I confessed to my crush last week, but she asked me questions after she rejected me?

[Anonymous]

I confessed to my crush last week, then she rejected and we talked a bit.

I've asked her "are we still good?", then she just asked me the following questions, "what are the things about me that made you have feelings for me? Like what kind of a person do you think I am?".

I answered and she said yes to my question. But I still don't understand why did she ask? Could anyone help, please? Thank you.

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I asked her the reason, she just said "just wanted to make sense of it/clear it up"But when I asked her "are we still good", why did she asked those instead of say yes to my question? That's a test or something?

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Although I still don't understand why she ask about me and said we are still good after I gave her my answer, she seems a bit confused about it.

[caring__1]

It could be she is curious about the signals she sends out to people, so she can alter her behavior to attract the type she's interested in attracting. It can be hard to attract those you want to attract if you have no idea what people are seeing in you. She was hoping to learn from you, to improve the results of her actions.

[Asker]

I asked her the reason, she just said "just wanted to make sense of it/clear it up"But when I asked her "are we still good", why did she ask those before said yes to my question? That's a test or something?

[Asker]

Sorry, I was supposed to post in another reply. But you can still answer if you want to :)

[caring__1]

Her question could possibly be a test. Sometimes we test the water to determine an appropriate response. When we care about people, we don't want to give more or less than they are comfortable receiving. Only she has the answer to this question. Since she felt it was OK for her to ask her question of you, there's nothing wrong with posing a similar question to her. You could say, "I've been doing some thinking about our last interaction, as I also like to learn from my experiences, and I find myself curious about your question as to what I see in you. Any clarification you can offer would be greatly appreciated. I would like to see that through your eyes. I do wish you happiness and fulfillment in your life."

[noohair]

Some people can't believe that anyone can be attracted to them.
But there is a chemistry thing and you can't fix that if both folks don't feel it.

[Greedier]

Probably asked out of curiosity or she was confused about whether or not reject you was a good decision.
But likely she just wanted to check out the reason you liked her.

Best way to know why she asked is to ask her own.

[Asker]

I asked her the reason, she just said "just wanted to make sense of it/clear it up"But when I asked her "are we still good", why did she ask those before said yes to my question? That's a test or something?

[Greedier]

Yeah, it's really weird that she instead of answer just asked you those questions...

I'd say it's just her own way of being but not so sure, sorry :/

Maybe that was a test or maybe not, depends on her personality.

[Anonymous]

I hate when people act like this. It's an ego boost. Move on

[Jamie05rhs]

The best part about Lesbian relationships is watching women being confused by other women. I am enjoying this very much.
#nowyouknowhowitfeels

[boggboss]

Sounds like she wanted to know why u liked her

[bean2k21]

some people just don't like burning bridges