Why the sudden change in behaviour of my girlfriend?

[SmallBoy]

I've been dating this girl for around 9 months and we were really good friends for 7 months before that. She always used to be the one calling and initiating contact for about 14 months (everyday even as friends) but suddenly she changed and doesn't message me or call that often. When we are together however she is just as sweet as ever. When I asked her if she loved me she said "Of course." What do you people out there think is the reason?

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Thanks khanmia... Btw it would be cool if I could have more opinions... Thanks in advance!

[khanmia]

hey,

No prob:)...In fact, when I thought about your situation, it's actually the Same with me too, it sounds as if you're Me who's saying this because I have the same complaint from my boyfriend being busy with other stuff and kinda seemed different than what he was before too...so I can understand exactly what you mean and feel right now, but then what I did to come out of this thinking was that, I talked to him about it when I was unaware of things he that kept him busy. Have you tried talking to your girl yet? If not, then you should, believe me, it will keep you so much out of stress and overthinking, you seem like a caring person who's willing to get more of his girl just like I am for my man..and I know how it feels so I wana do my best to help you out of this:) Let me know how it worked out for you..good luck!

[theana]

you need to start calling your girlfriend 14 months is a very long time for a girl to do all the work of contacting when your in a relationship both of you have to do things to make it work

now its your turn for 14 months to contact her and only you contacting her not her contacting you and then you will understand were she is coming from and after 14 months of doing that you will be sick of being the only one doing it I bet she is sick of making all the effort of calling you I know you like it that she calls you but if you want to stay with her make an effort

[SmallBoy]

The thing is that I don't know if she wants me to call her or, she doesn't call me cause she doesn't feel like talking. I mean if it was number two she might think I'm bein an idiot calling her all the time when she doesn't want to talk. hmmm...

[theana]

Lol why would she think that when she did that for you for 14 months lol yes she could be busy but its a sweet thing for you to do since she did it for you go on and give it a try

[theana]

P.s. you will never know unless you try :D

[khanmia]

You should not think in a negative way about this, I'm sure she loves you, perhaps she's busy with other things surrounded, home, work, and school too perhaps? you know her more so you can get some ideas regarding her daily life stuff that perhaps aee keeping her busy, but no matter how busy she might be, it would Never change the fact that she loves you. Another way to get out of this misunderstanding is that you should talk to her about this, maybe she does not realize this little change in the relationship you both share, Remember, the best way ever to come up with any solution is to Communicate, and it also keep the relationship healthy. Hope this helps you, Good luck:)

[sweetynxtdoor818]

i think she might want you to call her more... if you care for her then call her instead.

keep it up