Would You Date Someone Who Is Sweet... But Psycho?

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Meaning they are totally nice but suffer from some form of Psychosis... There are different forms of psychosis... Embedded is a video below "Sweet but Psycho" 🎀 Press play with the sound on...

ButterSauce · Accepted Answer

I was with one for a very very long time and they don't know they are suffering or causing suffering. If someone has trouble understanding or completely lacks empathy and remorse they are going to drain the life out of you until you die. No I would not date one. I did, I know.
They are extremely affectionate making it difficult to spot if you are getting into a relationship. Life is very exciting with them at first and then one day (years later) you realize you have health issues and you lost all your friends and you haven't spoken to your family in a while. You also haven't been taking part in your own interests only theirs. Would you want to date one of those types?
They are absolutely in pain and my heart goes out to each and everyone of them, but nit takes a team of professionals to keep this type of person healthy. The most complicated part is trying to get them help or trying to help them yourself. It will cost you everything you have; money, time, energy and maybe your first born.

ineedatan · Accepted Answer

"Sweet but Psycho" was playing in my head once I read the title of your question 🤣 I then played the song and started singing outloud hahaha Use to sing this in the car out loud with my girlfriends, proably looking psycho while doing so.

To answer the question, it depends if we hit it off or not, I wouldn't be 100% opposed to it. I have a friend that is bipolar and she's happily married, her husband has been fairly loving and supportive.

Makeushiver · Accepted Answer

I think most of the above examples are of relatively normal people. playing at psycho. Psychopaths are unable to feel emotion to the extent that "normal" people. are. They can seem normal because they are usually keen observers of human behavior and can mimic emotional responses w/o necessarily feeling them. Classic was Glenn Close in a movie whose name currently escapes me but she had a torrid love affair w/ Michael Douglass but went nuts- way over the top when he fried to break it off. Film is about 20 years old now but still worth watching, except for the "bunny" part.

Jamie1865 · Accepted Answer

I don't think I've ever dated a woman who's not batshit nuts. Either I attract them or all women are nuts!!! Honestly, I'm 50/50 on this!
It depends how psycho. My ex-wife was fine when we were dating but turned INSANELY jealous when got married, I mean like bunny boiler mad.
If they're just a bit... off the wall, then sure, no worries. If they have depression or anxiety, no problem. I've dealt with that before and it's not been a factor.
Jealousy is a much harder issue for me to deal with than SSRI's!!!

Apope16 · Answer

No I dont want to.. oops.. I think i have been on 3 dates with one right now.

BeyondCuriosity · Answer

I would, but I'm not sure it would be good for us. I have some sort of a mental illness going on, not something that would qualify as psychosis, but something in the general depression/anxiety sort of grey area on the mental illness map. People are quick to say depression, but I feel like there's not enough concrete evidence in the tests for that for me to claim that I have it. ANYWAY, what I'm getting at is that I often gravitate to women who are struggling in a similar way to me, because I want someone who will be more likely to understand me and I want to be there for them as well, because I have at least some sort of grasp on what it's like to go through something similar.
This all sounds well and good, people leaning on each other to get through the perpetual hard times. The problem is that sometimes both of you are in crisis mode, and instead of being a support, you sometimes make each other's issues that much harder. Sometimes I need her to help me keep from feeling really low, but she can't help me because she doesn't have the energy because she's feeling super low too, or vice versa. Just an example. So I would, and with good intentions, but I can't promise it would turn out for the best.

Sleevey · Answer

My first reaction was a joke “so you mean women in general”? But I’ve had a few girlfriends that were psycho. I question the probability that both can be true. I’d need a example of what a sweet psycho is, but date? Not on purpose. The psychos usually have their true nature hidden and reveal it after marrying you. But to be fair psycho is not a gendered thing and I’ve been friends with them. I had a friend that would Jeckle and Hyde just add booze. When he gets that look I leave. He has a habit of breaking out in handcuffs.

RACSKC0B · Answer

Oh, if they're not manic, and bipolar at the very least, it seems I'm not interested.
Doesn't really matter how hot she is either.
If she's the kinda girl that you're never sure if she would stab you in your ear while you're sleeping, then I'm interested.

