Would you date someone with a flirty personality?

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dynamicyandere · Accepted Answer

I had a friend who dated a girl that would flirt with other guys while she was with him. She even would flirt with other guys in front of him, as if he wasn’t there.

Whenever he spoke up about it, she’d gaslight him and call him insecure. When the reality is that she was just straight up disrespecting him in front of other guys.

So, I’d say that a flirty personality is fine but only if they keep it within their relationship or soon-to-be relationship.

I find flirtation easy to do and fun. But, I keep it between my S/O and I. Also, when I’ve been single, I’ve only flirted with people with whom I was genuinely attracted to — I don’t lead people on — so if I’m flirting, it means I’m interested.

Worst · Accepted Answer

mhmm

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

My last boyfriend would flirt whenever and wherever he could right with me standing there.
Usually he would see a woman at a strip mall or store who had her dog with her. That was how he would start the flirt, by asking the dog's name, what kind of dog etc.
But he couldn't stand it if we were out to dinner or at a store and the guys would stare at me and talk to me.
One time he took me in the big aisle at Walmart and started making out with me - I mean bug time. He was showing the guys at the store that I was already taken.
Why was it ok for him to flirt, but if a guy talked to me he came undone?

Lisia · Accepted Answer

Not for me lol. I like awkward shy guys

Finchie40 · Answer

As long as she is just flirting with me and not flirting with other Guy’s then yes

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Flirty people... I see them as attention whores. That's just a way to get attention if you boil away all the bullshit that's around it. Attention for what? Sex. Lots of people that don't know how to self-validate do it.

... and in my old years and from what I've seen... not great qualities for someone that deals with that when they wanted a committed and respectful relationship. It just leads to some sort of bullshit... eventually.

But, you'll know who those people are if you read around... they'll hop on here just to defend the act of flirting.

NathanDavis · Answer

I have, yes... 
 
 she had a flirty personality, yes... but this didn't mean that she would just randomly flirt with anyone and everyone at all times... she just had lots of charisma and a natural playfulness at heart

IslaTheWitch · Answer

Being flirty doesn't mean someone needs a relationship. It means someone likes to banter, tease, and generally likes to laugh with other people using words and phrases which can have myriad meanings.

acrossvb · Answer

If they only flirt with me yes. If they're flirting with other women, no.

MemeSupreme · Answer

maybe but thats a slippery slope and it kinda depends

jademaeve13 · Answer

I’ve both dated someone and have previously been friends with someone who have stated that have a ‘flirty personality’ and that they’re ‘just a naturally flirty person’.

However i think it just leaves you feeling insecure. If i’m with someone, it’s because i don’t wanna be with anyone else. Some call it ‘being naturally flirty’ but i think it’s more ‘no self control’.

mrpk02 · Answer

Only if they keep it in the relationship once they are.

I am the same I flirt a lot with many people if I am Single but once I am commited I only ever flirt and have eyes for that person. My Partner should therefore be the same - otherwise: No.

RavVid · Answer

Depends on what you are looking for. If it is sex or amusement sure I would. If I was looking for a girlfriend then no as you don't want your girlfriend to be flirting with every guy.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe if I knew they would still be loyal to me but you never know with Megan Fox

DannyUk2017 · Answer

No, because i don't want to fall in the same "trap" that she lays for "others" too. 🤷‍♂️

Brittanykeen88 · Answer

Yes. As long as they don't take it too far when we're together.

BadApple69 · Answer

I tend to be a big flirt. So I hope you girls will marry a flirt 😊

MicroViewer · Answer

I would if I wasn't burdened with premature ejaculation.

Shiningtempest · Answer

@preciousjewel I would never date a woman with a flirty personality. A woman with a flirty personality indicates she's an attention seeker & insecure person. Thus, I don't see a woman with a flirty personality as a girlfriend material.

syncheart · Answer

If a woman flirts with me, I pray that she really wants me. Cause I hate just being played with.

exitseven · Answer

Yes but I would get sick of her pretty quick I imagine.

jahaims · Answer

That is immature attention seeking behavior so no. Unless you mean they are always flirting with their partner, in which case it's obviously not

Anonymous · Answer

Yes but she would need to earn my trust. I would have to know she will put a dude in his place if he tried acting on his urges.

Texaskid1 · Answer

No.  It can lead to all kinds of misunderstanding.

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