Is it possible to be Sweet But Psycho? Have you ever met anyone like that?

Question

Why am I thinking that it is our female hormones that sometime do this to us? ... or maybe a lost love or a betrayal could trigger it?

Guys just because you seem to be able to hold your emotions together better, doesn't mean you should make fun of us for this.

Why were they accusing women in Salem Massachusetts in 1692 of being witches? ... is this why?

Doesn't anyone understand that women can get a little crazy sometimes? Why isn't that OK?

I get crazy sometimes over certain things. ... that doesn't mean I'm a witch.

I know some get more carried away than others, so what is the worst you have ever seen?

Watch and listen to Ms Ava's song about it... PLEASE!

And how about Ms Lisa's song "Psycho Girl"? :)

FunkyMonkee · Accepted Answer

Yes!! I've met a few sweet but psycho bitches!! One sweet-talked me into meeting up with her for sex and then, when I did, she said she wanted me to be the father of her 6th kid! She already had 5 others, each from a different guy.
The one that takes the cake was sweet on me when I met her online and then she wanted to call me on the phone. I gave her my number and we'd talk for an hour or two, hang up and within 5:00, she'd call back and talk for another hour or better! We'd hang up and she'd call back AGAIN!! I was spending my entire day on the phone with her!! It was getting REALLY stupid and annoying! One day, she did that and when I picked up the phone seconds after hanging up, it was her asking for my brother! Apparently, she called at one point and he answered and she started sweet-talking him, too!!
One day, I was on the phone with her and she started yelling at her kids. She had a couple pre-schoolers, and they did something she didn't want them to do, just doing kid stuff, nothing really bad, and she'd start SWEARING AT THEM like a trucker and carrying on, "GET THE FUCK DOWN FROM THERE YOU FUCKING ASSHOLE!!" "PUT THAT MOTHERFUCKING BOTTLE DOWN, YOU FUCKING STUPID CUNT!!", shit like that! That was enough for me to stay the fuck away from her!! I have issue with using those kinds of words but, you DON'T do that to kids!! ESPECIALLY your own! On top of that, she lived in a trailer and had pet RATS!! One of which was about to have babies which she was so happy and proud of!!
Well, one night, my brother wanted to go to a party he was invited to but, didn't know how to get there and asked me to get directions online (he never had a computer). I got him the directions and he went to the party. Next morning about 7 or 8 a. m., we get a call from psycho bitch! I was in bed and my mother got the call. She's asking mom if my brother is epileptic because he's on the floor at her place vibrating frantically and foaming at the mouth!! Mom gets dad, and my aunt & uncle, who are more familiar with that area, to race over to her trailer to get my brother!! We find out that she put rat poison in his orange juice that morning!!
Well, he eventually got over that but, a couple years later, he's got his best friend over with his wife and daughter. They've been over dozens of times. My parents knew this guy's family since before we were born. One afternoon, I catch the wife throwing her arms around my brother's neck and trying to passionately kiss him and he refused her! Not long after this, she starts accusing my brother of molesting her 9 year old daughter!! We eventually find out that never happened but, not before he spent 8 years in jail and, not long after he got out, jumped off a bridge and killed himself! By this time, that psycho's hubby divorced her!!

DJB72 · Accepted Answer

Know one? I was engaged to one and married another!

beenthereguy · Answer

Absolutely. The reality of human experience is that the ones that were abused as children can be the "sweetest ones" in adult life. "SICKY SWEET" can be a symptom of something TRULY psychologically abusive, narcissistic, UNSCRUPLOUS, and even sadistic. Two women wrote of it as "Sainthood" which is a woman that keeps her husband angry and depressed by denying him sex so she can rationalize having sex with OTHER men. Do you see the TWITED behavior there? She is TAKING what belong to the marital relationship and delighting in giving it to another (taht does NOT deserve it). Passive aggressive personalities cloak hostility in acts of kindness to the WRONG people. This is a truly sadistic form of passive aggression. That is like "Munchausen by proxy" but this one is so skilled she is keeping an ADULT sick in front of the experts. Do you get that? That is a woman keeping her husband sick so she can have adulterous sex. SHE has to have a "TOXIC" support group that helps her rationalize her adultery. The second part is that causing her SPOUSE pain is NO FUN unless she has a support group to share HIS PAIN with. It is also known as the "Angel & the Whore" and the "Sado Masochistic love style". Passive aggressive personalities think that they are "LOVING" when they are abusive. Your pastor could be a "sucker for that" because she "sounds so innocent". SHE is dangerous because she does NOT know that she is doing it. It takes a highly skilled expert in "aberrant sexuality" to unravel that and your pastor is NOT up to that task. Some psychologists aren't up to that task. BEWARE a "sicky sweetness".

