It's because they say something opposite of what they respond too. Ie they say they want a nice guy but they go for the bad guys because they are exciting, while the nice guy is just not a challenge.
Men can certainly not know what they want, but the are only silence about it if it goes against their goal. Like a guy that just wants sex, doesn't reveal that because it means he would get less chances to get it. Ie he got the chance both with women who just want sex too and women that wants more.
That's not the same women doesn't actually win anything by claiming they want a nice guy when they really want bad guys. But I guess encouraging all men to treat them bad would be bad for them. It's just stupid psychology.
Totally! Women don't even know it. Try and explain it to them. You'll be called a sexist and dismissed. Save yourself the effort mate unless you want to be seen as an a-hole by them.
Those people are outcome oriented and not process oriented.
These are often the same people who view the first few dates through the lens of 'when will my date do x.'
I mean, do you even like and respect your date or are you wishing they'd conform to your own ideals of what is proper and what isn't? People are different and dating will always be a waste of time unless you are okay meeting different types of people without expecting anything from them.
Yes outcome oriented. Then we see a girl complain her boyfriend is broke yet when she was single she insisted money didn't matter and dated someone unemployed. Lmao. Lots of girls do this and similar stuff.
Some women are indecisive because it looks cute and attracts a mate. Women shop way more than men and more options tends to make you indecisive. Some have low self-confidence and hidden insecurities. A lot are indecisive with food due to being fat shamed at one point by a male or multiple men
When a woman says that to you, what she's saying is "I know what I don't want and it's you." If you make an invitation to a woman, there are only two positive responses: yes, I can't then but I'm available at. Any other response means "no". "I don't know what I want" = "no". "I'm not looking for a relationship" = "no", "I'm busy that weekend (no alternative given)" = "no".
Have you ever asked a woman where she wants to go for lunch/dinner?
Have you ever asked a man? Men tend to be straight forward with their answers while women have to put you through some kind of test to figure out where they want to go or what they want to do or just what they want in general and if you can't read their fucked up mind you're the bad guy
You probably need more experience w/ women to understand. Generally women say they want one thing yet they're actions tell a different story. Women are driven by emotion so they tend to say what they're feeling at that moment but that can change by the minute.
I think this often comes from women saying that they want good men who treat them well, then avoid all of those men to compete with each other over a handful of womanizing jerks. That had been my perspective.
Could be because women are more dependent on non verbal indirect communication. So for a man, or a woman who is not observant what she says and what she does or agrees to are different.
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