Why has her behavior changed?

[Anonymous]

She and I were really good friends. We argued sometimes (mostly she criticized me for nothing) and oneday she said she didn't want to talk to me any more. I don't know why she said that. Anyway she haa stopped talking to me. She only sends me abbreviations like tmr. Today i showed her a picture of pigeons she read it instantly but hasn't replied yet. Why has her behavior suddenly changed?

[Doodle89]

There could be many reasons. Girls tend to have a habit of being a little complexed even if they aren't meaning to or think they are.
Does she have a boyfriend? Are there other guy friends that could be coming out of the friendzone? If she's a b***h family members or other friends might not lime you, have you met any of them? You could have said something that hurt her feelings. Do you have many female friends? Or a girlfriend? Somebody from your circle could have said something to her. I mean the reasons why can go on and on, so ask her. Point out how she use to be with ypu and how she is now and ask why the change. Tell her to be honest with you. If its something you did your like to know so you won't make the same mistake. If its toxic people thats whispering in her ear tell her to think for herself. If it relationships on either side (you or her) then respect the boundary. If its because feelings were getting caught for you by her then decide quick real quick if it goes both ways.

[Asker]

No she doesn't have a boyfriend and me neither. What do u mean by "dexide quick if..."?

[Doodle89]

Well just that if she has started to get feelings for you she could be thinking that they're not returned so she's decided to put space in between y'all. When I said decided quick I just meant in case you had feelings for her too (if thats even why she's started acting different) but were worried about f**king up the friendship that there use to be. Thats all.

[Asker]

Do girls call the guys they like they are stupid or dumb? Ahe always called me dumb or stupid

[Asker]

It doesn't make sense right? She always called me dumb or stupid haha

[Doodle89]

Yes as weird as it is and kind of mean but yea. I dont know how it was for you or boys in general but my parents use to say to me when I was a kid if the boys mean to you it means he likes you. Or my cousin would get asked by her parents why are you being so mean to him? Do you like him other something?

[Asker]

Thank you for your adivice. I will turn her down if she ever asks me if I like her. Coz she and I live in different countries and I don't want to leave my country. It means she should come to my country if we ever go out. She won't have no friends or won't be able to smoke weed which she likes and smoking weed is banned in my country. I do really hope her to be happy and therefore she and I can't be together.

[ChrisMaster69]

🤦 I can’t believe you did that.

You showed her the Bird.