What makes you obsess over a man?

[Anonymous]

What’s that one thing? Be real and brutal ladies. Guys can answer on what they think it is too!

Good looks

Tall guy / physique

Rich/successful

Really interesting/intelligent guy

Really caring guy

Social status / how well respected

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[Prettygurl12]

Any combo of any of the ones listed, I guess. I know that when I met my husband I was really impressed with how smart he was.

I know we were in quite young (middle school) but I thought he was brilliant lol I was fascinated by how his mind worked.

Lucky for me he grew up to be super hot too lmao I grew up to be pretty okay 😂🙃

[Asker]

Awesome I’m happy for you! How does his brain work?

[Prettygurl12]

Like a super power. He's analytical and will talk things out throughout his decision making process. One of my sources of entertainment is to come up with a random situation and problem and then ask him to solve said problem given the parameters provided and his thought process is very interesting.

I'm the type of person who has Plans A-F for almost everything I do and he doesn't think like that.

[Asker]

Sounds good. What’s his career? You don’t have to answer if it’s personal. Does he apply that skill in that career?

[Prettygurl12]

He's a lawyer. The way he thinks works very well in that career field.

[Asker]

Oh right and you’re a wedding planner, random guess? You like planning 😂 lol what do you do? Lawyer too?

[Prettygurl12]

😂😂😂😂 Cop. 👮🏼‍♀️

[Asker]

Oh shit. Don’t shoot me officer haha. I hate male cops, we need more females.

[Prettygurl12]

My hope in life is to never have to shoot anyone.

I would probably make a kick ass wedding planner though 🤔

[Little_Bumblebee]

There is no "one thing". It all depends on the guy.
I once worked with a guy who I talked really well with, always happy and once I noticed he smelled incredible, I got a crush on him for a while.

A few days ago I was at a place where the guy working there had a great voice, I could easily crush on him.

Another one was good at playing badminton.

[_乃尺OЩ刀_TITI]

Not listed. If someone obssess over someone, that person is fucked in the head. It's a mental health issue.

[Asker]

Ok not literally

[sensible27]

Depends on your meaning of obsessed no

[sensible27]

If you're not this I don't know if someone can ever truly love you,

[Somegirl678]

im gonna be honest, i know guys dont like to hear this lol but really i obsess over alpha males. those guys that take charge and act confident, macho and they dont take shit from other people. i like their attitude and charm.

[Anonymous]

They are owned by big dick.

[Asker]

Thanks I have one 😘

[Opinion Owner]

Well then just walk around wearing a T-shirt that says "8 inches."
Women will probably just follow you.

[Asker]

They would do the opposite and take pics

[Opinion Owner]

There's a few that will ask if it's true.
Those ones will give you their numbers and probably cheat on their husbands with you.

[Asker]

Bro why are you saying these lies? Are you small? I’ve read that the people with the healthiest sex lives are normal. I’m not normal and I don’t have a sex life yet

[Opinion Owner]

There must be something else about you that is holding you back.
My dick is only 6.5 inches, but I have had many relationships because I have other qualities.
Of course they would still cheat on me with a guy that has 8 inches, but that's after a long time.

[Aurora1010]

His attitude

[Asker]

Expand please

[Aurora1010]

His confidence, intelligence, and how he treats me and others

[Asker]

Random question. But do you deserve it? This real special guy? We all want things and forget to look in the mirror. Not saying you are.

[Aurora1010]

Yes I think I do

[sensible27]

@asker I don't really know if I do

Also, "Expand" : )) (dunno why but it sound so odd)