Would you date someone with a flirty personality?

[Anonymous]

To be honest, I couldn’t. They’ll flirt with anyone and make them think they’re interested.

[Anonymous]

I'm fine with a flirty personality as long as she has a way to let me know I'm special in a way that supercedes her flirting with others, and that her flirting is 'passive' meaning she's just enjoying that sense of mutual flattery which can get gotten by flirting socially instead of romantically (and she's not actually leading them on, so if they persure flirting she's shutting it down with "sorry, your sweet but I love my boyfriend" (aka she's not intending to mislead, but they might get mislead)

I wouldn't be comfy though with someone who was a 'come on' person to date. If she constantly left other guys with an impression she's into them. I'm thinking the kind of flirting that just makes a person smile to have their attractiveness reflected, vs the type of flirting that has esculation and multiple stages.

[Miristheiss]

No, I wouldn't have.

So, when I was single. If I was getting to get to know a girl and we had gone out a few times, if I detect she is flirty with men and flirts with the waiter and people we encounter, once I determine she is a flirt and to be in a relationship with her means she'll be crossing a boundary I have with other men I know there is no future there so I'd stop asking her out.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Never tbh.
Coz if he flirts with everyone then he doesn't have the standards (I can't date a guy who don't have standards) and understanding that takes to build a good friendship or relationship. If he does this than I am damn sure he has a good ego and narcissistic complex too.(Exceptions are there)
It also shows he is not specifically interested in you, and even if has some interest in you, you are not going to be the only person on his short list.
These kind of guys treat girls as an option. One after another. No one deserve to be treated like that.
Maybe some people are just very social, and like to flirt with everyone that will engage. Maybe they are often quite nice people, but I DON’T take them seriously! And never want to date them!!!

[dustybiker2]

There is a clear difference between flirty and social-outgoing. A lot of people confuse the two or intermingle them.
I don't mind open and social. But clear flirting for and ogling giving signals for possible hook-ups is lack of maturity and commitment. They don't want a relationship and shouldn't be confusing a partner if they deep down want to be single.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am one… I have dated ones…

[justarandomperson_55]

Well, to be honest, I'm not someone who doesn't like it if his girlfriend talks to someone, but I'm surely not comfortable if my girlfriend talks to people as if she is flirting. That's the line, because when I'm in a relationship, I make sure to draw a line between me and other people respecting my girlfriend, and I would like her to do the same.

[Asker]

Talk to someone as in have a normal conversation? I mean, that’s pretty normal for everyone if flirting isn’t involved.

[justarandomperson_55]

Yeah, but I have heard girls say that their boyfriends don't even like it if they talk to other males or have best friends. That's what I was referring to.

[Asker]

Does that mean they have to stay quiet the whole time when they’re out in public? Like, if they go to the store or a gathering.

[Asker]

In a way, they have to isolate themselves from society.

[justarandomperson_55]

not particularly that, lol.

[bobby_bush_eater]

Honestly would be tough but I think flirty has more than one category. If it's like a sweet innocent flirting around both guys and girls, almost motherly like then sure. If it's an overly touching almost sexual/seductive flirting then absolutely not

[Wraith_Cemetery]

No, those kinds of girls are nothing but trouble.

[KrisKris81]

Yes, though it might take longer to trust them - or be a higher maintenance relationship.

[BarryLiverstone]

For sure. They may be playful but I would know they are loyal

[OtterMan68]

yes because I would not date someone I did not trust

[Shiningtempest]

@Peridot25 I wouldn't date a woman with a flirty personality because it's incompatible with my serious & adamant personality.

[Simslover92]

Nope no way. I'm too jealous.

[NathanDavis]

not all flirting goes like that...

[Jennz6]

I don’t get jealous

[jahaims]

No, those kind of people are broken and immature.

[rebeliouse]

yup way more fun

[laly520]

nope

[serious]

No, I won't

[Willoughby23]

No I wouldn’t

[eagle1951]

would and have

[sirderpsalot123]

Nope

[Booklover_90]

Nah. Hard pass.

[dudeinohio]

No. Not really.