I'm in a situationship with the man I'm seeing now.
He constantly acts hot and cold. One day he is extremely affectionate and the other he acts like I don't even exist.
Once I overreacted a bit when he "joked" about texting with others. I told him that they are going to be his toys now.
He now told a friend of mine that I'm crazy, maybe because I went insane because of his attempts to drive me crazy. He always drives me crazy then acts surprised how I acted.
Should I tell him anything about this?
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If you don’t like his on and off behavior, then stop talking to him. I know the feeling of this exactly and honestly you are better off. A guy making you anxious when you aren’t in his presence is a huge sign he isn’t doing enough to make a relationship work in the future
Oh... so it's HIS fault you act unstable.. that's funny.
I'm not saying it's his fault, but he knows how I would act and does exactly that.
That's blaming him. He is not responsible for your conduct. Have some accountability ffs.
Take the L and move on. Take note of how this 'situationship' worked out (pro tip: they almost never do) if a guy doesn't have to commit to relationship AND you give him free pussy? There is no way he would get into a relationship then, why would he?
You are blaming me? That's laughable. I just wanted an honest conversation, because he has "promised", that he won't do what he did. I think whenever you approach someone, you "owe" them at least an honest response if they want to know. That's what I would do. You cannot act like a narcissist and then blame everyone else.
I'm not blaming you. Saying that it's laughable shows that you won't take any accountability. THAT is laughable. Sounds like you thought it was a real fully committed relationship and he didn't.
Just so you know: no one owes you anything when it comes to relationships. Situationships? Even less so.
Does he suffer from bi polsr?
I don't know, maybe... maybe not.