RJJ33666 · Answer

I would definitely date a psycho. I mean, i can't really date normal people, whenever i try to date a normal person they just run off because i am too weird. My first date was at a paintball game center and i shot my date so many times. I wouldn't really mind if my partner has any psychosis condition. If she starts slipping from reality then i will get her back. Plus, we would be a really unique couple, unlike any.

Bearded42 · Answer

A mental illness isn't a problem the strongest relationships come from help your partner. You can hold I'm up sometimes many of my best friends are psychos and we talk about their problem and help each other. That hardens our friendship and why shouldn't you do this in a partnership?

tjbyrd39 · Answer

Absolutely have would and will. Nothing better than sexy sweet crazy I one package except for a a sexy sweet sub that gets crazy bratty. If not a sub then I'll take the chic that you crave for play time but might stick a knife to your neck when you turn your back to her.

pajamasam · Answer

No, been there and done that, the emotions and passion are off the charts, the most passionate I've ever met, but the lows come rapidly and are extreme to the point that it was tiring to be around her. The sex was amazing but we simply did not gel well. I still care about her and check in to see how she's doing but me and her both came to the conclusion that we simply were not going to work.

errorgoodnameunfound · Answer

So basically Harley Quinn? OK given so many guys are gonna immediately think of her, I think YES is gonna be an overwhelming answer. Also basically everyone is a bit psycho these days. Lets be honest :)

kespethdude · Answer

I would if I could. I'm not going to judge someone just because of mental illness. There is enough stigma already. This is yet another great post here.

TonyV · Answer

I'm already bad enough at understanding women, I eally shouldn't be around a syco woman lol, that being said if she want a one night stand I'd risk it once

Anonymous · Answer

Psychopaths doesn't necessarily mean you are crazy. A lot of people are who walk all over people and don't care who they hurt to get ahead. And they are usually emotionless. Would I date one? Maybe be willing to try. As long as they aren't like that with me. Maybe it could work who knows.

Taurus1992 · Answer

That’s a hard no I wouldn’t date a person with unmanaged mental health issues

Spherin · Answer

Yes and i have. It was a wonderful relationship about 4 years and we both grew and loved eachother. In the end we needed to travel different paths and moved away however the moments both good and bad sad and joyous were still worth every second and penny.

Hope your happy somewhere wolf;)

jacobsim · Answer

I kinda have a thing for them. couldn't tell you why maybe it's because I don't feel that mentaly stable myself and I find comfort in knowing i'm not the only one with problems

FoxnEagle · Answer

I mean, people call me crazy Why not get a little psycho in my life? :D I've heard this song before, nice to know the name and artist, thanks!

AntoMcWolf · Answer

Oh come on!!! Why shouldn't a girl be shown some love, even if she's a psychopath with a knife under her pillow? 😄 The only thing that matters is, how loyal I am to her. Yes she might've suffered from some sort of mental illness. That doesn't mean she should be deprived of any love and care that she rightfully deserves. If I had someone like that I probably would show her some extra love n care. All I have to do is be careful of who I spend time with and how. What if my girl rips out my Secretary's throat just because we out on a business dinner. Or some random girl gets stabbed cause she asked me for my recommendations on a restaurant 😂 if it was me, I'd be very very cautious and careful while dating such girl. But I definitely would date one if I got a chance 😉

wilfh1965 · Answer

Seeing a female Navy veteran she is a little crazy diagnosed but I am not worried no worse than being in the barracks on payday weekend

Lov2PlezUgurl · Answer

I HAVE AND I WILL NEVER DO THAT AGAIN AND THAT'S ALL I GOT TO SAY ABOUT THAT

NewZion · Answer

Yes. Psycho girls are the best! (No sarcasm):

goodgirl82 · Answer

No. Look the problem with this, is that being “crazy” has a place in people’s minds to something similar to a Harley Queen, but i. Real life, psychos have toxic traits and even if they are cute, they could have low self esteem and other issues. Like for example, you could end up with an attractive, cute crazy girl that is really needy and sees you as her daddy. Yeah, you can fuck her and feel like a king, but would you ever respect her? Anyway, if you are looking for a night stand, well, A lot of guys would like a girl like that I suppose.

ali92ka · Answer

It is not easy to deal with psycho.. In general, I think I can't. But I believe sometimes when things happened we may do what we are confinced that we can't!!

