Am I just terrible with girls?

[Anonymous]

So I always hear of stories from my friends on the women they get. It makes me feel like crap because I get told a lot that I’m attractive from girls (90% of the time they say it behind my back), but yet, I never really have had much luck. I literally always have a girl always staring at me from afar, but as soon as I’m close, it’s just like I’m invisible. Yesterday, my friend showed me his girlfriend and her friend that they have sex with him. And these girls are hot and crazy about him. Or my other friend who always has three girls who he casually sees. I just don’t get what they see in them? Or what I’m doing wrong?

[Dan4you]

If 90% say that, and stare at you from a distance... my friend, you have nothing to complain about.

Perhaps you should smile back when they look at you you laugh a bit when you hear them say that of you.

They liked how you looked. But you got to perhaps appear more friendly to them. Dont go immediatly near them. It scares them off.

I wish I got what you have, I have to be extremly creative an proactive to make a girl notice me. But you got that with no effort apparently.

So just smile. If they are behind you look back a little but not directly at them and make sure they see you enjoyed it.

[charlesfox]

Usually when you act uninterested (and are good looking at the same time) girls will come near just to be seen but 99% of the time they will not make the final step.
If you are attractive, they have bigger tendency to play hard to get. So you probably experience paradox - they like you but they treat like they don't. Is it right?

[moviedude714]

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