You look fine.
one of the biggest problems everyone faces is that of social media photos.
often these are airbrushed and filtered to hell, it’s one of a 1000 photos taken to get it just right, it’s on a high end camera with lighting.
We then take our photo on a normal camera phone, no filters and one shot, then wonder why they look so much better.
a good way to start liking yourself is to do some running and core body work outs, these will tone you up and you will feel good. This is good for anyone no matter how they look.
finally, don’t over think stuff, this type of thing just eats at your mind, if you can sit down with a counsellor and talk it through.
learn to like how you are and accept yourself as a person.
we are all different.
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I'm honestly not sure why you feel the same way you do or how. But I can tell you as an adult male, I harbor the same feelings and hatred towards my own physical appearance. Part of it from being unacceptable to like 99% of women out there. Part of it from being too f*cking short (181 cm, or 71 inches) for both women and society as a whole to be respected. And part of it from my own eyes.
I cannot help you. But the only thing I remember someone telling me is to "go to the gym" to raise your self esteem. It didn't work for me, though. I can't workout to grow any taller.
these social media and hollyweird botoxed clowns-- have guys and girls so worried about how we all look. you have a thin frame, you look like you have great proportions, take a deep breath and relax you are beautiful
Considering you're a minor, might I suggest you put some pants on...
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you look just fine, but adolescence is a time where it's common for all different bits to grow at different times. Almost no one likes the way they look at your age, and those who do tend to not like the way they look after they hit 20 or so. But if you want advice I'd say just focus on trying to develop a steady but manageable exercise routine. It could just be a mile jog. A brisk walk. 50 Sit ups. 100 Jumping jacks. Whatever. The point is really the endorphins more so than actually getting into shape. But you'll find getting into shape is a handy benefit.
Okay, most of your body is covered in that flowery bodysuit thingy, and it's not even a full length shot.
FINAL SCORE: IncompleteI think your crazy... nothing promotes your insecurities more than this post. That you need validation from strangers is very unattractive.
You look amazing... but its the insecurities that are probably affecting your dateability. If I met a girl like you, and you said you think your unattractive with that body... I would think you're highly insecure and I probably not want to date you. I want a confident women in public and in the bed room.Because you’re probly focusing on your flaws and maybe comparing yourself with the airbrushed models that you see in vogue and GQ.
by the way, hate to say it, but I was able to guess your age without checking it and without seeing the pic. In other words, this is a typical question from a young, immature gal who is overly concerned with her appearance.I don't know what you are talking about.
The girl in the picture has a very attractive figure.
"Pale"? What is wrong with that?
Pale/porcelain skin is my favorite and I find it the most attractive type.
Acne? That will go away in time. I don't think most have any negative thoughts about that because it isn't permanent... they are short term blemishes.
I think you are being way too critical of yourself. The girl in the picture is very attractive.Looks mean so little! Ur body is perfect because it’s urs :) don’t judge urself so harshly! Attitude is contagious! Once you start viewing urself better, other people will too! Have some faith in urself!
In my experience, women pick out one thing about themselves and magnify it into horrible. Guys don't do that. From what I can see, you body is great. Really great. I have found that certain food would cause me breakout problems. It is different with all people. I see it as kind of an allergic reaction. But is should get better as you get older.
You really shouldn’t be posting pics like that. There are too many creeps on this site that will try to take advantage of you
You look fine to me. You are certainly are not overweight. My wife also felt unattractive at your age. Looking at pictures of her I see a very attractive young woman.
You're fine kid. Just learn to love yourself and your body and everything will work itself out fine. Your acne definitely ain't gonna last long. Nothing is wrong with you
You are young, as you mature your body will change, so don't worry about it.
That is just a part being the age you are.
Once you get older you will start wishing for what you have now.You look pretty normal and nice dear, don't sell yourself short.
The pictures you see online are mostly filtered and too edited, don't compare yourself to them.
You look beautiful and according to your age you will develop more beautifully.you have a nice body!! Wth are you talking about XD
I don't know you got pretty looking body to me nice flat stomach wide hips , good breast size and your thighs shows you looks like a nice butt.
You are brave for posting your first pic. Was that scary? Looks ok but I don’t see pale skin as it’s covered. Did you try other angles for a pic?
Maybe stand straight up like a normal person if you want people to actually see what you look like?
Honestly been better off just showing a regular picture because from What i can see you look fine. Just drink water and use acne cream
You are culturally programmed to be insecure so you consume more products.
You look fantastic, I think a lot of girls experience what you are dealing with right now, but focus on being positive.
You have a great figure. You have absolutely nothing to feel insecure about. Just have confidence in yourself.
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