What's wrong with women these days showing off wearing shirts without bras?

[TonyMetal___86]

Personally i think that it's immoral,
disrespectful and making herself cheap or isen't aware that her whole boobs is a private part...

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1st of all thanks for all the members who have answered this question and thanks in advance for all the members who are going to answer it later...

2nd a lot of people have different beliefs and different views and at the same time a lot of people shares with me the same views and i respect both...

3rd to each member who had nothing to do other than attacking and disrespecting me and other members on this thread are going to be deleted or got already blocked!

Updates

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4th here's my final explanation and views towards this subject, even though i wrote it down for a lot of members as a reply in here but i'm going to write it again here so that everyone can see it and read it...

5th the woman's boobs aren't the same as men's chest, when it comes to shape and use...
Women's boobs are considered to be a sexual private part which is also used for breastfeeding unlike a man's chest which has no use and doesn't have any sexual attraction towards the opposite gender

[Anonymous]

You know.. I used to feel the same way and felt it’s inappropriate and strange and weird and ewky like why do you want men watching your nipples? Or all of us for that matter.. felts kind of gross as if you’re trying to turn people on lol

howeber as I am sure many girls might do it for that purpose and attention…
i also believe there are many who just find it more comfortable and really prefer the comfort than to please someone else about how they feel about them dressing how they want.

i say this because..
diring COVID lockdown I didn’t go anywhere so I stopped wearing a bra. As I was home all day really and veas con feel uncomfortable

some day I would wear them and throughout the day I would feel uncomfortable and be like why am I wearing it.. I would quickly go and take it off and feel sooooooo ahhhh happy! Comfort:))))

so now!
as we see life becoming more and more normal.. I really hate the times I have to go out because I have to wear one.
i try to select tips that won’t show off I’m not wearing one because sometimes i go out without one 😯😐!! because I just can’t be bothered to put one one at times, especially if it’s hot out! Just feels extra uncomfortable with it.

and i just hope my bipolar don’t get hard so nobody feels awkward around me. And no they don’t get hard just cause someone is excited. They get hard for random things. Perhaps they feel cold even if you don’t feel cold. Or whatever.
anyhow I’m happy I have normal sized boobs or else it would feel bad without an raw too because wolf the weight.

[Opinion Owner]

I meant my Nipples* not my bipolar lol and so many other mistakes sorry lol

[TonyMetal___86]

A lot of people thought that the topic is about if you can wear a bra or not, while the topic is different, cause my point was that a woman is free to whether she wants to wear a bra or not as long as her boobs are well covered and can't be noticed by anyone in public...
I have provided a picture to give an example as what's unacceptable which is a woman going out and appearing like that to everyone, other than that it's perfectly fine!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

You know already what they'll say,..
"Because I can"...
"My body, my choice"..
Funny for all the women that use that my body line, they sure don't respect their bodies from unwanted pregnancies, from strangers on the internet that could be using their pics for anything, once it's out there, it never goes away... Some choice they making with their bodies🙄

[TonyMetal___86]

Well said miss brains muffins and no one says these slurs other than feminazis and women who lost their self respect or are made to be cheap...

Guys must show their d*cks too and when women becomes enraged and spitting awful words towards these guys, than the only reply that they must receive is "because i can" 😏

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Or you could just say "My dick, my choice"🤣🤣

[TonyMetal___86]

You mean dick destardly of the wacky racers 🤣🤣

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

🤣🤣🤣

[MCheetah]

@Brainsbeforebeauty
You also gotta love when these women say "My body, my choice," but then throw all that out the window when men they don't find attractive start staring at them and getting aroused. As if "My body, my choice" only applies to women, but not to men's eyesight or vision.

Or when women say "My body, my choice" and then ALL THAT gets thrown out the window when they become the target of pervs and dangerous men who would rape or sexually assault them. They'll try to call it "victim blaming" when just a minute ago they were implying they had full responsibility for what they choose to wear, and any consequences that may bring onto them. (And it's not like men are immune to this, either. Try wearing a red "Make America Great Again" in inner city Minneapolis and see if you're immune to any attention as a man.)

And then if any logical man (or woman) points this out, they try to shut down conversation and call them a "misogynist" for pointing out basic logic that wearing attention grabbing clothing... GETS YOU ATTENTION! From the "right" and the "wrong" kind of people! I don't take idiots seriously and I have a very low tolerance for them and always have, but I can imagine how confused young 20-something men must be when women their age celebrate being whores, but at the same time, go all "MeToo" and third wave feminist and crap.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@MCheetah right, but then that's because they do it for themselves, not for the attention of men🙄 Yeah I call BULLSHIT on that one lolol

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Thanks for mh

[TonyMetal___86]

You're welcome 😌

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I'm surprised I only got two downvotes LOL

[TonyMetal___86]

They don't dare to mess with the queen of muffins 😋🧁

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Haha thanks, but I'm still not baking any muffins lolol I'm on vacation😊

[TonyMetal___86]

Easter is coming, maybe giant chocolate eggs will do the job spongy forehead 🍫 👀

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Hahaha told you where I'd "put" those eggs🤭🤣🤣😇😈😇

[TonyMetal___86]

🏃🏻‍♂️...🏃🏼‍♀️

[MCheetah]

A girl can wear whatever she wants as long as she is not naked or near naked in public. And a guy can do whatever he wants with his eyes or mouth or even his hands, as long as he's not touching her. What *I* have a problem with, is women who dress like this, but then think they have the audacity to tell me not to use their eyesight on them.

See, THIS is what creates MGTOW men in the 2020s. My response to her would be something like "F*ck me or f*ck off" while continuing to stare holes into her chest. Only I wouldn't censor myself. You get the treatment you deserve in society, Princess. Call me a misogynist all you want; and I'll continue to not give a f*ck.

[TonyMetal___86]

Well said, they want to do whatever they want and makes all kinds of excuses and rights for their slutty acts but when it comes to a guy, if you just sit and spread you're legs a little, the wrath of the titans will fall on you...

Remember my words, especially that you live in the western world...

[MCheetah]

Thanks for MHO.

[Birdlegs]

I don’t consider it “showing off” they are just there. I don’t think there’s anything inherently wrong with it. As a guy there is technically nothing stopping me from going commando and “showing off” my man meat, Sometimes it’s a comfort thing, sometimes I just don’t want to put on underwear but that doesn’t mean I’m trying to show off it’s just always there. Im assuming it would be the same thing with women. We’ve all seen titties before let’s be adults and not get butthurt over the fact that a woman has breasts.

[TonyMetal___86]

I can't wait to see you going commando showing you're thing to women so i see their reaction johnny bravo 🤣🤣

[Birdlegs]

That’s very much not the message that I was communicating but 🤷🏾‍♂️

[SweetFyter]

Well, hate to tell you but, personally, I go without a bra as often as I can. But, TBH, I don't look like the girl in the picture so no one even notices! (Sad but true.)

But, while I do like wearing at little as possible at home, out in pubic I do not want to show anything like that so, if I have one of my tops that DO let me "show through" like that, I'll wear a bra.

[Xoirwinkan]

If you don't have big boobs and your nips aren't noticeable I'd say that's there's no problem and might feel better with such 'freedom'.

[TonyMetal___86]

@SweetFyter no problem at all if that's the case 😊

[SweetFyter]

@Xoirwinkan Exactly!

[SweetFyter]

@tonymetal___86 I just wouldn't be comfortable showing that much (I mean, I don't have what she does but I mean showing what I do have) outside my home or like just family or friends, maybe. I guess women who do show like the photo are more outgoing or maybe even egotistical or something.

[TonyMetal___86]

They shouldn't do it because a girl's boobs are private sexual parts and should always be hidden

[SweetFyter]

@tonymetal___86
Wait... I get it what you think about nipples showing through. I agree with that for ME, personally, when I'm out of the house. But... are you saying that breasts are "private" and not to be seen - as in we should wear sports bras that squish us down so we look like we don't have breasts?

