What to do now?

[PreenFeen]

I am actually curious what this means. Long story short. I asked a certain girl out, on a date. She was kind of hesitant, did not give clear answer, said she would write me later about date but eventually never brought this subject up. Apart from the dating part, we would message each other from time to time, nothing serious. After some time, even though we kept in touch, I noticed that she unfollowed me. One in one, meaning that she had zero interest from the start. Up until few days, when my friend happened to be called in as a substitute, at the place where she works. I bought box of chocolates and told my friend to give it to her, which would mean sort of "hello" from me ( I have no idea why I did it, yes I maybe have been wrong) as I have not see her about a month or so. Obviously she wrote with huge thanks, started following again and after few hours she unfollowed again? meanwhile we actually write each fairly frequently. Is it her way of saying like "fk off" or is she simply playing with me? Don't get me wrong, I don' really want to sound childish bringing all this follow/unfollow stuff, but unforutantely I don't have a luxury to see her fairly often.

[bob2008042]

Hard to say.
Looks like she's indecisive.

But you have to know one thing. If you ask a girl out, and she doesn't give you clear answer... There may be several reasons for that. Some good some bad. Including that she's trying to look a "not so easy" girl (not a slut who falls on a first offer).

Don't assume that in this circumstance a girl will bring up the date issue. 90% of girls don't invite boys to a date. And if they do, many of them would make me worried haha (slutty or too aggressive - not everybody's cup of tea).

So you're getting my hint:
-Don't be a creep. Don't be pushy on her. don't be asking her out every day or the like.
but
-Keep talking / flirting with her.
-Do ask her out again when you feel it's a good time.

And of course, observe what's happening, her reactions etc.

And girls do get upset when us stupid boys can't read their signals. So when there were no moves from you she could have just got upset with you. That's all.

[boobliker]

well you should of given them to her may be she not interested in you but not want to say!!

[RedStiletto88]

Okay it’s definitely obvious she isn’t interested in you so you should move on.

[Avicenna]

She's not interested

[Anonymous]

She’s immature