I feel insecure about how I look like and can't feel enough ?

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I really feel very insecure about how I look like, I'm coming from half white half arab dad and white mom. But I look like pretty much arab. I could easily count as Spanish Italian or north African and North Indian. Here the some pictures of some random girls which are very similar to me with face and hair etc. I feel like guys wouldn't like me cause I'm not white, I'm not saying I'm black but I'm not white either, is is true guys don't like it?

I feel insecure about how I look like and cant feel enough ?

I'm shy and I always have this thing and I guess it is what makes me afraid of flirting with males due to this I never had boyfriend although many people around of me said me I look pretty. Any girls out there who feels like that how you got rid of that feeling?

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

It doesn't matter what jeans your parents have that you have inherited what matters is that you like yourself and you understand that each and every single one of us in a roundabout way we're in the same boat every single one of us is our own person when you say white or when you say dark skin not one of us had the same exact pigment of skin so when you put things in a category or you put a title on things it changes the outcome of Who You Are you are you that's the bottom line you are beautiful you are confident you are happy you are smart and that's who you are and you cannot like that or love that and you need to look a little bit deeper because it's not about the color of skin it's about who you are on the inside the outside is all just an extra bonus when you have to start labeling skin color or where you're from that changes who you feel that you are you're a human being you're a beautiful woman except that and everybody will accept you I mean when I look at you I don't look at your skin tone maybe in the summertime I would because you would be just absolutely radiant because you have a more deeper tan than I do but I look into your eyes and I want to know who you are on the inside I want to know about your heart I want to know about your happiness I want to know how smart you are I want to know how beautiful you are on the inside the outside is just all an extra bonus

Datboi65 · Accepted Answer

What are you talking about? So you're not insecure about your looks, you're apparently insecure about your ethnicity, is that right?

I'm black and I grew up around Arabs who would regularly call me an ape, a monkey, blackie, ugly and all kinds of disgusting names under the son. Guess what? Didn't let that affect me one bit. I'm very confident, and not to sound cocky but I'm somewhat more on the attractive side, because I have received enough compliments in my life to know that.

What is the moral of the story? You said it yourself "many people around me said I look pretty" so BELIEVE WHAT THEY SAY. Stop trying to be a white woman, you will never change your DNA. You know what I don't do? I don't bother ask women if they find black men attractive, because I'm not gonna magically transform into another race if they reject me, I will just move on. You can't win them all, so stop trying to be someone that you're not.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Most guys do not care about skin color, we mostly care about facial and body proportions, and thick scalp hair. So if your skin shade is all you are worried about, stop worrying. People fap over comic book "aliens" with orange, blue, or green skin, pretty sure tan skin isn't going to put people off.

MCheetah · Answer

I think this is one of those posts from perfect looking 5'10" women making six or seven figures with perfect genetics who every guy calls beautiful but still complain that they're "ugly" anyway.

Anonymous · Answer

Well you're very gorgeous and stunning I swear, and most people will find it more shocking to hear of a woman that is decent looking to have never dated then compared to a decent looking guy who has never dated since women are not expected to do the pursuing like men are.

Guy13 · Answer

No, you are very wrong and surely more critical of yourself than is necessary.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

It looks fine. Try to ignore all the race shit that liberals keep harping on about.

DavidRaul · Answer

No thats not true. If you look anything similar to the above pictures, you are really beautiful. You don't have to worry about anything.

mobiusforniner · Answer

I find indian woman absolutely gorgeous... you have no problem

Anonymous · Answer

Fuck white people. You're gorgeous. -love, a white person

skyee_727 · Answer

no offense but those are 3 images of literally different people

JohnK123 · Answer

How? U look so good  lmao pm if u want…. but srsly u look great

Anonymous · Answer

get off your high horse you're not getting no ego boost

Anonymous · Answer

I would date these women. I am sure there are plenty of guys who would date you.

Anonymous · Answer

I would like you and like you a lot

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