Guys, When we (women) post pictures like this, do you guys think we’re trying too hard to be seen?

[Anonymous]

[TheorionMage]

Adolescent females in some ways, are FAR more envious and psychologically cruel than their male counterparts. The developmental maturation of human females is fraught with self doubt and insecurities...

In NO way helped by the predominant societal 'guilt-tripping' paradigm that any NATURAL innate allure is to be enthusiastically suppressed... partly from the pragmatic intent to preclude nascent precocious impregnation and also... because the dawning awareness of heady pleasurable physical concupiscence was 'sinful' because it uncorked the 'animal nature' of humanity opposing religion's forestalled liturgical 'promise' of some nebulous afterlife 'reward' for prudish 'good' girls. Consider the lyrics of Billy Joel's "Only the Good Die Young" ---

Human history is notorious for ENTIRE NATIONS going to war over 'smoking hot' cunning women (Troy, Egypt, etc.) SO... when a pubescent early teen begins her transformation and she's confronted by envious female peers, she needs to experience firsthand incontrovertible firsthand 'proof' of her emerging allure.

One of the most contentious personal benchmarks is her transition from dowdy cotton undergarments whose function is foremost simple personal hygiene, into the sensual and intensely visually alluring engendered 'lingerie'. The former served only civilizing purpose, and a gradation from diapers; the LATER... more fitted, accentuated the female gender's physical differences and ancillarily spoke of an inclination to BE caressed and what tactile pleasure might be shared!

Such young women long cautioned to be wary of the attentions of pervy old pedophiles, begin to be cautiously curious and in one way or another actively seek out... and often awkwardly begin to imitate their society's overtly-disavowed 'naughty girl' erotica, some term 'porn'-ography, to tease their horny young male Suitors.

Tactile stimulation experience is each's objective, but NOW begins the 'negotiation' of the 'terms' of boy/girl friend, 'hooking up' and 'going steady'. A social pecking order hierarchy of 'desirability' is begun ideally WITHOUT premature life-changing long term reproductive obligations or disease. ;)

[WhateverMayBeWillBe]

Yes, I instantly & instinctively think "thirst trap", the range of thoughts are "she want's attention", "she's fishing for likes and trying to see who she can attract", "she's trying to play games or hustle desperate guys for money or ad revenue", "she's probably trying to make her Ex or current F-buddy jealous", and lastly "she probably has or soon will have an onlyfans"... but what I think doesn't matter, what does matter is how it may effect her life in both positive & negative ways.

[Wraith_Cemetery]

Obviously, it's a form of attention seeking and an attempt to receive "likes" on social media sites like Instagram. It's quite pathetic. Never will I respect a woman that does stuff like that.

What's more pathetic, though, are the men that fall for it and swarm the photos with their comments like "so sexy baby" et cetera.

Women complain about how men look at them like a physical object rather than a human; however, women already objectify themselves by posting disgusting pictures like that and the by way they act.

[MrOracle]

When I see a picture of a girl like that, it tells me that she's actively seeking sexualized attention. And she's almost certainly going to get it, so I hope she's ready for it and I hope she doesn't get offended by it, because she brought it on herself.

Girls are allowed to want sexualized attention, and some girls want that attention and are able to manage it very well. Other girls want it, but somehow think they're only going to get it from guys they think are hot, and get offended when other men (men they don't find as attractive) give them that attention - as if they're entitled to have that attention pre-filtered or something. That's not how the world works.

But, yeah, if you post pics like this, you know what you're doing, and you know what's going to happen, and so you had better own the consequences and not complain about it or get offended by it.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

You dress in a particular way, you will be seen in a particular way. Clothes are not just useful to cover your skin, they are in fact reflections of your personality. You wear what you like right? The decision of you liking and disliking things is subconsciously done by your personality.

With such lucky women as shown in the image, the attention automatically shifts to them. Some women try to make other people look at them by deliberately dressing up as shown whereas other women just dress up like that because they like the dress and the showcasing is the last thing on their mind.

To answer your question, the two types I said in previous paragraph are really difficult to tell apart, so I don't really know.

[humpbackjack]

Most guys aren’t tripping on whether she wants to be seen or not they just want to see more. For the most part I think she might just be proud of her body or whatever besides this is no deferent than posting a picture in a bikini if she was my daughter I would have a talk with her about being smart and safe and make sure she’s not having any body image issues but that’s all of course my girls are grown so they’re gonna do what they want and that’s fine but if this girl isn’t being coerced into this and is grown then that’s her business and if we don’t like it move on

[TheSpaceGnome]

I think:
1. She wants attention, maybe an SO to love her, maybe casual sex, hard to say.
2. Or she wants money and is trying to sell her looks to get it.
3. If a guy did this, or complimented/invited a girl who did it, he'd stand a high chance of ridicule.
4. The only reason the poses don't look ridiculous when women do it, is because we are too busy staring at 3 or 4 focal points to notice.
5. boobs are nice.
6. When showing them off, why wear a bra? either she wants them to be seen or she doesn't.
7. Why do some women show off in a lewd way to lots of men online or in messages unsolicited and no one is offended, but then if a guy does it, it's sexual harrassment?