I don't have much, but I'm hoping for more. I don't want to be huge, but I think a girl's curves are very much a part of what makes her a girl - and like it or not, cute buns and cute boobies are part of that. Does that mean I want my nipples pointing at everyone? No! But I do want to look pretty - and having nice breasts is just part of that. It's nature.

[Xoirwinkan]

There should be a balance.

[TonyMetal___86]

You know what i mean, already have explained it

[SweetFyter]

@tonymetal___86
Yes, I think I understand what you believe. Maybe it's because I'm female but I am not too concerned if I see a woman who is "showing" like that. It's none of my business. I just know that *I* would not want my nipples to show like that. That's my choice. I do know one of the younger girls at our church -- she just turned twelve and, TBH, her breasts have obviously been developing. They're not big yet, of course, but the thing is, they are VERY noticeable and she wears tops that make it very obvious she is developing. Now, I'm not saying she wears those tops on purpose - as if to show her breasts off. No, she's had those tops since before she started growing there. TBH, I'm a little surprised that her mom does not make her wear a bra, but I guess that's their choice, too. I do wonder, though, about the boys in her classes at her school - or maybe she has to wear a bra there - I don't know. Anyway, sorry for the long reply. :)

[TonyMetal___86]

No worries and i'm happy because you're a modest girl 😊

[SweetFyter]

@tonymetal___86
And I'm thankful you can discuss things with people whose opinions don't match yours PLUS you have never been condescending to me so - THANK YOU!

[Apulu_3]

It's unappealing. I prefer dressing modest and less revealing because personally I find it uncomfortable showing more of my skin. Outdated but I don't want to follow all these no bra, mini skirt (the most minimum length I prefer is till mid thighs) , etc trends. It's too much for me.

[TonyMetal___86]

That's how a good respectful girl behaves 😌

[Apulu_3]

Thank you :)

[TonyMetal___86]

You're welcome 🙂

[TRORT]

ahahahah and also she 13 I think? And her parents probably doesn't allow her too. Good job parents

[Apulu_3]

@TRORT I won't wear it even if I'm allowed anyways. Because it's uncomfortable for me. I can also rant like other teenagers and it's easier for me too as my dad owns clothing stores but personally I find it awkward showing more skin.

[TonyMetal___86]

@TRORT this is a 13 year old girl, don't harrass her or i'll block you...

[FunkyMonkee]

This is why they make chocolate and vanilla ice cream.

[Anonymous]

I've noticed that a strong message of SEX is being pushed REALLY hard lately. Children are being groomed sexually by a pedo supported public schools system and through sexualized toys and cartoons. Women are communicating sluttier portrayals of themselves on social media... many wearing actual lingerie in public settings and talking brazenly about how they love to suck off random cocks... Men are just raping women in crowded places and in broad daylight...

IT IS GETTING GROSSER AND GROSSER AND Y'ALL NEED TO PUMP THE BRAKES ON FULL STOP ON CRAZY AND PIVOT BEFORE ALL IS LOST

[TonyMetal___86]

Totally agree with you, can't be clear more than that!
You need wise people to realize that...
Thanks for sharing 🙂

[Opinion Owner]

It just occurred to me that the picture on this post of that person exposing their nipples could be a trans male showing off his breast implants. Anything thing is possible in this garbage world we find ourselves. If that's the case, it pisses me off that this individual would

[Opinion Owner]

... would put forth this slutty image of his chest as if he were a natural-born female.

[TonyMetal___86]

That's true, who knows!
As you said that our world is becoming a dumpster!

[Divinegirl]

Is this a new thing with the new generation? One of my high school students had her sweater zippered down almost all the way with her big old chest hanging out. I was so bothered and irritated that I wanted to walk up to her and say something. Luckily, she zipped it up without me saying anything. It's called having some decency in public ladies!

[TonyMetal___86]

Very true, a rotten generation who have no morals and no self value or decency...

[wheresmrcunnunglis]

Hm, I feel like if their breast are small then its alright since it looks chic to me. Bigger nah put a bra on and save yourself from the overwhelming stares and tearing up the breast tissue from all the swinging that will happen.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Yes! The unwanted movements! I was about to write that only! Also whether it be men or women, seeing nipples poking out of the clothing diverts the attention to such a level that it is really uncomfortable to at least one of the people.

The author may have focused on girls only, but this problem belongs to both the genders. Men also have women type nipples I have heard.

[TonyMetal___86]

A lot of people thought that the topic is about if you can wear a bra or not, while the topic is different, cause my point was that a woman is free to whether she wants to wear a bra or not as long as her boobs are well covered and can't be noticed by anyone in public...
I have provided a picture to give an example as what's unacceptable which is a woman going out and appearing like that to everyone, other than that it's perfectly fine!

[Apple1996]

Who cares? It's more comfortable to go without a bra. I very rarely wear a bra unless I feel the need to.

[TonyMetal___86]

Miss apple as if i didn't knew that you're answer is going to be like that since you're one of these girls who posts such pictures of herself and you already know my opinion about it 😏

[MrtoddsWildRide]

@tonymetal___86
Is your opinion that you are an overly judgmental person who would rather go around criticizing others than fix whatever your own issues are?

[TonyMetal___86]

@MrtoddsWildRide i have the right to do anything i want, if you don't like or respect my views and my opinions than just stay out of this whole thread, don't judge me so i don't judge you!

[soe11]

Agree with you 👌👍

[Lliam]

@tonymetal___86. How interesting that you "have the right to do anything [you] want" but others don't.

[TonyMetal___86]

@Lliam i never bother people or appear undecent in public and respect everyone who respects me, stop assuming what i'm doing or who i am cause you know nothing about me...

[virtue2332]

I say it's their body if it makes people uncomfortable then they just shouldn't look. As far as private part and for sexual use I understand why someone might feel this way based on how they were raised. It doesn't make it right. The fact that some think that it's taboo because it's an erogenous zone need to realize there are several erogenous zones that go uncovered all the time.

[TonyMetal___86]

Good for you, now can i see you're wife, mother, sister or daughter's tits because they energous zones for me...😏

[virtue2332]

Not sure what energous zones are but the point I'm making with erogenous zones are is that the issue with thier display that should be addressed and dealt with has nothing to do with the person that it belongs to so but everything to do with the psychology of the person that has attached a sexual response that they can't control over said visual response. Context is everything having been in the medical field I can assure you I don't get excited when I see boobs in office it would be inappropriate the same way I view it if I see some one who's shirt is see through. At some point we have to use common sense and evolve and mature beyond the point of boobies masturbate. Do you feel similar sexual responses when you see your daughter mother topless?

[TonyMetal___86]

To be a doctor is a thing and to see them like that is another thing and who said that a doctor won't be aroused but have learned how to control his sexual urges because it's a medical job

Now about me seeing my mother or daughter topless, be sure that we aren't raised to become the type of people who have no morals or values, such things will never happen to us and i don't have a daughter!

A woman's boobs are a private sexual part, as simple as that!

[virtue2332]

Nah I agree with you saying a Dr learns how to control his sexual urges and act professional. Everyone should be able to do that and context is everything. Im just trying to restate the fact that just because someone wears a shirt that you can see through doesn't mean they are being offered up nor should she be made to feel uncomfortable because people can't understand this. The same respect shown to your mom and family should be given to everyone else. You don't seem like one that would check out a family member that was topless and get turned on because it's not right we should feel the same with everyone. Look I'm obviously seeing this from the perspective of a dad with a wife and three daughters so I understand your point of view I've obviously been there but I obviously see things differently now and hate that my girls are made to feel uncomfortable because some guys out there have no control and can be fucking creepy for no reason at all.

