If you find someone attractive would you talk to them?

[Anonymous]

Knowing they don’t know you and have no obligation to talk to you?

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+1 y

What if they wre not interested and felt you weren't taking the hint

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+1 y

I feel very sad these days, is that normal?

[NathanDavis]

no, usually no... I just let them be

attractive people are everywhere, lol... and not all of them want to be approached just because they're that attractive, and they probably get hit on all the time as well

there's times however, in which I can sense some sort of intrique of curiousness coming from them, so I've done it before in those cases

or, if the place is actually a reunion or a party where it would make more sense to casually approach someone like that, I've done it too

[GlassTop]

I won’t talk to attractive people because I feel they get hit on a lot and come jaded or crappy personality. But I’ve tried a few times and they are pretty viscous. I’ve had nothing but bad experiences with attractive people. If they don’t take the hint then it’s time to be blunt and actually be straight forward with them.

[Asker]

Can I message you?

[GlassTop]

I’ve never been messaged before on this site. But sure.

[GeneralContractor]

Yes, if you find someone attractice and want to get to know them, or potentially date them, the direct approach is the surest solution. People beat around the bush, or avoid the direct approach out of fear of rejection. If someone rejects you, make that their problem. Never yours. One has to be the prize and be available to get the prize one wants also, as all forming connections are a two-way street.

[FreedMan]

Sure. Why not? Shoot your shot. You'll never know unless you try.

[Asker]

I just messaged you

[Guy13]

Yes and I do it all the time. It's not always beautiful sometimes its a quirkiness etc..

[Asker]

I just messaged you

[Calamine1dp]

Well yes if I find someone attractive I try to talk to them if the opportunity presents itself. If you don't take a chance you'll never know. We were all strangers at one time and someone had to speak up first.

[Asker]

There’s a guy. Can I tell you about him?

[Calamine1dp]

Sure

[Asker]

Ok. I followed you. Please follow me back so I can message you

[Calamine1dp]

Ok I think I did it

[Anonymous]

depends on the situation , sometimes possible to talk to them others not so much

[Anonymous]

Nope. I make it a point to ignore and avoid attractive women.

[FilmGuy93]

No. Or, extremely rarely.

[Asker]

You are so boring

[FilmGuy93]

I just have other shit going on that I'm not just going to stop what I'm doing to talk with someone, simply because I find them physically appealing.

[Asker]

Boring

[FilmGuy93]

lol so can I assume that you are one such attractive woman?

[Asker]

I am beautiful but sad. So I'm not sure I get the point of being beautiful

[FilmGuy93]

Well what do you do, besides be beautiful? Maybe the men you're encountering don't think they are in a socially appropriate venue to make an approach.

[Asker]

Elaborate? On this social venue theory

[FilmGuy93]

Sure! So, you have different expectations about what you're going to do when you go to different places, right? You expect to do certain things, and interact with people a certain way at the store, but that's totally different from the kind of interaction you're expecting to have with people you've met at a church. It might be a little weird to chat someone up at the store, but you'd chat up a storm at church. It's the same thing with guys, when we think about when to approach a woman. If I see an attractive woman at a party or at my church, I'm way more likely to approach her there than at a store or coffee shop, because I know that people who come to a party or church gathering are way more likely to be receptive to and prepared to be approached in that environment.

[Asker]

Ah I see. I mean people act weird around me.

Once I was standing in line and this random person came up to me and started asking me questions. Even when I gave an answer he continued to ask me, why me?

I think he was just looking for an excuse to talk to me.

[exitseven]

sometimes you just have to cowboy up.

[scott04sa22]

Are usually ignore them

[Asker]

Can I message you? I just followed you. Thanks

[scott04sa22]

I’m not interested

[Bang5luts]

Yup I would

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes.