woman are complicated creatures
If a woman tells a guy openly that they are single and available... shouldn't a guy take that as a sign? I took it as a sign a few days ago and about got my head ripped off. I don't get it.
She is single and available but she’s just not trying to be with you sorry
At this point in my life it feels like no woman wants me
she probs saw you only as a friend
It’s not that she’s just not the right woman just go try again with someone else.
Why is it that women who profit from having sexual relationships with men say, "I'm not a whore because the dictionary says that a whore is paid for sex."
Because women get called whores for things and they’re not making a profit.
And I guess it all depends on if they’re getting money for it or if it’s something else and the word is just offensive
"the word is just offensive" -- Yeah, but I'm sure bank robbers get offended when they're called criminals/thieves/bank robbers too so eh.
Not paying on first dates, not making the first move, not preferring hard-working guys at their struggle period. Why do most women behave like some kind of prize (that's why men love to collect trophy girlfriends). If men are players then women make it a game, but life is more than a game...
Well it started back in the day where families with Mary off women for money and it will be the most beautiful daughter that they have. Men will go to war for the most beautiful list woman that they have. Women I only do what we know. That’s why we dress up that’s why we work out that’s why we try to be a skinny or is whatever beauty standards there are at the moment. As far as paying for the first date. Women are in tune with getting the alpha male who takes care of a woman and pay for a woman. And we want you to take the lead as a man
Of course, then women shouldn't complain why so many guys expect sex after dinner or sooner in relationships (as they had to pay a good amount on that ), or why the alpha male is dumping them after sex/pregnancy (alpha males aren't supposed to stick around after mating). Internet is full of nice guys crying over why they can't get women and women crying over why bad men are duping them after pumping.
OK one problem with this whole thing is no I’m not gonna except you wanting sex after dinner. That’s your problem I’m going home. And leave it to you being a nice guy maybe
So you want us to settle for a beta guy? Or a guy that we don’t think can take care of us or the relied upon
We can sit there and question the whole entire thing and I mean relationship but that’ll be our downfall to
You can do whatever you want but certain things can have consequences, and you have to accept that other people will do what's best for them too. There are people with all sorts of combos.
Say now that’s when it sounds offensive. Or like a threat there shouldn’t be consequences for going on a date with someone. You shouldn’t expect to receive sex for something that I could pay for myself. If that’s the case then why not just go out as friends and I’ll pay for my half and you can pay for your half. That puts us on mutuals playing field. That way it won’t be no confusion.
I'm sorry are you being serious? The list is shorter of what I do understand and I've been married and had a girlfriend since I was 6 and I'm 53 no not the same girlfriend 300 and some of them
What that time of the month is like... I suppose it's hard to juggle the mood swings... unless one ever dates a woman or marries a woman who's never had period pain or period problems...
I'm guessing they're unicorns in rare 🙄🙄
mood swings are not always happening and it really depends on the woman
Oh. Can you help a man understand a little more. What can I say I'm a hopeless nerd a little 🤓🤓 but I hear some women use birth control to avoid altogether periods or period pain or just because they like the peace-of-mind with condoms and BC combo ☮️☮️😈😈
I don't understand why women constantly complain and are never satisfied with anything at least for very long. I also don't understand why women find hypergamy to be such a compelling strategy. Finally, I don't understand why most women don't understand how much work goes into making even just a small amount of money.
why women will always stir up some drama out of nothing, when things become too harmonious. it's almost like they can't live without drama.
Because everything is not what it seems. Normally when it’s too good to be true it normally is
see. that's the exact mindeset that looks for problems where there are none. stirring up drama out of things that would otherwise not be a problem.
@genericname85 They do that also because they're bored, testing the guy, and/or you'll find that women love to yap because it releases dopamine in their brain.
There's a great book called "the Female Brain." The author was a Feminist, but later became anti Feminist because of Neuroscience and wrote her book.
@Inbox yeah i do actually know why they do it as well :) but i find that most girls don't. and i feel like if they did and if they'd just be a bit more self aware, that could make life on planet earth more pleasurable for all of us xD
I’m only going by what has happened in the past. I’m not looking for anything to be wrong but at the same time you can’t just let your guard down and think that it’s all perfect. It’s not no one‘s test thing a guy is just and we’ve had our own traumas so we can’t just let go and think it’s just what it is no
"you can’t just let your guard down and think that it’s all perfect" you absolutely can. that's what trust means ina relationship. and of course it would be foolish to trust someone like that whom you only started dating. but long term, a relationship without that, is not worth while, cause that negative problem creating mindset will always find a fly that you can make an elephant out of.
by the way, i'm in no way triyng to be mean or something. sometimes i sound a bit rough. i don't mean it. i just think this is a very common problem that "mostly" women have. some men sure too. but not that often.