[TonyMetal___86]

I agree with you about what you said and that's who i am and i don't even look if such thing happened in front of me but that doesn't gives the right for a woman to walk outside wearing something like that, the problem ain't about looking or to control you're sexual urges, it's about her whether she wants to be a respecrful lady in public or just a cheap h*e...

You cannot blame men for women's faults...

[virtue2332]

I obviously let my girls know how things can be interpreted based on the society we live in. So they are aware, I was more referencing like when they are at the beach or wearing something as simple as shorts and catching guys trying to snap photos with thier cell phones. I don't give a fuck who's fault you think it is when it comes to some creepy guy being disrespectful then I'm going make sure they are safe and then I'm going to chat with that person. If I'm in the wrong by thinking they are the ones with the issue and I don't feel that I am then I'm just going to that wrong asshole. Never claimed I am perfect. I'm a millitary guy I'm capable of doing all sorts of shit that may not appear to be right but are sometimes necessary given the situation. I'm confident I'm right though. There are plenty of women out there that are ok with being looked at that way and there's nothing wrong with that it's there choice. Guys just have to use some common sense. If they can't help but to look at a 13 yo that is overdeveloped and make her feel uncomfortable about her body and they think it's her fault for then they should understand that I can't help being pissed off about it so we can run around like apes and beat on each other or we can evolve past the primal urge excuse and do what is right. Look out for one another and treat each other with respect.

[virtue2332]

You do remember that this was about women not wearing a bra under her shirt being interpreted as showing off and something being wrong with them. That's a straight up ignorant assumption and whom ever feels that way is a straight up idiot. I don't mind listening to other points of view and doing my best to try and see it from their perspective but I'm just not going to be able to on this one. There is no way a competent confident person makes a statement like that. Freedom of speech. One of the rights I swore to protect and fight for.🤬

[TonyMetal___86]

You're rage won't do a thing with me and you know it, as a military guy you must be more respectful to people and do not cuss if you don't shate the same views with them...

Teach you're daughters on how to behave instead of blaming others on how they see them, when you're girls are acting right and being polite and others makes mistakes than you have all the right to do what ever you want, but not making you're girls no matter how old are they walk nearly naked and than fight people for their opinion or what might they do towards you're girls...

Now you know my view snd opinion about this topic and i know yours and that's it, have a nice day soldier!

[virtue2332]

Tony Im not raging and I know I cuss but it's just words. When I don't say anything and stop talking is when it's time to worry. I read some of your other replies to others and I see that some of it is has to do with how I interpreted your statement vs what you meant possibly. Where I took it as you stating that if a girl didn't wear a bra under her shirt she was some how slutty. Which is absurd based on that context. Either way you are entitled to your opinion and are free to speak how ever you see fit. I promise you one thing though you wouldn't ask to see my wife's or daughters tits in person. I know you were just making a point and didn't mean to be disrespectful so I'll move past it.. I am glad you that you posted the the initial question though it opened up a great deal of dialogue and she'd some light on the different perspectives that are out there. I've seen enough trauma and suffering in my life and am a retired soldier now so I don't wish any I'll will on anyone. I do respect you speak your mind and don't hide from responses. Its much better than someone telling you what you think they want to hear and then do some creepy shit when they aren't looking. I prefer dealing with people like yourself and we can always agree to disagree. Have a great rest of the weekend see you on the next topic.

[TonyMetal___86]

Thanks you too and be sure that i'm a decent man and respect others, especially a married woman and a family because family is above all!

I hope that you're doing good now and that all the negative things that happened with you in you're past will never come back again because every good person deserves a nice happy life...

You too enjoy you're day and god bless you and you're family...

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

I don't go outside without a bra. But I also know that bras are very uncomfortable, especially after hours of having it on so I'm not about to judge someone else for going braless. Especially when I have the ability to not look at it. You wanna see women covered from head to toe, go to a convent.

[TonyMetal___86]

Don't know what a convent is and if i said that a woman shouldn't appear like that, it doesn't mean that i want her to be covered from head to toe...

At least you're someone who will always have her boobs hidden and not seen whether wearing a bra or not, in this photo i was not aiming at women who wouldn't wear a bra, but aiming on women who doesn't wear bras and appear like this one in public...

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

Do you feel the same way about people that go commando?

[TonyMetal___86]

What do you mean by going commando?

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

Meaning they don't wear underwear

[TonyMetal___86]

As long as nothing is visible or can't be seen through than they are free, other than that no!
Also a woman should check herself when she wears her jeans or pants if it's to tight and appearing like a camel toe, that's a bad sign too...

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

Ok so you do know that nipples aren't hard 24/7 right? You wouldn't have been able to tell if her nipples weren't hard. I notice a person not wearing underwear before I notice them not wearing a bra. Either way, I don't think they should be condemned for it.

[TonyMetal___86]

It's just my opinion, a woman have to be modest so she attracts me and the way she appears says a lot of things about her personality...

She knows that her nipples might get hard and that's why she must wesr something that wouldn't reveal anything in both cases...

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

Mmkay

[TonyMetal___86]

Thanks for sharing by he way...

[Miristheiss]

Wrong?
Well, get married. If you are fine with your wife going around with her breasts hanging out and showing through her clothes and every guy staring at her chest then I guess you have no problem.

If you have a little sister who dresses like that and becomes the target of tons of guys stares and endless advances from men who want nothing else but to screw her that very night and then to take off... then fine.

If your mom dresses like that and all of these people are gawking at your mom and hitting her up for sex and showing no interest in her as a person then fine.

If you are fine with your mom, your sister, your girlfriend/wife doing it then I suppose to you there is no problem or anything wrong with it.

[Kittyis17]

I prefer to go to without a bra as much as i can... i'm sick of this "Women HAVE to wear a bra" thing... and why should i wear a bra when i don't think it's inappropriate... it's comfier not to wear a bra AND it's much cheaper too... cuz good bras are so expensive... especially for big boobs... i hope that in the future women can feel more free and that they can go without a bra WITHOUT men staring at them... i don't get why our boobs are sexual... cuz for me they aren't... they're just like men's... Just bigger🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

[TonyMetal___86]

My opinion and explanation is found in my update i case you'd like to know why... and one more thing...

[TonyMetal___86]

A lot of people thought that the topic is about if you can wear a bra or not, while the topic is different, cause my point was that a woman is free to whether she wants to wear a bra or not as long as her boobs are well covered and can't be noticed by anyone in public...
I have provided a picture to give an example as what's unacceptable which is a woman going out and appearing like that to everyone, other than that it's perfectly fine!

[MCheetah]

@Kittyis17
You can't get to do whatever you want in society and wear whatever you want and then tell men they're "not allowed" to look at you. You are seriously getting angry that heterosexual men exist and that you being sexual causes their attention to divert to you? You can wear what you want, but straight men existing and having eyesight is "problematic?" THIS reeks of female entitlement and Princess Syndrome. People like you need to spend one week in Saudi Arabia or North Korea to get a reality check.

[soe11]

Kittyis17 your absolutely right with impartial, every individual has a right to choose to wear or not to wear.
My girlfriend and her mom did not wear mostly because too hot tropical weather and didn't care ani who is staring or gazing.
I endorse and appreciate as well as approved.

[cookiecrusher]

It's a nipple and part of her body as her legs.

If i see great looking legs in a skirt i get about as excited as with a nipple.

So should we hide all women under a black tarp, like some crazy religious groups?

Nah.

I like women that are not slutty and even prefer virgins.

However we shouldn't dictate how they should dress. Yeah, only a patch downstairs and 2 nipple rings woulr be too much (or too little) but it's same for a guy only wearing a sock.

It's a bit of grey area where is too exposing. Women are very sexual and attention/validation seeking creatures and that is normal.

It's fine for them to show off a little bit or feel comfortable to do it.

Of course sleeping around is different from that.

I think it's fine, as long as i can show my nipple, so can she. And aslong as i am allowed to hide mine, so should she.