But trying too hard to be seen? I mean whats that even mean? either you succeed at being seen, or you don't, I don't really think any further about that.

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[JBlade]

Not only is this the best comment, it's hilarious and true.

[RawIronhide]

Hey man, it ain't simpin to tell a girl she looks good when she does. but you funny.

[DonkeyDan]

Best comment of the day 🏆

[haveakiller]

@RawIronhide SIMP

[MyLastRemnant]

Well all I see is a girl wanting attention. Not a girl I'm interested in or even think is a person I would wanna talk to. Just someone who has nice tits, all I see them as is the tits. If you don't want that attention don't make your tits half the screen.

[Lliam]

It looks like you are saying you love cock and can take on anything a man wants to dish out. Not that there's anything wrong with that at all. It's kind of admirable when a woman is comfortable with her body and knows how to use it. I'm not sure if I would trust such as woman as a life partner, though.

[Romulus8817]

Lmao yes. It's no secret that boobs are a turn on for 99.99999999% of men.

You post a picture like this, and it screams "Look at my tits!"

I mean why else would you post a picture of yourself in your bra on social media other than the "Wonder how many like this will get and if that one dude I think is hot will like it?"

You aren't fooling anyone lol.

For what it's worth, guys do the same shit.

[NetSapien]

Nah.. I honestly don't waste the mental energy going through the process of figuring out the intent behind posting these images.

I do what I know how to do. I admire the images for what they are and feel a little grateful for being allowed to see them.

[jshm2]

No. You're just being desperate for any attention, and then get riled up when the wrong sort of attention comes.

There is always etiquette and aesthetic when making pics. Just putting yourself out there, means you're lowering your standards to "free lunch". Few knock back a free lunch.

[genericname85]

yeah. and i find it quite hilarious that this type of girl typically complains about only finding douchebags and assholes and consequently hating men for being toxic. when it's their very own behavior that repells decent guys and attracts the human trash they are complaining about xD

[Fireguy17]

it still comes down to your personality vs how much you were able to pay for fake boobs.
I have met many people like that over the years, and their personality was just as fake as her boobs.
But some people are attracted to that so you might be a good match.

[humanearth]

Well when I was young, women couldn't do this back then. The technology was not here yet.

So I see it as the new way of doing the same thing when I was young.

Girls used to flash us in person and now its done digitally.

Same thing just doing it in a new way

[Anonymous]

When a girl posts deliberately revealing photos, that definitely tends to mean the girl really wants people to notice her and praise her appearance. It's the same thing with guys though. When we post pictures of us shirtless and flexing our muscles, we are trying to show off our strength and we hope it makes us seem more attractive.

[dsgaboy]

I think when women do this they are saying look at me but only if your the one person I want that looks at my that I'm attracted to, all others will be looked at as creeps. I can't stand a NON CLASSY WOMAN!!! Put some damn clothes on

[Oigit]

To me it is attention seeking attention then anything else. To me it's it's also boring as all hell. It's really hard to be excited on Christmas morning when I know what I'm getting. Leaving things to my imagine is way better to me.

[TruthBringer]

It means you're both an attention hoe AND a hoe, and therefore aren't worthy of being seen as anything more than a warm pleasure hole.

[Shortman70]

I really like the last one, you're wearing the best thing in your wardrobe. Your smile is the best part, the rest kinda makes you look needy, desperate. I think anyway, just an opinion.

[ShadezMcgee]

Attention seeking to include sexualized attention. Validation to come from an abundance of men.

In short, yes. It is seen as attention seeking. Do not enable.

[MCheetah]

I think it's an attention whore, thot, retard/idiot, or all of the above. It looks so trashy. Yes, some men would fap to them but none of us respect it.

[DaveJord]

Yes, I definitely think you're in need of, or search for validation, due to some type of underlying insecurity, or need for attention, and reassurance.

But we don't mind, keep them coming.

[LikeALog]

Yes. I sometimes suspect she may be narcissistic.

I pass by those.

[smølf]

No man likes when a woman displays herself to everybody, to ourselves sure, but not to everybody else. Keep this in mind, make the man feel special too, just like you want to feel.

[ZackBan]

More like trying too hard to be f*cked. Which is weird considering how many option any woman who looks like that has

[FunkyMonkee]

I seriously doubt you could be missed even if you were fully clothed!! They turn the corner before you do!! Do you ever have trouble slipping through narrow openings?

[HappySquarePants]

It's not a problem with me. It's your SMA. You're free to post whatever ya like.

Tongue-out photos are HOT. Alongside photos of high-in-antioxidants "fruits". It's cold and flu season people; protect yourself via your girl's apples.

[TheBigGuy9]

Woah. Those are some nice huge breasts.
Umm, depends on the context of everything. I personally don’t think so, but that’s just how my mind works. I always say if you have it, flaunt it. Won’t get any arguments here.

[t-8900]

Flipping the bird is never attractive. And ya I wouldn't show myself like this with my face and underwear both exposed to just anyone

[Anonymous]

Sort of. Whenever a woman shows an overabundance of skin randomly. I think she feels that is her best asset and I find that sad.
Of course I can be aroused as any man can. But a truly remarkable woman can entice a man without resorting to that.