Me and my boyfriend been together for 7th months and it was great at first. But then slowly coming in he started letting the whole gifting thing or giving more interest in things we do less appreciation or less knowledge so I would speak with him with things I would appreciate he does because the lack made me overthink that I wasn’t enough. He told me I should start appreciating him more. I did everytime he gave me something to appreciate him and then when I mentioned it on national girlfriend day that he didn't make me feel somewhat special towards the day he brought up being more appreciative. What should I do?
Love tends to change overtime. I think what you need to express to him, is that he shouldn’t present stuff to you that he can’t keep up with because once you see a change in behavior you think the worst. Just say “I would love us to be ourselves in the relationship and present things only we can keep up with because we are going to start feeling insecure. Lately I’ve been feeling insecure because the changes I have been seeing, but I totally understand it’s because love changes over time” I think the big issue here is you do need to take accountability that maybe it’s more of your insecurity and not the fact that he isn’t giving as much anymore
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To clarify, you’re saying that at the beginning of your relationship he was giving you gifts and showing more interest, now he really isn’t, and when you bring it up he says you should be more appreciative, right?
You say he doesn't appreciate you. What do you do to appreciate him? Give him a massage? Cook his favorite meal? Take him to his favorite restaurant?
Sex, simple give him surprise sex and head and each time say this is how much I appreciate you
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