[ObscuredBeyond]

Why not settle for a swimsuit bra? You don't have to be uncomfortable, ladies! But unless you want me to think you're easy, don't flash your nipples! Especially not when I'm running a cash register! Talk about uncomfortable! It looks just as silly when you do it, gals, as it did when Kirsten Dunst did it in Spider-Man. Maybe even sillier. Kirsten is not a role model!

[Guy13]

NOTHING ‼️ It’s actually hotter if it’s in a surfer style (satin-like) to neck t-shirt.

Find an old Michael Jordan Nike t-shirt…long so she can tie or hang down and cover half of bikini 👙 . 🚼.
ALWAYS Compound your EBay Investment return…

[TonyMetal___86]

Enjoy the view then 😏

[Anonymous]

I don’t do anything like in the pic because my nipples aren’t as big and I wouldn’t wear such a see-through shirt without a bra.

I don’t often wear bras, though, because I find them extremely uncomfortable. I tend to wear dark shirts and cardigans over them anyway, so it’s not often flashy at all. And I don’t know where you live, but everywhere I’ve been, I’ve never seen a girl like in the pic.

[TonyMetal___86]

That's because you're a decent lady and knows that you're boobs are only for you're future husband to see and no one else and ofc for breastfeeding...

There are a lot of ways to make them unseen without bras and me too i never saw a girl wearing stuff like that except in here, it's like a trend in the how do i look section, the majority of girls are taking photos like that...

[Alyssa_11]

Wearing a bra is very very uncomfortable but tbh I’m on the smaller side so it doesn’t really show lol. I wouldn’t pair it with a white top either.

[TonyMetal___86]

As long as they are not seen or revealed in anyway than it's fine miss alyssa rapunzel 😌
Even if you were on the smaller side well at least they are natural and still private because you're a lady...

[Alyssa_11]

Yeah I guess my point was it’s uncomfortable but I get away with it - you can’t tell when I’m not wearing one lol

[TonyMetal___86]

Glad to know that, because you're boobs should only be seen by you're future husband, maybe you're not a fan of them but you will feel very happy about it when you see you're future husband adoring them ☺️

[Alyssa_11]

I hope so. I feel like having a loving husband would boost my confidence a lot

[TonyMetal___86]

@alyssa_11 that's for sure sweet alyssa rapunzel and i'm telling you from now to be super confident because you're a priceless girl and if a guy doesn't teasure you than he doesn't deserves you...

Look at other girls here in this thread, can't you see how much special you are? 😌

[Alyssa_11]

Aww thank you :)

[TonyMetal___86]

You're welcome 😌

[hahahmm]

Makes it easier for men who have higher standards to know to ignore these attention whores.

[TonyMetal___86]

Well said 👍🏻

[Cherry234]

Ignorant people like you think they're attention whores.

[TonyMetal___86]

@Cherry234 trynto respect other people's opinions so they respect yours, don't attack so you don't get attacked!

[Cherry234]

@tonymetal___86 I'm not attacking anyone. I'm calling him out on his ignorance. There are many reasons why a woman may not wear a bra. Some of them probably do it to get attention but not all women who choose not to wear a bra are attention whores. He's making generalizations about women so I have a right to say something about it.

[TonyMetal___86]

@Cherry234 okay no problem, i also do not have a problem if a woman didn't want to wear a bra as long as she doesn't appear like that because female boobs no matter what size they are are considered to be private sexual parts and should be hidden...

I do agree that not all women are attention h*es, but if she looks like this one in the picture than she is, that's the truth...

[hahahmm]

@Cherry234 Men with standards don't care if you have a mile long list of reasons to show your nipples. If it's intentionally done then you're an attention whore. If it's accidental then you're just too stupid to dress yourself properly.

[MCheetah]

@hahahmm
Thank you!

[Jessica405]

Boobs are only private because some people say they are. I am from a naturist family, so for us, being seen naked, and seeing others naked, is normal and not sexual.

Seeing boobs and nips are nothing. They are just parts of our natural bodies.

[TonyMetal___86]

Really? If you're a naturist than you're place is in the jungles with a primitive tribe, even in the stone ages such parts of the body were hidden...

I know that you see such things as natural because you taught to believe that such things are okay to be seen by other while they aren't...

You are free to be a nudist but you can't to everyone that it's normal cause this thing that you call natural body needs clothes on it...

[Jessica405]

We are born naked, and it is only prudish people that think nudity is wrong. If we were meant to be clothed, why didn't the Christian God ordain as to be born covered up, or at least, covered in hair?

[TonyMetal___86]

That's not an excuse for you to be naked, we are born naked but not to stay forever naked, god taught us how to behave and to maintain high morals and values...

Private parts are private for a reason, not because people said so but because these parts are meant to be private and can be only seen by you're future spouse and why is it the future spouse it's because for sex and sexual pleasure...

[Jessica405]

Again, it is only private because someone thinks they should be. No single way of thinking is completely correct. Both schools of thought are equally valid. The fact is, most people against nudity shout louder than naturists. In the majority of cases, we keep quite.

[TonyMetal___86]

Well you have these rights in you're own special places but not in front of the public eye or anywhere...

[Jessica405]

If we were all naked, it would become normal within a generation or two. Here, in western Europe, we wear clothes only because it is darned cold in Winter!

[TonyMetal___86]

If we were all naked than we would be f*cking each other like animals and the word rape seizes to exists anymore...

[Jessica405]

What's wrong with fucking? Like nudity, it is only considered wrong because some think it is wrong.

[TonyMetal___86]

There's something really wrong in you or messed up in the head and that's if you aren't a fake pink account or a troll...

[Jessica405]

ROFLMAO!

[soe11]

Freedom is basic rights of every individual.
To be honest my girlfriend and her mom go out brafree outfits and even on function party transparent outfits without bra too.
I endorse and compliment her as I proud of my girlfriend in public, both got attractive boobs.
So we have to respect every individual choice of living and lifestyle.
Hollywood celebrities are brafree on functions openly and publicly.

[TonyMetal___86]

As if the hollywood celebs are becoming roles models! A lot of them are just a bunch or trash and unhappy in their lives, even though they got the fame and fortune...

[TonyMetal___86]

You're rights are to appear decent in the public and in front of others and too much freedom without restrictions means that humans are back to become like animals without morals and disciplines...

[soe11]

It is your perception and assumption.
We have to respect their choice as a civilize social human being.
We are not judge or jury for individual social and private life.

With regards

[soe11]

Yes we're social animal.

[fridge0]

It’s literally just a part of the body. Bras can be super uncomfortable and restricting! It shouldn’t matter to others if a woman wants to go out with a bra, it’s her choice

[TonyMetal___86]

True, but the bras ain't the problem...
The problem is to not wear a bra and appear like that, as long as you manage to keep you're boobs hidden and decent than there is no problem, with or without bras, that's my point...

[Crepe_tart]

COULDN'T AGREE WITH YOU MORE FRIDGE

[fridge0]

YES, HOPE UR HAVING A SWELL DAY CREPE

[KATaylor]

yeah now that i'm like getting older I have to. My mom won't even let me out of my room in a tshirt without a bra on

[TonyMetal___86]

That's good because you have to know that as a girl you're boobs are private parts and can never be shown except to you're future husband 😌

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If women want to wear a bra or no bra no problem & as they say to each is own.

[TonyMetal___86]

True but i was clear about my opinion about how i see them and about a lot of people how will they see them

[Static_In_The_Attic]

You should visit a nude beach sometime.

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope thanks, not a fan of random people walking naked in front of me...

[SmokyOne]

I don't see the problem. Women's breasts aren't sexual unless she is doing something sexually provocative with them. Censoring women's bodies is ridiculous, and you said you thought it was immoral? How? I'm honestly curious to see you explain that. 🤔

[TonyMetal___86]

Read my comments and you will be able to know my opinion and see my explanation.. wrote it many times for other members...

