GIRL PLAYING AROUND - WHAT SHALL I DO?

[JamesAbworth]

I had a fourth date with a girl last night. Spent whole day with her, took her to fancy restaurant and drinks. We were together until 2am. We were kissing and I told her let’s check in to a hotel. She said no she needs to know me more (even though we dating exclusively). Rather than check in to a hotel at 2am, she got her friend to pick her up and take her back home which is a 2 hour drive away.

Surely this isn’t normal? I’m nice to her and we get on well yet she won’t sleep with me. Is she just wasting my time?

she's not a slut yet she’s not an angel. So not sure why she won’t sleep with me. People are telling me to stop messaging her and move on. Any advice?

FYI SHE HAS DADDY ISSUES

Updates

1 y

Just so everyone is aware, she has told me before she’s had one night stands.

[molonski2]

Id throw the cat amongst the pigeons , in or out , so you don't waste your time , it sounds unusual , tell her to come over ( sort it out by SMS ) and make your intentions clear , I tend to find if it doesn't happen pretty quickly it generally doesn't happen , but just use a line like " I need to hold you , let adjourn to the bedroom " , I just really need to kiss your body all over... this kind of stuff , you are so close , it would be a bit sad not to snag it , I wouldn't give up , Id just be super clear ..
So many times I've used " Lets just hold each other , I need you close " never has it ended as per the line , and mostly I don't even have to instigate the action.

[molonski2]

If she has had one night stands , dont be the one who misses the action BE DIRECT - go HARD

[20yearsolder]

Why do you expect her to sleep with you after 4 dates? Not every woman is the same and some actually want to know their partner. Have you enjoyed her company this whole time? If so then continue to enjoy her, it's not a waste of time

[jshm2]

Son. Your pickup and talk game is absolute trash

[JamesAbworth]

Why?