I guess they want more excitement and emotional stimulation
@devilish-cutie nothing wrong with wanting that? but why try to get that at the cost of the integrity of a relationship?
well usually then there are underlying issues, be it within relationship or within themselves
sometimes also some can be more ambitious than the partner and that can creat friction
@devilish-cutie well sure. i'm not talking about those things that can be solved by having a good conversation with your partner. i mean they are your partner, cause you can discuss thost things right?
i mean when things completely get out of hand with emotional drama and her crying and shit, just to find out 2 weeks later that she's sorry about making a scene about shit that doesn't eally matter. it's not that "i" say those things are not worth drama. it's that they say that and are sorry about it... yet they will do it again periodically.
ok in that case probably cause men were conditioned to supress their emotions and women aren't s a lot of them express them freely. We are all emotional beings and get mood swings, for women is just more free to express their emotions than men. A lot is in the temperament. Some women also say they get mood swings cause of perios. And as a i said most likely is underlaying issue, if not in a relationship then within themselves; they have some issues w themselves... it might not have anything to do w relationships. Thats why relationships r hard as all humans are flawed and a lot not mature enough for solid relationship
@devilish-cutie men also have mood swings xD we can be depressed at times and see evertything from a more negative point of view. but emotions are not what determines our behavior. emotions are just your brains tool to helpo you fix something. and that tool is not always reliable. so i guess men learn when an emotion is helpful and constructive and when it's just abrasive and not helpful.
of course menn still feel those things fully. i guess that's what the "provider role" is. you can't burden your partner with those thigns. you have to protect them from that negativity that can be within yourself at times. i feel like women don't have that consideration lots of times. they'll just let it all out with not much consideration for their partner.
@devilish-cutie because believe it or not, those things hit us very hard too. but that shit would spiral completely out of control if men just let their emotions dominate like girls do sometimes.
yeah i said everyone has mood swings which applies to men too and as i also said men more keep it inside cause of our conditioning. But the problem w men and emotions is that men are too quickly to disregard emotions that can be very relevant as they are baically indicator of your morals and value system, also men can keep shit in too long and than explode.
@devilish-cutie why do you think men do that? cause they love falling apart cause they can't take suppressing their emotions anymore? no. it's cause weakness isn't an option in most cases... cause life is tough... cause they're the only ones that keeps things together. and if they fall apart, everything in their life will fall apart.
but think about it. what happens when a woman breaks apart? the man will take care of her, till she can stand on her own 2 feet again. what happens if a man breaks apart? the woman will leave him for someone else that can be a better partner for her... of course not "always" but most times. how many homeless unemployed women do you see? how many women do you see on the other side that get a divorce or break up cause their partner lost their job and goes through a difficult time of depression and having to rebuilt themself...
i really don't mean to shit on women. that just seems like the reality to me, that explains why men are like that...
that way of thinking is our conditioning, in my opinion we both should support eachother, anyone can be in time of crisis. Divorce and giving up on your partner usually depends on the level of your loyality as a person. If a woman expects a guy to not ever show his weak side, i wouldn't persoanlly be w such woman. Men should have higher standards. People are in all sorts of relationships situations that we nothing about. If you truly love someone you ain't just gonna leave them w first issue. That shows how strong therelationship is and love for eachother. Women usually leave men cause those men dont work on themselves and resolving their issues; a lot of them think they can change him etc. Basically those things are more complex. Male ego is also often the problem and reson why they keep it all inside but society made such terms too. But ifyou areseveral years in a relationship normal woman would want and expect emotions from a guy. And at the end noone of us can truly hide how we truly are and what is being supressed will always resurface.
@devilish-cutie well divorce rates tell the story that it is factually true that men can't fall appart, cause women will more likely leave than carry them till they build themself back up... so is that conditioning? or is that just the cold hard reality?
