So things have been heating up with a friend recently. Last night she stayed awake until I was finished work at 2am so we could have a phone call.
She usually comes to watch netlfix and the movie rarely ever matters. We were on about watching a horror tomorrow or Wednesday but either was fine.
I woke up this morning to videos and memes she sent me and I replied. When she got her lunch break at work she started texting me and sending me memes until it was done and everything seemed fine.
Then a few hours ago I seen a funny video and sent it to her on Instagram and didn't think much of it. I decided to text her to see what the story was with the movie and she suddenly seemed really distant. She was sending me snaps and all she was doing was at home watching TV with her parents, yet she sent short responses, took a while to reply and then said that she's suddenly not sure about the movie and it would depend on what the movie is and if she's bothered? The movie has never been an issue, and horror was her idea. She then just didn't bother confirming the plans before going asleep and when I checked Instagram I found out that she seen the video I sent, but didn't bother replying to it nor did she bother react to my responses to hers or anything which was so odd and completely unlike her
I'm just a bit confused, recently she replies straight away, we plan things out super quick. Even up until like 5pm today she was being very interested. From her lunch break to her going home she's completely changed and suddenly seems like I'm not important. I'm curious if maybe it's some sort of shit test or if there's an actual reason for this?
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It's difficult to say for sure what caused your friend's mood to suddenly change, as there could be a number of different factors at play. It's possible that something happened in her personal life that is causing her stress or anxiety, which could be affecting her behavior towards you. Additionally, she may simply be feeling overwhelmed or tired, which could be causing her to be less responsive than usual.
It's important to remember that everyone has their own moods and emotions, and sometimes these can change unexpectedly. It's possible that there is nothing specific that you did to cause her behavior, and that it has more to do with her own internal state.
In terms of how to handle the situation, the best approach is likely to give her some space and not push for a response or explanation. If she wants to talk about what's going on, she will likely reach out to you when she's ready. In the meantime, try to focus on your own life and interests, and don't take her behavior too personally.
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