Yes (I would love a clingy partner)
Yes (But I wouldn’t particularly like it)
No
Select gender and age to cast your vote:
Please select your age
No, I’m affectionate but try not to be clingy bc it sets up poor expectations that you have nothing else to do with your life.
There’s the “honeymoon phase” in any relationship where folks have more PDA and contact than usual, however once that fades there should be a natural progression towards something calmer and more substantial. If there isn’t then you have to resign yourself to the fact that you were (both) just interested in some clingy monkey lovin’…
Depends in what way. Not all clingy people are equally annoying. Annoying are mostly those who need you as some kind of permanent emotional support or because they feel lost without someone who says them what to do.
Being clingy isn't an absolute. If she were clingy and understood there's a time and place along with respecting boundaries, I'd be OK with that. When it becomes like a dependency and she is possessive over friends or disrupts my work or even becomes emotionally abusive/manipulative, that's where we would have serious problems.
I don't think I could. It already annoys me when my female friends are too needy, like constantly calling me to bitch about their lives or asking me to help them with something. From time to time is okay but not constantly. And the same thing would apply to clinginess.
Opinion
30Opinion
Depends on how clingy she is , I don’t mind if she wants to be in my arms as soon as she c’s me because my love language is touch and words of affirmation, but if she is too clingy to the point she is keeping track of everywhere I go or what I am doing on a constant basis. , then that can be annoying especially if she has a hard time trusting me , so being somewhat clingy isn’t a bad thing , but being overly clingy can be
Yes i would. But there care a few different types of clingy
I've had a number of relationships like that in my life, mostly as a young man. It's definitely a challenge. Sometimes you feel like you are being smothered. In some ways it felt nice to be needed and desired so much, but in other ways it was overwhelming.
So long as it's a healthy kind of clingy. Some women are just extra affectionate. But there is a line. If she follows me around, keeps tabs on me and tries to pull me in closer when I try to pull away, that's not healthy. You have to TRUST your partner. She can talk to men. I will work and compromise to allay any fears she has of me stepping out on her whatnot. But at the end of the day she has to TRUST me or it cannot work.
No. Clingy is not attractive and usually leads to resentment for me. Why set myself up for that if there is a healthy adult personality available as an alternative.
No thank you... That would definitely be too much like hard work.
Yes I would. My girlfriend is the opposite. She is anti-clingy. Really not happy with that aspect of her.
I would prefer to avoid that if possible.
clingy as in?
if she doesn't causing problems for me then why not.
I'd prefer not to. But I would rather date a clingy person than an aloof woman who can't be bothered to act like she wants me around.
Maybe I shouldn't but TBH I love clingy women. It makes me feel needed and wanted.
I hate feeling suffocated, and I think most people do, too. Not for me.
Yes, but are you clingy to work with me as a team or are you clingy just to get help for yourself and thats it? And I have to do all the work while you do nothing that’s a difference
only a little bit can be cute but so much to where they cannot seem to be alone while im at work or need to do something away from her then yeah thats pretty annoying to me.
Nooo, lol. That would get so annoying. I love you, but please have a life outside of me.
I did once, it wasn't the worst thing in the world, but certainly annoying at times.
I'm Finnish and I hardly talk to people I'm in the same room with.
Ah yes, Finland 😋
Yes, I'd know then that such a clingy woman they'd very unlikely cheat on me 🤣 👀🤗
I’d like a guy who is a tad bit clingy, like if we were both off that weekend oh yeah definitely.
I see
Who doesn't want somewhat clingy - if they're not clingy, then my needy anxious mind will always think they're losing interest or they're getting some on the side lol 🥪😂
Whether a foot long or a sub, roll lol 🥪🤣
I was with someone that was clingy. I had a really hard time with it.
As long as it wasn't too extreme, it could be great.
As long as it doesn't infringe on my freedom I'd think it's cute.
No. She should have her own gal pals and even (platonic) boy buds.
I like to have space at least some of the time Clingy people don't give you space
I hardheaded until I was in my early 20's because if they weren't clingy I had better things to do.
Semi clingy not to the point of being creepy
Yeah but not stalker level or controlling clingy
It's intriguing, many women are answering "somewhat or to a degree clingy, clinging" ; intriguing
Not if they were too clingy
Just somewhat clingy, right? 👍
@mysteriousNicholas true lol
@WhitneySnow I'd still like and find it appealing and reassuring (as I'm needy and a hugger 🤗) and a humble soul is me - is if a woman clinged to me like a seatbelt clings to me or the way a bra hook clings to a bra strap at the spine for women 🩻 lol 😉😜
@WhitneySnow like I wrote - somewhat clingy 😋👍😈 to me, is bliss
@mysteriousNicholas not that clingy lol. Just a little.
@WhitneySnow lol 😅 well lady, I feel like I'll feel more self-assured and more happier in my extent of clingy, but hey you do you. 😈😋 After all ; I always wear my seatbelt. Always 💺 -
@mysteriousNicholas awesome 😊
@WhitneySnow glad you found my analogies amusing and bemusing - laughter is usually a welcomed thing, - usually 👀
@mysteriousNicholas they’re good analogies
@WhitneySnow really? Oh, that's made my day. 😋😈 As strong as the fabrics proudly made nowadays in China, Thailand or Bangladesh 😋🧙♂️😜
@WhitneySnow have a wonderful day - cling to those bra straps and bra fabrics now lady / ladies 😈🤭 - 👌 "flick snap*🫰" lol I love talking crap 😭😂 anyways - "flick go the bra straps" - but anyways where was I, oh yeah, I'd love a clingy girlfriend. A man can dream. Or a clingy wife. No offspring on the cards no, no, a ring maybe 💍 no offspring
maybe but it'd suck for them
A little bit of cling is ok
Never again
Physically clingy or emotionally?
yes, I would be okay with it.
No, I like my space.
I want a clingy life partner actually
I love receiving attention
NO! Especially in a public place? HAHA
Yes I have and i will again
Sure, if she is my type of girl, I would.
I could deal with it
Nope
Sure
Sure
Not for long
never
no thats weird
You can also add your opinion below!