GOD!! It is hard to answer the question simply. lol

YHL6965 · Answer

It depends what happens during the episodes of psychosis and how it affects everyday life. Are psychotic episodes comparable to PTSD flashbacks in the way that it seems so real in many ways? What usually happens during psychotic episodes?

MyssCyn · Answer

I resemble the subject of this question. I have schizophrenia, and I've never killed anyone lol

SphynxUK · Answer

I have. I think you need to have some mental illness insight to deal with it.

RyanK9 · Answer

From your psyc chart I say absolutely no. Those people are minefields. A bit crazy like a stalker is good

Hannah591 · Answer

Probably not, unless they were receiving proper treatment.

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

Nope. That's full on crazy and is all sorts of bad and zero sorts of good.

Enochian · Answer

Yes. Personally I think those are the best kind of people when it comes to love because they love truly.

calebhall1 · Answer

Yeah If I care about you that just another part of you if I truly care it don't matter

SpiritBear · Answer

I'm gonna have to hit this question with a big fat no. I can't even handle my own mental disorders.

Jjpayne · Answer

It depends of severe it is. And how manageable it is. I'm not saying I'm not insentive but there is a point of sharing life together vs sacrificing your life to take care of them

xXMidknightXx · Answer

Nope. I date on the level. I don't bring any mental health issues to the table so I don't go looking for them.

TheAfrikan · Answer

The way I used to love that Ava song, it had a sweet message in it. So hey I guess if there Is love and connection, i would date a person with psycho behaviours

SjE78 · Answer

tbh yeah if we got on, i mean it would be hard but wouldn't be any different to some of the women i've dated before

Likes2drive · Answer

I know two women that are bipolar and one that has Aspergers , It can be tricky at times to deal with them and you have to have patience and also understand that some things they don’t really mean but it is kind of tough in a relationship

venomhbk1313 · Answer

I've been down that road before on POF no way if I did it would be a friends with benefits situation possibly

Magarmor64 · Answer

I would no doubt hands down would definitely someone who is psycho without question cause to me it would not matter cause there are times when I feel like a psycho myself 🤪😜

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I've dated 2 exp-GF's who had mental disorders, so looking for someone who can live a good life either with or without a mental illness.

Crankor · Answer

Most likely no. Id be ok with being somewhat friends if possible but i don't think it would be

dbeezy517 · Answer

Sometimes I'm afraid of my girl. She told me she would stab me if I ever cheated on her

An_Impulse · Answer

i am certified professional sociopath.. so i would love to have someone psycho <3 :D

Barry88 · Answer

Yes, I would. Of course it can be trouble, but they can be super nice as well and they might be crazy in bed!

Anonymous · Answer

I’m sweet and psycho, so yes I would definitely date someone like that.  It’s fun. But hard on the soul

legalboxers · Answer

I know 2 women who are like this. Both werent worth the time

888theGreat · Answer

Sure and 28 years old, always would keep me guessing. Would never be boring.

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

That depend on her and how bad her mental illness is

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

My wife is sweet as candy, but she can be psycho 😵 🤣🤣🤣. I probably would, yes.

Freddy78361 · Answer

Yes. The sex ins incredible. It's like a different person every time.

LEADFOOTboi · Answer

uhhhhhh... i wanna say... REDFLAG... but maybe

HonestWeirdo · Answer

If I had feelings for them then yes. As long as ni danger to my family or my pets. Somethings can be controlled with meds. Other with understanding and love.

JesseCraft07 · Answer

No thanks I'd rather have my girlfriend be sweet and not physco lol

wellendowedwonder · Answer

Hell yes because those are some of the best signs of a great time, in bed if you survive LOL.

Tstrbrainer · Answer

There are different forms of psychos?  Does nerds🤓🤓🤓 come under psychos?

ButtaGrey · Answer

Not willingly knowing. I'm sure poison can be sweetened but I wouldn't knowingly drink that because it's sweet. 🤭🥃🤮

AdithyaR · Answer

Basically a yandere. Not at all. Dating someone like that is just begging for trouble and a lot of problems.

BlacksBlack · Answer

I will have a sex with her once or twice, and then i leave her.

Oric5 · Answer

You spend too much talent and time on this dumb shit than living life.

ronysinh · Answer

Personally yess i would but is she is very illiness i won't.

Anonymous · Answer

there's a saying guys have: never stick your dick in crazy

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