If you found somebody very attractive would you try your best to flirt with them?

[Anonymous]

[Cynicaldreamer]

No, I am a terrible flirt, nor am I good at deciphering when someone is flirting with me.

Instead, I'll show interest in other ways: spend time with him, try to chat with him as much as possible. Basically see if he's single (mostly this!) and see if he's interested in me, and go from there.

[ThinkFitness23]

Depends, sometimes I’m just like your TOO HOT, grow a spot or moustache.. Do something so I can remove the “your too hot to even look at block”off..


Other days I smile, less is more and some of us have a thousand smiles (ok maybe 12 or so).


On rare occasions I make the comment GoodStuff!


I’ve noticed 2 of my mates and stolen this 😏.


For me flirting must never be one sided, of course there are times when you may overstep the mark but it’s part of my natural instinct & integrity to minimise such. Confidence starts somewhere and it’s definitely not from negative experience or results.


There really is an art to flirting in my opinion, you must both allow the energy to build, one hasty step too soon or one lack of confirmation can quickly pop or slowly deflate a good health interaction.


Balance, key to all in life. Thanks Nan I always remember you saying moderation was important.


RIP ❤️.

[Monalisa77]

I failed this;(

[Monalisa77]

Also u think u wouldn't be flirting with a guy unless they flirted back?

[kellytheman]

Yeah of course I try to say something funny or compliment them in how they look or find some reason to talk to them if I am really attracted to them. It be light flirting at first but if I see she also likes me I will intense the flirting with touching like her hand or arm maybe hip if I am brave.

[jennifer_bloom]

I believe it takes a lifestyle to get an elite guy and not a single case of flirting at a public place. I would not bother flirting. If I was attractive, he would flirt with me.

[HateyouxD]

I'd feel them out... and see if they are attracted to me too. If I do get a sign I'll smile. And usually that'll draw him in like a fish on a reel lol

[Monalisa77]

See i thought because he was being really nice to me and we had already smiled at each other that held on more than a normal smile, i started flirting with him anyway and he flirted back. Urgh

[HateyouxD]

@Monalisa77 what's the issue? Sounds like everything is going according to plan

[Monalisa77]

Well i thought that at the time. You can see the full story under my question s although its a v complicated one😂😂

[HateyouxD]

@Monalisa77 I can't can I follow you? What's it called?

[Monalisa77]

I did this. Couldn't keeo my eyes of him from When we first met

[RavVid]

Depends on the environment. At work no. At a club yes.

[Monalisa77]

Did subtle flirting at work.. Just changed my tone of voice and he tried distracting me😂😂

[AdithyaR]

Nope, I've learnt my lesson that I have no business to be trying to ask someone out. I've got no right to bother them.

[TacosRAwesome]

Probably not. 90% chance of me looking like an idiot.

[Luopio27]

Not anymore. Had my heart broken too many times and never got it fixed.

[Akam93]

I don't know how to flirt honestly. Attractive men are not attracted to me.

[LiamJHayden]

If she seems to be single I'll just ask her out.

[Anonymous]

No. I leave it be. Just because I like something, it doesn’t mean it’s mine to pursue.

[dustybiker]

No. I would talk to them.

[PinkRose24]

No. They would have to flirt with me.

[alcorriher]

• probably not

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Not anymore 😂

[boobliker]

if i an free to do so yes

[xJayleenx]

Nope if I was single I would hide 😂

[msc545]

nope. no point.

[Anonymous]

Of course I would.

[misogynistic_pig]

No.

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[rienna888]

No I’m too shy

[KostasKouvalis]

sometimes