[SmokyOne]

I saw your responses and you literally say nothing and repeat that emptiness over and over.

You say it's immoral but never say how it's immoral and who said so.

You say breasts are a sex organ but that is factually false.

You accuse woman with no bras of being sex toys without any proof of action. This argument is the same as saying people that wear all black worship the devil.

You've explained nothing, your points have no basis in reality. You should be embarrassed.

[TonyMetal___86]

Than you will never be able to understand what i'm saying because you just want say no to everything since you're opinion is completely the opposite of mine...

You have you're views and i have mine

[SmokyOne]

I don't WANT to say no. It's just facts and facts don't care about your little feelings. You wanna have this opinion then be prepared to argue your point.

You came into this half cocked and unprepared. I feel bad for you.
By the way you talk you're either a child or an incel and either way it's just sad.
Get some counseling and quit projecting your bullshit onto women. If you hate them so much go suck dick instead.

[TonyMetal___86]

Blocked jackass

[Cherry234]

Some of them don't like wearing bras because they're uncomfortable. Ever thought of that?

[TonyMetal___86]

I surely did but that doesn't mean that they can show up like that...

[TRORT]

Why can't they? Us guy's do it all the time

[Cherry234]

@TRORT It's a double standard.

[TRORT]

@Cherry234 what’s double standards? I never said women can’t

[Cherry234]

@TRORT Not all people think like him. Women can do whatever they want. It doesn't matter if everyone doesn't like it.

[Cherry234]

@tonymetal___86 According to YOU that is... not everyone else.

[Cherry234]

@TRORT I mean to say that it is a double standard because some people give women crap about not wearing a bra but people think it's perfectly acceptable for a man to not have to cover up his nipples. That's what I was getting at.

[Cherry234]

I know you didn't say women can't. I was just trying to address your question.

[TRORT]

@Cherry234 oh ok, thank you girls should also be able to go shirtless like men

[sirderpsalot123]

@TRORT Saying women should be able to walk around shirtless is a little ridiculous.

[TRORT]

@sirderpsalot123 no it’s not. The only difference between guy chest and woman is her gets bigger for breastfeeding

[sirderpsalot123]

@TRORT Then we should be able to walk around with our dicks out. A woman's chest will always be sexualized. That's just a reality. This isn't worth arguing about though, lol. Have a good day

[sirderpsalot123]

I'm fine with a woman breastfeeding in public. I can not sexualize them while she's feeding her child. That's the only time it's acceptable.

[TonyMetal___86]

@Cherry234 yes it's according to me and some other billions of people, if you wanna be cheap than go ahead and be cheap or a h*e...

You have you're opinion and i have mine... have a nice day...

@TRORT go troll somewhere else or you can always check some porn sites if you're that aroused!

[sirderpsalot123]

@TRORT I'm NOT defending TonyMetal but calling me a fag because you don't agree with me isn't rude? Whatever, dude, go walk around with your dick out and watch how fast you become a registered sex offender. I'm getting bored of this "debate" because now it just seems like you really are trolling.

[sirderpsalot123]

I like @Cherry234 so I'm going to stop commenting now because I'm sure she's getting bored of this as well.

[TRORT]

@sirderpsalot123 I’m bit concern you keep wanting to see my cock, and you think that’s doesn’t make you fag? 😂🤣. You must be already registered

[sirderpsalot123]

I know I said I wasn't going to comment again but now I have to. How is that the conclusion you came to? 😂

I'm saying it wouldn't and shouldn't be ok for a guy to walk around with his shit out, the same way it wouldn't and shouldn't be ok for a woman to walk around shirtless.

But, if you want to talk about being concerned, I would think me being a "fag" is dramatically less concerning then you encouraging a 13 year old girl in these comments to walk around shirtless. Werido

[TonyMetal___86]

@sirderpsalot123 blocked this troll, so no worries

[sirderpsalot123]

@TonyMetal_86 At least you and I can agree that he sucks lol

[TonyMetal___86]

@sirderpsalot123 😄👍🏻

[sirderpsalot123]

My comments don't make sense now because you deleted his comment 🙁

[nannnnssss]

I don't think there's anything wrong with it at all it's practically not possible to wear a bra at all times and it's our body our choice

[TonyMetal___86]

You're body you're choice as long as you're decent but when you show up like that than prepare for all the consequences and do not cry or complain...

[nannnnssss]

That's the wrong mentality people don't understand the reason behind the girl not wearing a bra and lust in their minds are the reason for the same and what do you mean by preparing for all the consequences and not crying Don't you know that it's the women right to complan against such consequences if a random stranger call your mother or sister a slut or comments the way she dress and say not to cry or complain in such consequences then you can only relate

[TonyMetal___86]

My mother would never wear such things and if i had a sister or a wife they will be modest and not cheap h*es with lame excuses just to act sl*tty...
So spare me the lesson...
Just say that you agree to be cheap and a h*e, or younhave the choice to be decent and do the right thing...

[nannnnssss]

You can't call a girl a cheap how or anything derogatory and for this comment i can sue you under section 509 in the Indian courts

[nannnnssss]

And this comment also show your fucking mentality of being a manwhore

[TonyMetal___86]

Go sue me then and don't forget to take this with you 🖕🏻

Blocked and again you're cheap and make lame excuses to verifi you're sluttiness

[Mac-One]

@tonymetal___86 Girls going without a bra is not slutty.

[Anonymous]

Nothing let women be hoes. They just want attention, they know what they are doing. They will act all innocent and get mad when they get attention but everyone knows they want it. They are just hypocrites. Stare at those titties and move on

[TonyMetal___86]

A lot of them are like that, true story 😄

[Jenny4455]

Whys it matter? Still have a top on. I never wear a bra

[TonyMetal___86]

As long as you wear a top where you're boobs can'r be seen at all than it's perfectly fine, that's why i posted a picture to give an example of what it is unacceptable

[Jenny4455]

Don't see the problem with the pic. Girls can dress how they like

[Creampiekarl420]

@Jenny4455 that’s inappropriate

[Kittyis17]

@Creampiekarl420 it's not tho🙄

[Creampiekarl420]

@Kittyis17 to dress however you like yes it is because you aren’t the only person on this planet your like isn’t about just you you owe others courtesy and respect

[Jenny4455]

@Creampiekarl420 how is it inappropriate?

[HeartFullOfGlue]

They just don't like wearing a bra (or forgot to)
How is it immoral and disrespectful?

[TRORT]

It not it's very beautiful seeing woman without bra, bras aren't mandatory, more women should do this

[TonyMetal___86]

@HeartFullOfGlue it's not about forgetting and no girl forgets to wear a bra, anyways even if she did that she shouldn't appear like that

[HeartFullOfGlue]

Yeah some do
Shouldn't appear like what?

[TonyMetal___86]

See through shirt, such her nipples are visible like that and that's why i put a photo so that you can see the example, totally unacceptable to appear like that

[HeartFullOfGlue]

Thats what nipples look like 😐
Whats the problem?

[TonyMetal___86]

Really i didn't knew 🤣
You know what i mean, have a nice day...

[HeartFullOfGlue]

know*
No I don't, you're making a fuss over nothing

[TonyMetal___86]

If that's how you feel and that's what you think than it's you're problem not mine...
You're only 14, if i had a daughter she would be older than you now, do you think that i'll have an argument with you?

Think about me the way you want 😄

[HeartFullOfGlue]

You asked for what peoples opinions were and you got it, you shouldn't have a problem with it.
I don't know, you have up until now

Okay 😶

[TRORT]

@Tony__86 shutup bitch your just child predator, blocking me hahaha like I care

[soe11]

Agree with you 👌👍

[TommyMountainFigure]

With all due respect to your beliefs, what difference does it make to you how a woman is dressed? I mean, if you don't like it or are offended by it then you don't have to look.. right? There are no laws being broken.

[TonyMetal___86]

You can always read my update and thanks for you're respectful opinion...

