Why would a woman keep telling me on social media to come visit her soon when she said that she would be coming back in the next 2 weeks?

[FruDawg1]

This woman lives 4 and a half hours away from me

[Avicenna]

That's a general invitation- you still need to nail down the details

[FruDawg1]

I always respond and say that I’ll send her a Dm or a text

[Avicenna]

No, that's too vague. You need to give her max 3 specific options as far as date/time. Since you live pretty far away, you need to be more precise to show you're serious. When you are specific, you put the ball in her court to accept or decline.

[FruDawg1]

I mean to sort out the details

[Avicenna]

Again, that is too vague. Sort them out then when you have her attention. She might make other plans.

[FruDawg1]

I went out for coffee with her a couple weeks ago, but had me meet her at a thrift store. She sent me a video of herself walking through the store before meeting up with her. Two of her main questions to me were: are you single? And are you interested in anyone?

[Avicenna]

Did you feel a connection with her?

[FruDawg1]

Yeah, I did. Plus, she really adores my family, especially my mom. I met her a few months ago while on vacation with my parents. It was my second time meeting her in person and first time spending time with her one on one

[Avicenna]

Well, just nail it down, that's all I can advise

[Avicenna]

Sounds like she wants you to take the lead