@devilish-cutie i know those things are fairly complex. but i think just calling it "conditioning" is dismissive of what happens in the real world.
no, you cannot put cause of divorce as men falling apart
in my experience there are many causes but most often isthat those men are not willing to put in the work to resolve relationship issues
men also stick to relationships only cause of sex and they are usually being the ones that cannot function without a woman if she leaves them as they could only be emotionally open w her and they dont want to and kinda can't get back to before when they werent that way w anyone
@devilish-cutie "they are usually being the ones that cannot function without a woman" what makes you think that? like don't we live in a supposed "patriarchy" where men exert dominance over women by earning more than them and keeping them out of jobs? like if that's true, then how can me "not function without a woman"? i mean more men are single than women. that's also a fact. and more men are long term single than women. so how do you substentiate the claim that men are less able to live without a woman? yeah men have a harder time finding sex. but that's hardly a reason a man would stick with a shitty partner.
i meant when a man can be emotionally open i only with a woma and once he experiences that its hard for him to not be able to be that emotionaly open anymore and therefore he "cannot function without a woman" to the point hed stick w shitty relationship. But both men and women have really hard time as anyone being alone, its natural to seek partner and a relationship.
And as soon as you let your guard down a guy can walk all over you and you won’t be able to get your ass back up. Love hurts sometimes and a lot of guys aren’t good guys that’s already drag the female through the mud and now you have to deal with that shit too. Again it falls back to past problems that we now have to look out for now
In those instances just be more spontaneous and add something else to the relationship if it’s just always routine then that’s
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Why do you fuck other guys but try to say you love us and always think about us while doing it and expect us to feel that justices anything?
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We don't. Insecure, immature and manipulative women do. Those are in the minority. Avoid them!!
@NicoletteXO I should have said #NotAll. I know many of you fine ladies that interact with me on here, after conversing a lot wouldn't do that to me or another guy. I'm trying to learn early warning signs before it's too late.
First nobody condones cheating!!!
If you cheated on her first and she’s just doing it out of a reaction that happened to her that’s just it. Not all women are like this sorry
@Justneedtokno 1) I've NEVER cheated on a woman in any capacity and never would. Not emotionally, physically, or anything. 2) As I stated to NicoletteXO I should have used #NotAll. But yes in my experience every woman at some point cheated on me.
Well look you don’t have to yell at me I was just saying.
I wasn't yelling. But I have never and will never cheat. Cheating isn't in my DNA. Put a gun to my head, I still won't cheat. that's the ultimate betrayal.
Ok ok ok I get it.
How can y’all like a guy but when he starts to show interest in you guys, y’all lose interest in him?
I think it has to do with HOW you show interest, and there's a lot of unattractive ways to do that, which can turn women off because it shows you're a loser instead of the hot guy she hoped you were.
Also sometimes the girl thinks the guy is too good for her and if he shows interest at the wrong time or in a lame way, he shatters the fantasy.
That's so true...
Why they assume I'm boring, but act like I'm Dexter Morgan if I know more about a subject than she does. Or scream bloody murder if I call her out and catch her in a lie.
I do not understand why girls starve themselves or overeat when they are depressed.
It’s a coping mechanism
You know half the fun of life is trying to unwrap the mysteries of any said woman is an intricacies of getting to know someone. I prefer to experience these things on my own rather than ask a woman who poses this type of question. 🌹
True but some people have questions about the simplest things when it comes to women
Under which circumstances does a woman want one specific man she'd like to live with to father her child, vs one (or many) to father it and then to live with someone entirely unrelated (or just one of the fathers).
OK one this seems specifically specific you might need to go ask that woman.
Normally oh woman wants to settle down and if she has a child with that person She bear some type of feelings for you especially if she decides to carry it for nine months. That’s a long time in a woman’s life hard long pain. Honestly not all relationships work and that area before marriage
I've seen this happen time after time. Often times the guys they have kids with aren't as desperate as they'd like
@Pillarofhell Like I said desperate that means they don’t really want to be there or be with the kids or be with the woman so they leave
I am asking as a slerm that has been kept on ice for 80 years or so
80 year 🤦♀️
I think so. Calculate when Nicholay the II/George the Vth gave his soerm, to circa 1978
No, it's the desperate guy who's easy to manipulate. They're easier to get to pay for kids sports, dinners out, Christmas gifts, etc. While their baby daddy is probably spending all his money as soon as he has it
@Pillarofhell this is all outliers/worst cases we are discussing here, by the way
Yeah that’s all sounds really bad