A lot of people thought that the topic is about if you can wear a bra or not, while the topic is different, cause my point was that a woman is free to whether she wants to wear a bra or not as long as her boobs are well covered and can't be noticed by anyone in public...
I have provided a picture to give an example as what's unacceptable which is a woman going out and appearing like that to everyone, other than that it's perfectly fine!

[Pink2000]

It’s not disrespectful or immoral. Stop sexualizing two bags of fat. They’re just titties. If you don’t like it don’t look.

[TonyMetal___86]

You stop making it okay cause their not, you have you're opinion and i have mine, don't tell me or teach me about how i see things...

Don't worry i'll always look and it's you who's going to hide them since you will never feel comfortable popping them out like that!

I'm sure that you're a feminist, i stay out from you're threads so you stay out of mine, haven't you blocked me already or what?

[ObscuredBeyond]

That's not how biology works. The brain is hard-wired to equate feminine nipple flaunting with reproduction. To broadcast them, is to broadcast sex. Unless you're butt ugly. Then, it's an assault on the senses.

[TonyMetal___86]

@ObscuredBeyond well said but do you think that a feminazi will ever understand that? 😏

[Pink2000]

I’m not a feminist and I don’t believe in feminism because it only benefits white women and not women of color. I do believe that there are perverts out there who can’t control their urges to look at them. Why are you looking in the first place? Look at their face.

[TonyMetal___86]

Don't wanna look at their faces nor on their boobs because i don't even care about her whole package, why would i be interested to look at a woman's face if she's showing her boobs like that, i'd be interested in her face when i see that she's a decent lady who have self respect and considers her body to be precious and only meant to be shown to her future husband...

[TonyMetal___86]

No matter what you're color is, i see you as a woman, i will never treat you based on you're color, i will treat you according to what you have in you're heart and mind...

[Pink2000]

It’s not our fault if you can’t keep your eyes above our chest. My friend goes around braless all the time. It’s comfortable and freeing. We most certainly don’t go around braless for the validation of men.

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope you're totally wrong if you think that i care about you're boobs or any other girl who shows it like that, try to understand what i wrote you, cause i meant that i don't care about women who uses their sexual assets to attract men or any girl who appears like that is considered cheap in my book so no worries, to me such women doesn't even exists...

Now about saying that women doesn't seek men's validation, well go say it to a kid and not to someone like me, because you know it and i know it that the majority of women does such things to seek men's validations even if they deny it and the big proof in the how do i look section, instagram and the majority of social media sites... so common! 😏

[Pink2000]

Why do men think that we do things for them? Y’all really think y’all are that special.

[TonyMetal___86]

We aren't special neither do you, you make things for men because you're showing to men and cares if you're looking good to men also to be competitive with other women 🤣

[Pink2000]

I’m convinced some of you think you’re more special than what you are. We don’t have to impress you. Man are easy. We do things for ourselves.

[TonyMetal___86]

Do you think that you're special? If by showing you're boobs means you're special than good luck with that, well yes males are easy but real men are very hard, start with me, do you see me an easy man 🤣

Keep doing things for yourselves and pretend to live the reality while living in hallucinations...

Have a nice day 🙂

[ObscuredBeyond]

News flash: Many women do. And they are totally shameless about whoring themselves. Problem with whores, is they get cocky, and are prone to narcissism. Which leads many of them to also become liars and manipulators. It only takes a man getting burned once or twice, to develop a prejudice.

Instead of hating all men, lady, you'd be better off cursing those thots who ruined womanhood for men and women both. A thot tolerated, leads to men demoralized and destroyed. Which ultimately devalues men and women. Until all become worthless.

[TonyMetal___86]

@ObscuredBeyond well said

[Pink2000]

@ObscuredBeyond most definitely don’t hate all men. I just hate men who think like you

[ObscuredBeyond]

What does the evidence say? And if you ever met one of these women, especially if they were making a scene to broadcast themselves to men as sex objects, like total fools with no self-respect, what would you say to them? Would you not be ashamed of the damage they're doing?

By keeping the focus on me, a mere observer, you deprive yourself of honest examination.

[DownIndaDumpz]

they do it because they dont want men to objectify them

[TonyMetal___86]

Or do it on purpose so they get sexually objectified by a man 🤣

[DownIndaDumpz]

hahaha yeee >:)

[Hedera]

They are only considered a private part because society dictates that they are. They are literally sacks of fat, guys.

[TonyMetal___86]

Well we live in a society and these rules haven't came from nothing...

[Hedera]

Nah dude, sounds as though a chick wearing a shirt like that gave you a hard-on and instead of you feeling embarrassed about objectifying her body you would rather blame her for just... wearing a shirt. Everyone has nipples, my guy, ain't nothing sexual about them unless YOU make them sexual. Their base design is to feed babies.

[GlassTop]

You could say the same about butts. Just a large muscle. Doesn’t mean they aren’t sexually appealing.

[Lliam]

I don't see why women should be obligated to dress so as not to offend men. Who put men in control of women's lives, God?
Maybe it's the men who are offended who should mind their own business.

[TonyMetal___86]

Speak for yourself old man, instead of teaching decency you're teaching the opposite

[Anonymous]

Their body their choice provided no laws are being broken. You need to elect a government that supports your ideals if you want stricter laws.

[TonyMetal___86]

You name it and i'll vote for it 😌

[modeve]

Nothing wrong. If they are comfortable without bra, it's their right.

[TonyMetal___86]

A lot of people thought that the topic is about if you can wear a bra or not, while the topic is different, cause my point was that a woman is free to whether she wants to wear a bra or not as long as her boobs are well covered and can't be noticed by anyone in public...
I have provided a picture to give an example as what's unacceptable which is a woman going out and appearing like that to everyone, other than that it's perfectly fine!

[TonyMetal___86]

If you'd like to read my update too so you know my opinion...

[dovendyret]

Only different in-between my tits and yours - is that mine can potentially lactate.

That you sexualize my tits, isn't a good enough reason for me to be strapped uncomfortably down all day and that I don't want to be uncomfortably strapped down - doesn't make me immoral. My tits are no more private part than yours - just because men like you heavily sexualize them.

[TonyMetal___86]

Than don't get bothered when you suffer the consequences...

[Daniela1982]

You can't be serious. Women sexualize their boobs as much as guys or else they wouldn't be trying to attract men with their low cut tops and tini bikini. You are kidding yourself.

[dovendyret]

😳😳😳😳To both replies.

I should be forced to wear a bra or "suffer the consequences". Like what the actual fuck. (by the way already suffered for it - I was a sexy child it seems)

And yes I'm serious. I wish I could walk as bare as men - but no. People like you only think about sex when seeing tits on a woman - let's cover up ladies or we'll have to suffer the consequences.

[TonyMetal___86]

@dovendyret that's the truth and if you can't handle it than it's you're problem, you don't and will never have a full freedom in public and that's why you have a house to be fully free in it...

Personally if you did such thing in front of me, i won't hurt you or anything but will look down on you and will never be interested to be with a cheap girl who have no morals and appearing like that to everyone cause whether you like it or not you were born a female and you're boobs are private sexual part and totally different than a man's chest which is not sexual and not private, still it will be more respectful if men wear something from the above too but can never be compared to a girl...

[Daniela1982]

Oh please! If you wore a low cut top or a string bikini, or were naked in a prelude to having sex, you would be bitching that men DIDN'T look, or weren't interested or tuned on by your body. You can't have it both ways so pick your poison..

[honeynut-scenarios]

What’s wrong with you for this to even be an issue? You shouldn’t give a rats ass what other people decide to dress in. Grow up.

[TonyMetal___86]

I don't give a rats ass about what others are wearing i'm stating my opinion and seeing what others thinn about it...

Why did you get furious about it...

Also don't tell me to grow up little kid, you have no respect for people who are older than you!

