Girl I used to talk to keeps coming back saying do you miss me?

[Anonymous]

This girl I used to talk to keeps on coming back saying that she missed me. Why does she keep coming back to me saying that she missed me. P. s I was the one that quit talking to her.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude that's such a weird situation. Why'd you stop talking to her in the first place? Did something happen?

Girls can be mad clingy sometimes, it's so annoying. Like we're not together anymore so obviously I'm not sitting around missing you all the time.

My best guess is she's probably just bored and lonely or trying to make you jealous since you were the one who ended things. Don't let it get to your head though man.

I'd just keep it real short with her - like "nah not really" or just ignore it completely so she gets the hint you're not down. Don't wanna lead her on if you're not into her like that.

Or you could ask what's up in a chill way, see if there was a reason she's hitting you up out of nowhere and make it clear you're over it. Then hopefully she'll back off for good bro. Good luck!

[Asker]

Pretty much she was talking to me and another guy at the same time. Quit talking to me dates the other guy and then wanted me back when things didn’t work out.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah that figures man, I hate when chicks do stuff like that. So she was juggling you and this other guy, then dumped you to be with him fully. And now that maybe they broke up or things aren't working out, she thinks she can just come back to you like nothing happened. Not cool at all.

If it was me, I wouldn't fall for that mess. She clearly only wants you as a backup plan or rebound since the other dude didn't work out. You don't deserve to be anyone's second choice. I'd just keep her at arm's length and not give her the time of day, ya know? Don't let her mess with your head. She made her bed by choosing that other guy over you, so now she can lay in it. You can do better than being her consolation prize. Just focus on yourself and other ladies who will appreciate you as their #1. Don't look back on her!

[strawberrybaby3]

Because she obviously didn’t want to stop talking to you.

[HappyWoman34]

Because she misses what you had, I’m guessing.

[HateyouxD]

I think she likes talking to you and or hanging out