Finchie40 · Answer

Yes most girl’s are, but some are more psycho then sweet and some more sweet than psycho , so it just depends on how she was brought up or what things happened to her in her life to make her that way , Girls have to deal with periods every month that they have no control over Shark Week lol , So all in all it just depends on how she handles and Carie’s herself , Me personally is attracted to sweet girls that can get a little psycho as long as it isn’t directed toward me lol If she is beautiful and sweet and then lashes out at something that that really isn’t that big of an issue cracks me up and turns me on , But sadly I end up with girls that are more psycho than sweet lol So still trying to find the one that is more sweet than psycho lol

hahahmm · Answer

In the old days a woman (OR man) who was talking crazy would immediately be slapped in the face. It was the old school version of all those bottles full of pills and $350/hour therapy sessions people do today. It was a way of saying, "Stop. Your feelings matter less than your responsibility to be a useful member of society/family". There's a lot less money to be made off the old ways tho.

Women are already entitled to act out much more than men so I don't see any reason for us men to cut you any more slack. It will just encourage you to get worse because it's allowed. You get 1 day a month to be a nut. But do it on your own time.

exitseven · Answer

I dated somebody who I think was bipolar. She was abused by her parents too. She would abuse me often when she was drunk. She bit me so hard I still have the scar. She would try to hit me and I would just try to restrain her. I never wanted to hurt her. Once she got away from me and hit her head. It was bleeding pretty good but I didn't want to call an ambulance. Finally I got it under control and she stormed out and drove away. She crashed her car and ended up in the hospital.
She really was a sweet kid most of the time.

ZackBan · Answer

Honestly I've been involved with quite a few psychos in a short period of time. And they were all sweet one does not negate the other in my experience.
But it's definitely not something we should be pushing as normal or as some kind of empowerment, all these wonen were very unhappy in life and that manifestated in psychotic behavior. Anyone going through that needs help.

AncientWisdom · Answer

I have to many of those. A psycho woman will get you in trouble. Having some crazy hormones is nothing compared to a psycho woman. Laws in the US tend to be biased in favor of women. A psycho , or sociopathic women is as dangerous as a serial killer , and unpredictable as a bull shark. They can ruin you with a phone call I’ve seen it done. I see one of those I run.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Id heard the "salem witches" was caused by bacteria in the harvest that year. The people were sick, but the psycho religious people thought they were possessed... so burned some to death. Is a good reminder to be careful what one believes... I'm pretty sure Jesus of Nazareth would not have done that.

Anything is possible with sub conscious emotions, and hormones.

yes.

annabananna · Answer

I had a friend who would go pretty vday and have bouts of fits. She was a very hurt woman overall and had a rough past. Really she had a sweet heart and would regret it right after having a fit. She just had a lot of pain.

humpbackjack · Answer

You mean being female this is just how it is I figured it’s just accepted I mean I don’t know if all species are this way but the human female is but whatever just gotta learn how to see it coming and bounce out for a minute before she starts throwing things

Blaine999 · Answer

I don't see why anyone would make fun of this when it's isn't restricted to women. It can happen to men, yours truly is a prime example.
My whole life I've had to be extremely careful, I can be the nicest person you'll ever meet until something triggers me, and there isn't a lot of things that don't trigger me.

dustybiker · Answer

Psychopaths will always tell people exactly what they want to hear. I’ve had my own first hand dealings with absolute crazy. They do have tells. Knee-jerk attitude which they hide again instantly. Smiley. Calculative. So many little things.

BCRanger10 · Answer

Not gonna lie, I enjoy Sweet But Psycho. I often think of my wife whenever that song plays on the radio. Maybe I'm being a little hard on myself, but it would have taken a certain kind of woman to deal with my near Adrian Pimento-style crazy XD

Anonymous · Answer

The women I know who are psycho, have real bipolar or BPD aren't sweet either. Any sweet person can lose their shit from time to time that's not psycho. However, a lot of girls are actually very moody and throw tantrums at guys. I have dealt with one so-called moody girl before and she turned out to be bipolar too, so not a fan of it at all anymore. It makes your life hell.
I am generally a very calm and caring person and in their mood, they say terrible things.

Sterbai99 · Answer

Being abel to selfcontrol is a big part a stable human. I think that being permissive to women who can’t control themself is as cultural as saying that women can’t do sports or whatever, its a cultural flaw, that is comfortable. If I had a daughter I would teach her that she can do whatever she wants and also that her hormones are not an a excuse for lack of selfcontrol.

spartan55 · Answer

They are ALL crazy, it's just a matter of to what degree.

user1516 · Answer

I would just think they’re in the process of healing by being sweet towards others because they’re hurting inside.

Swordnen · Answer

Define crazy/ psycho Coz medically : I am healthy and generally my friends describe me as psycho. I am sweet with people too.  Answer by my sister.

Nazgol · Answer

I think yes. I actually can come off a little as that lol. But I just see it as being very passionate & having a lot of love in my heart

Apulu_3 · Answer

I'm that person myself. I have a savage side and a sweet side.

the_sinner · Answer

Yeah but I mostly sympathise with them bc they must be having some strong reason for showing such kinda split personality.

Anonymous · Answer

Never. God forbid, I would never want to run into someone like that.

jimmy2 · Answer

Well think about it most killers are so nice to people

Anonymous · Answer

my favorite song, so it must be based on reality. :)

dreamsofcum · Answer

Sure it is... There is a word for it.  *Manipulation

My-lover · Answer

Finally at least someone's admiring it haha... But it's most girls like that

bean2k21 · Answer

You need to be controlled better

jahaims · Answer

Nice mentally ill people exist

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