[honeynut-scenarios]

You clearly do for posing the question. And if she’s “showing off” you must like what you see. Your age is irrelevant, because at the end of the day you were provoked by a random woman’s breast. Lol I can’t respect that. No one is forcing you against your will to look, and you’re spending energy getting upset by it. I’m not furious by any means, just here to say your opinion sucks. 😊

[TonyMetal___86]

My opinion might suck but not as much as yours so go suck a lolli cause that's what you're good at... BLOCKED! 😒

[MCheetah]

@honeynut-scenarios
It's ironic that people like you try to say "What’s wrong with this?" and then also try to say "she wasn't asking for it" when a woman gets sexually assaulted. As if you all seem think sexual attention doesn't exist and that grabbing attention doesn't make you a target for the WRONG kind of attention from certain people in society.

I seriously hate young people in this generation. Women think they can do anything and then deflect all blame and responsibility when bad stuff happens to them, as if their actions and behavior had NOTHING to do with it!

[SunnyCaliGirl]

There are a lot of fashion trends for young woman currently, that are meant to be worn without a bra.
I personally dont wear those types of trends, but yea I agree its something seen a lot more often it seems

[soe11]

Precisely

[TonyMetal___86]

@SunnyCaliGirl but what's you're opinion miss sunnycaligirl? Would you ever accept to walk like that in public such as this woman in the photo and do think that a woman appearing like that is normal?

[SunnyCaliGirl]

Well i do agree that is not all out topless in like the women in the photo, I personally don't things like that in public but I also don't shame women for dressing a certain way, I believe that's on the woman dressing in such a way and like with anything else in life actions will attract consequences

[TonyMetal___86]

True and that's what i meant...

[SunnyCaliGirl]

Great minds think alike :)

[TonyMetal___86]

Thanks, sweet as always miss sunny 😊☀️

[SunnyCaliGirl]

Most welcome Mr. Tony :)

[Anonymous]

I barely walk around the house without a bra. Let alone the street

[TonyMetal___86]

Inside you're house you can even walk naked orc if you're alone or married with you're husband but you're words shows that you're a decent precious lady 😊

[Anonymous]

They know guys are hungry to nurse on their nipples and are turned on my it.

[TonyMetal___86]

I believe so but they still argue that such things are only found in a man's dirty mind while such girls are even dirtier but pretend to be like angels 😂

[Opinion Owner]

Many women enjoy being the girl who inspires boob lust in the office.

[TonyMetal___86]

True because they can't offer more than their bodies!

[jennifer_bloom]

My nipples show even with a bra but they show less - It’s not always intentional

[TonyMetal___86]

Are you making fun of me? Know what to wear and be sure that you're boobs or nipples won't be seen

[CubaPirate]

Their body their choice. But they shouldn't complain if we look

[TonyMetal___86]

Haha

[Anonymous]

Bc they are free to do so and also bras aren't comfortable at all and it is healthier to not wear them

[TonyMetal___86]

A lot of people thought that the topic is about if you can wear a bra or not, while the topic is different, cause my point was that a woman is free to whether she wants to wear a bra or not as long as her boobs are well covered and can't be noticed by anyone in public...
I have provided a picture to give an example as what's unacceptable which is a woman going out and appearing like that to everyone, other than that it's perfectly fine!

Also not free to do so without receiving the consequences of their actions...

[Opinion Owner]

The consequences? This is like saying if you are arab (i'm arab) and you go to Europe or any other place you need to accept the racism that you will face. It is a stupid argument. harassment is wrong and it has no justification. If you don't like the girls clothes just don't pay attention to it you are a human and you can control your instinct and your actions. Even tho personally i don't think i'll ever wear something like that it is too much for me but idc about what other people wear.

[Prg11]

Hmm... I don't know that it is wrong.
Whom does it offend? Transgenders?
They are always offended by any heterosexual attraction, we can't help them.

[TonyMetal___86]

Tnx for sharing

[Prg11]

The only other thing about it is that the cold makes hairs grow/develop on the skin. So, girls keep being warm, guys keep showing off their (thus hairy) chests

[lrina]

i find it very indecent.

[TonyMetal___86]

Well said and thanks for sharing

[DermalPunch]

Newsflash (pun intended) this isn't a new phenomenon. But in general I dontknow what people's basic problem is these days.

[TonyMetal___86]

The problem is that a lot of women had lost their self respect and think that it's okay to be a sex toy...

If you look at this picture and think that it's allright to appear like that than you have a moral problem...

[DermalPunch]

You are just so hair trigger on attack mode that ifnyou bithered to read my opinion you would understand I find it. problematic. i remember being a kid seeing women flop about. There was no insta back then so it wasn't so all encompassing. I think it's out of order, personally.

[TonyMetal___86]

I'll make it clear once and for all in my update if you'd like to read it...

[TonyMetal___86]

A lot of people thought that the topic is about if you can wear a bra or not, while the topic is different, cause my point was that a woman is free to whether she wants to wear a bra or not as long as her boobs are well covered and can't be noticed by anyone in public...
I have provided a picture to give an example as what's unacceptable which is a woman going out and appearing like that to everyone, other than that it's perfectly fine!

[DermalPunch]

Ok. Great. Still don't know why you jumped down my throat.

[TonyMetal___86]

What do you mean?

[DermalPunch]

"If you look at this picture and think that it's allright to appear like that than you have a moral problem..." you inferred my condoning of this practice out of thin air and I found unnecessarily judgmental and hair trigger.

[TonyMetal___86]

Let's get one thing straight cause you're English is bad and i'm not capable of understanding the whole meaning that you are trying to show me...

Will you ever appear like this girl in this photo in public? And do you think that girls who appears like that are disrespectful and undecent?

[DermalPunch]

"Let's get one thing straight cause you're English is bad" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 MY English is bad. Hahahahhaha. You can't even perceive when someone is agreeing with you.

[megabamse]

Go back to your virgin bible class. It's fine. But i does depend on the degree of it and what setting, so i will halfway agree to that.

[TonyMetal___86]

I'm not a student in the bible class and if i was than i'll be proud of it and if you don't share with me the same opinion than it's okay cause you don't have to!

Maybe someday you will enjoy, you're mother, sister, wife or daughter showing up and walking like that in public!

[megabamse]

You as a man have to have shorts longer then to your knees. And your t-shirts have to have sleeves going down to your alboves, and the neck close your nek.

[TonyMetal___86]

I always wear modest outfits if that's what you meant...

[megabamse]

You sound like that type of person. Ever wanted to become a monk?

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope i'm not a monk and far off to become one, i'm just a decent respectful real man...

[megabamse]

Yeah yeah, square

[TonyMetal___86]

Are you a mathematician now 🤣

[megabamse]

Hah of course you did not get the reference. Should have known.

[TonyMetal___86]

Any negative reference just shows who you really are and not who i really am, just saying...

[megabamse]

Neeh that's not this conversation really shows hahah

[oliversamuel]

Meh. When I was 2 or three I would steal my moms' bras and run around in them. Very uncomfortable, but I thought it was fun. So I get that bras may be uncomfortable…

[TonyMetal___86]

Okay but still cannot show up like that in public...

[oliversamuel]

Yeah, I guess so

[oliversamuel]

It depends on the setting - formal or informal

[Layafell]

Do you also complain kind this if you can see a guys nipples through his shirt?

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope i don't because a man's chest ain't sexual or private, you can't compare a woman's boobs to a man's chest cause they totally different...

[Layafell]

Just because it's not to you sexually attractive doesn't means it's not too girls. In the end there is not much difference other than shape. The chest is covered only the nipples are poking through a bit. Is that's too much for you to handle then that's your problem and not the ours. Stop thinking with your dick

[Layafell]

Too many typos sorry

[Creampiekarl420]

@layafell that very inconsiderate of male anatomy

[TonyMetal___86]

@layafell if i think with my dick which cleary i'm not than you're thinking with you're tits and a*s...
If you can't respect others, just tell me...

