I'm friends with a girl. We agreed to just be friends and left it at that, however I've felt like we've both started to become interested in eachother recently.
Our chemistry is genuinely the best I've experienced with a person and while we have slept together before, it was a drunk mess. I really want to do it again, but I feel like it could ruin the friendship and I don't know if I want to risk it.
Things have escalated and we now casually get into my bed and watch movies, although there's no touching. On Sunday however we went on a trip and she was in a great mood, she was so fun and energetic. We were both very touchy and had a great time and she even said she'd like to holiday with me next month. We then began making sexual jokes about eachother and really got into it, even joking about the time we did fuck. Anyway she came back to mine to watch a movie and I have no doubt in my mind she was willing to fuck me. It was so obvious, but I just wasn't sure if I wanted to risk it. She then got tired, her mood changed and she went home.
We went for lunch today and her mood was a bit off. She wasn't cold but it was flat. We then went to the beach and I tried seeing how she was with me. She let me hold her fingers and she let me hold and rub her feet and had zero issue with something that I'd deem intimate. Eventually though she got irritable and wanted to leave. She wasn't mean but just didn't want to talk or touch much and got kinda grumpy.
She then returned to normal texting when she got home. We're going bowling tomorrow with her best friend and her boyfriend and said she might come back and stay after, however I've noticed that she now denies saying she'd stay the night after a movie and she seemed less enthusiastic about a holiday. I joked about her coming back tomorrow snd she said if she had her way she'd rather not be in my bed at all. I'm just really confused at what's happening
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It's difficult to say for sure what might be causing her mood changes, as there could be many possible factors at play. However, it's important to remember that everyone has their own thoughts, feelings, and boundaries, and it's important to respect these.
It's possible that she may be feeling unsure or conflicted about the possibility of a romantic or sexual relationship with you, and this could be affecting her mood and behavior. It's also possible that she may be dealing with other personal or external factors that are affecting her mood.
To help address the situation, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with her about your feelings and intentions, and to listen to her own thoughts and feelings as well. This can help to clarify any confusion or uncertainty, and can also help to establish clear communication and boundaries.
However, it's important to approach this conversation with sensitivity and respect, and to be prepared to accept her response, whether it is positive or negative. Ultimately, it's important to prioritize the well-being and comfort of both yourself and your friend, and to approach any potential romantic or sexual relationship with care and mutual respect.
She wanted you to fuck her like a man and you didn't. So she's upset that she went out on her boyfriend and didn't even get fucked.
She's a stupid hoe and you should steer clear
Sorry, when u said her boyfriend I meant its her friends boyfriend hahaha
Oh! Lol
Sorry, disregard that
Still, she probably wanted to have sex and might be a little upset about that. She might've gotten all dolled up for you and felt rejected when you didn't make a move
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