Other than looks, what would make you want to flirt with a stranger?

Question

You spot an attractive stranger, other than looks, what would make you want to approach and flirt with the person?

GoodManDave · Accepted Answer

Mostly, it's looks, granted...

I thought this woman was flirting with me for a few weeks. She was ok. She sits next to me... oddly a smidge close. Decent conversation with everybody at the table back and forth... (I learned she's married). Eventually she says "I'm not flirting with you." (like I guess she touched my foot with hers or something). "I say... 'Damn.'" (she laughed) That time, it was more of a funny line, I guess.

I think to honestly flirt like as in "I'd like to date her" if it's not looks or appearance... I suppose it's if she flirts with me... (or if I sense she is) If she's kind to people, she's respectful, she can hold a conversation, we have stuff in common, she laughs at my jokes... I might. If I feel like she's not going to make a big issue of it and embarrass me, or tear me apart... and she seemed open, I would.

Maybe if I also felt some sort of urgency - like I have to have this woman's number because I'm sure I'll never see her again otherwise) I might.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

How she carries and presents herself, if she looks like she is down to earth and looks like she has a nice personality , I will more than likely approach her and try to start up a conversation with her and flirt with her a little to let her know I am interested in her

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I don't flirt with strangers but the most interesting stranger that ever talked to me who was close to my age and not too old or young, told me he had a lot of dogs and did 6 types of martial arts and active meditation. I was not interested in dating him but being a regular friend might have been possible if he was good at conversation. I could not find the social media profile he said he owned in a google search. And we did not exchange numbers cause he knows I would not agree to do that with a stranger.

Minky17 · Accepted Answer

I don't think I've ever flirted with a man. I just go up to him and ask questions 😆

coachTanthony · Answer

I would notice maybe an eclectic sense of humor that would be just as attractive as a nice ass! Put them both together and you hit the Jack pot !

AviatorTom · Answer

I often flirt with a service person... restaurant waitress, cashier, female bartender. It sometimes gets better service, and they've told me, if nothing else, it makes their job less boring. They know I'm just flirting, nothing more.

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

If a guy carries himself well enough that it exudes confidence, that is very sexy! However, a guy with a really great sense of humor! I had my fiancé in two classes during undergrad, and every time he was asked a question he would give a brilliant answer, but he would phrase it in such a way that it made everyone laugh! I had a boyfriend at the time so I never thought of him as anything other than a guy with a very successful life ahead of him. When he approached me that afternoon at the coffee truck last April, 2023 (after I broke-up with my ex) and he had me laughing to the point I thought I was going to pee myself, it was not even a question as to whether I would go on a date with him, it was just a matter of when! Now we are engaged to be married.

imtiaz45 · Answer

Flirting with a stranger often goes beyond looks and involves a mix of personality, confidence, and connection. A good sense of humor can be very attractive, making interactions fun and engaging. Confidence, without arrogance, shows self-assuredness and can be very appealing. Shared interests or a stimulating conversation can create a connection, making you want to know the person better. Kindness and genuine friendliness signal a warm personality, encouraging further interaction. Lastly, body language, such as eye contact and smiling, can convey openness and interest, prompting a desire to flirt and explore the connection.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

For me, it’s when I can see something is so different about the woman that it piques my interest and I feel like I need to learn more. It could be the way she dresses and carries herself, it could be the way I saw her do something or even a conversation I thought I liked

CindyRuns · Answer

A guy in a well fitting suit is a real turn-on to me !!!

Nikki1989 · Answer

I don't flirt intentionally with anyone, but I can be overly friendly and that is often mistaking as flirting.

nolabels · Answer

Something in common is my most powerful flirt trigger.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Nothing would make me flirt with a stranger, not even looks. I don't hit on her if I don't know her well.

DishLady · Answer

Either the way they carry themselves or something we have in common.

DarkLegacy · Answer

I only flirt with attractive strangers so nothing.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

Probably nothing. I don't even know how to flirt.

Juxtapose · Answer

If they have an aura of compassion & wisdom I really want to talk to them.

Tomisworthless · Answer

Usually confidence accompanies looks. If you're ugly but have a confident swagger people will wonder why you think your the shit when you look it

Enginn · Answer

Not just looks but I would also flirt if she is a nice and smart person.

SotiCoto · Answer

Nothing. I don't flirt. Never have, never will.

lorenzomichael · Answer

If she’s a stranger after looks what is left? seriously.

Luopio27 · Answer

Absolutely nothing for me. Im too shallow peace of shit!

SeriouslyNotSerious · Answer

When they're holding a penalty ticket..

RealLifeHarleyQuinn · Answer

I like girls who are very expressive, rebels, girls who have dyed bright hair, tattoos, piercings.

avery58 · Answer

The way they carry themselves 💯

coxoabean · Answer

The way he carries himself.

dustybiker2 · Answer

It's fun to see a persons reaction.

saraiiiio · Answer

Most people wouldn’t flirt with someone they don’t find attractive. I hate to break it to you.

paledreams · Answer

Physical features 👀😋

NathanDavis · Answer

I don't flirt

jamesgoldman · Answer

The opportunity to conduct business

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Someone who is not a monster inside

handsomelad70 · Answer

Especially a braless buxom woman.

nawtee_me · Answer

Horny for sure….

Jason2469 · Answer

A shirt that said "I suck strange dick"

BetaBucks · Answer

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