[Layafell]

It's not me who's calling girls cheap, immoral and disrespectful just because a natural part of their body is poking slightly through their shirt. If you want respect you need to show respect yourself first

[TonyMetal___86]

Such girls in my opinion are like that while you consider it normal, so like it or not i'm not going to change, if you're going to make attacks on me you will lose!

Just accept the facts, if you want to be a b*tch it's not my problem cause i don't and will never respect a h*e who appears like that and more over giving excuses to make it look normal while the majority of the world knows that such things are immoral and disrespectful...

[TonyMetal___86]

Let the convo stops here because it seems that you and me will never agree on anything...

[GMANN56]

Does a woman's freedom of choice an other areas of life cause
you to get all flustered? Do you feel it's your right as a man to
be able to tell women how to live?

[TonyMetal___86]

I have the right to say my opinion about women but i'll never force them on their way of living because they are free...

They do not have the right to show their private assets to public, that's my opinion!

I'm not flustered and i don't even care, it's just sad how a lot of women have lost their self respect and are acting like h*es with pride...

Now when it comes to boys, well i'm a guy and i know how guys think, any guy who supports such acts is just another sexual hungry pig and belongs to the feminazi group...

[GMANN56]

What about women with small breasts who's nipples don't stick out through their shirt?
Can they go without bras? Or is it just the big ones that make you uncomfortable?

[TonyMetal___86]

A woman's boobs are a private sexual part no matter what size she have, the problem ain't in going with or without bras, i know lots of women who will never go out without bras not only because they are respectful but because their boobs looks better with bra and feel uncomfortable without it...

Anyways my point of view is that a woman is free to wear or not to qear a bra as long as her boobs are well hidden and no one can see them like that...

You see i posted this picture for an example, i'm against her looking like that in public...

You are a guy and me too and we both know what such things means...

[GMANN56]

So you are saying that if a woman wear a shirt and no bra and her nipples show, that she is looking for a man to fuck her? So it's ok with you if she doesn't wear a bra just as long as she keeps those
puppies hidden so you don't get all upset. I just saw that you are Arab and I know you guys like
to keep the women in their place.

[TonyMetal___86]

I'm lebanese which is considered an arab country but indo not represent my country or the arabs or anyone, i only represent myself, i know people from all around the world and aware of all cultures and traditions...

I agree about a lot of things with Asians, arabc, european and westerns and even Africans and at the same time there are a lot of things that i don't agree with them...

You keep putting words in my mouth and imagining that if i say this than i mean that...

You live the way you want and forget about me, when you start understanding my statements than you can have a chat with me...

This convo won't lead anywhere, cause you're trying you're best to make it look as if it's nornal without any clue of what you're saying while i'm explaining to you why it should be like that...

Tired of this convo, cause we are running in circles...

Have a nice day...

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nothing. People get offended by the dumbest shit I swear.

[TonyMetal___86]

It's not an offense as much as it's disrespectful and undecent, let's see if women are comfortable with men walking in public with their d*cks visible like that...

If that's something you like that you can always check a porn site or pay a h*e for her services or maybe have free sex with a girl you know, if you have sexual urges it doesn't mean that seeing such things is perfectly fine...

[TheSpaceGnome]

It's just nipple imprints dude, and this is coming from a boob guy.

In a lot of places its legal for women to walk around topless just like guys do, and when humans started out, everyone was naked.

I don't view it as disrespectful, at times awkward if arousing, but not disrespectful.

I bet you would have a panic attack in a nudist area xD

[TonyMetal___86]

I'm not into nudists or wanna ever see nudist people...

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm not a nudist or even really care about nudism, I'm just not offended by it. in the same way that I'm not offended that every other animal on the planet is naked. I pretty much have a "who cares" view of it, outside of wanting people to be clothed in public seating or eating areas for sanitation reasons.

[Redstang88]

How’s it bothering you? I probably wouldn't either, bras aren’t very comfortable

[TonyMetal___86]

It bothers me because this is indecent and shows a lack of morals...
Do you have boobs like women to say that you wouldn't want to wear bras? 🤣

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

No bras aren't comfortable.. but there's sports bras that aren't that uncomfortable to wear and there's even tank tops with built in sports bras, so there is other options, and that pic above? That ain't about comfort, that's about showing em off

[TonyMetal___86]

@Brainsbeforebeauty well said miss brains muffins, there are also thick shirts where the boobs can never be seen, maybe because they got sponge pads or such things...

[Redstang88]

Whatever, guess I just don’t see the point of going out of my way to be bothered by something that’s none of my business
You know what I mean

[TonyMetal___86]

@Redstang88 same as you, we can't order people what to do and what not to do because they are free but being free doesn't mean that we cannot point at the mistakes that others does...

[Jamie05rhs]

If you think it's immoral then you shouldn't have posted the photo, bucko.

[TonyMetal___86]

Posted the photo so that they know what i'm talking about...

[TonyMetal___86]

If you enter the how do i look section than you will see a lot of these photos and even more...

[abc--123]

So because you can't control yourself she has to wear a bra. Her tits are covered get over it

[TonyMetal___86]

Whether i can control it or not, it's my problem, all she have to do is to be decent and do not show any sign that she's an attention h*e!

[Anonymous]

I’m not a boob guy and they don’t appeal to me very much unless they are in my face. I do look at them though. But if the girl wants to not wear a bra, she just shouldn’t complain if she gets looks. I imagine that’s what she wants anyway.

[Dollface1991]

I think it should be someone's personal preference.. I mean if you can pull it off why not?

[TonyMetal___86]

What do you mean by pull it off?

[Just_call_me_Levi]

Really? This is bothering people?

Do I need to wear multiple layers of underwear so no one sees I have a penis?

[TonyMetal___86]

You don't have too cause it's not visible...

[Just_call_me_Levi]

Actually... I like me some well-fitted pants, and you can see which way "it" goes. So yes you can, can't help it. Which is why I used it as an example.

But back on topic, why do girls ABSOLUTELY HAVE TO WEAR A BRA if they don't want to, for any reason? Is this really keeping people up at night? It's not like they're flashing.

[clampfan101]

Simply not wearing a bra is fine.
Purposely showing off private parts in any way is immoral.

[TonyMetal___86]

True she can go out without a bra as long as her boobs are hidden and cannot be noticed by others at all

[Anonymous]

I don't think there's anything wrong with it at all. If guys can do it, why can't I?

[TonyMetal___86]

Because you're simply a girl and not a guy, you're boobs are a private sexual part unlike a man's chest which isen't...

Don't ask such shallow questions miss jlee because you already know my opinion about such things, remember when you sent me you're photos in underwear, bikini and revealing to much skin and asked me about my opinion? I was very clear with you and told you my point of view...

So please spare the drama...

Be what ever you want to be but don't tell me that it's okay just because you are doing it...

[Snickers_5171]

Personally, I hate doing that

[Crepe_tart]

I agree with you Anon. Literally having a bra for long hours is the worst and everyday I see men not wearing something underneath either. It's not even our fault boobs are sexualised. It's a part of the body, it's for feeding our future children.

[TonyMetal___86]

@Crepe_tart you can get out without bras as long as you have you're boobs covered well and can't be seen under any circumstences...

[Nagatoro]

I never not wear a bra, so I don't know lmao

[TonyMetal___86]

Good girl 😁

[EnglishEuropean]

If you are so offended you shouldn't be posting that picture.

[TonyMetal___86]

A lot of people thought that the topic is about if you can wear a bra or not, while the topic is different, cause my point was that a woman is free to whether she wants to wear a bra or not as long as her boobs are well covered and can't be noticed by anyone in public...
I have provided a picture to give an example as what's unacceptable which is a woman going out and appearing like that to everyone, other than that it's perfectly fine!

[EnglishEuropean]

Okay, then you're a prude.