We would be considered a LDR. I do send pictures though just not nude. Thoughts?
Am I a bad girlfriend if I don't send nudes?
We would be considered a LDR. I do send pictures though just not nude. Thoughts?
No, you aren't a bad girlfriend. Being uncomfortable sending nude pics does not make you a bad partner, and if he's making you feel that way, then HE is being a bad partner.
Of COURSE he'd love to have them - that's understandable. Hell, i love nudes myself, but I don't expect any girl to send them to me, and I'd never make her feel bad about not wanting to.
The reality is that LDRs put huge, enormous strains on relationships, and relationships rarely survive. If you were together, this wouldn't even be an issue, but being apart, he's looking for a way to keep his feelings for you alive and to feel satisfied, and this is one of the only ways that will happen (even if it's only a temporary stop-gap). If the LDR continues for much longer, even that won't be enough.
The wise play would be to break up now, and agree with each other that IF you move back to the same place in the future, and IF you are both single, then you agree to try the relationship again at that time, but you should NOT put your romantic life on hold waiting or hoping to be back together with each other, because it might never happen.
If you try to maintain the LDR, there's a much better chance that you'll lose the relationship altogether anyway, and then it's unlikely that there could even BE a second chance.
You're a good girlfriend if you don't send nudes. You're a bad girlfriend if you throw your dignity out of the window so someone can jack off.
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He's hinting because he wants the pictures, but he's not being pushy and he's being respectful, like you said he said. Don't feel bad about it. If he isn't forcing you, don't do it if you don't want to. If he is forcing you, don't do it no matter what and break up with him.
So no, you are most definitely NOT being a bad girlfriend and you have nothing to worry about.
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It doesn't make you a bad girlfriend at all, you're being cautious because those pictures could get into the wrong hands, his phone could get stolen or you could have a falling out. Don't do something you're not comfortable with to please other people
No, it doesn't make you a bad GF :) I wouldn't feel comfortable sending nudes to anyone, either u_u Just do what you feel comfortable with, if he loves you, he will understand. :)
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No I think you're making a very smart decision for a lot of reasons. One reason is that I have had bozo's stick their phones in my face with their nude girls in my face and those pictures were probably meant to be mutual between them not me. I think that's highly disrespectful and either way I couldn't care less to see them because I didn't interest me at all. And if that's not enough that's a good way to cause your phone flagged and cause you to get eavesdropped on.
Its not bad to send nudes but if your not comfy with it then he should respect that. besides what if he goes on showing your nudes to his friends or whatnot. and what if your really texting his dad or brother.
No, it rather makes you a smart GF. It is degrading. The man you are with should value you more than to expect such things.
I agree, thanks :)
It's your choice. It doesn't make you a bad girlfriend. He would appreciate it, but you don't have to. Just because you don't doesn't make you a bad girlfriend
Not at all. It just means you respect your self and that you don't feel comfortable with sending nudes. Your boyfriend should be content with your smiling face :)
Lol, thanks.
That doesn't necessarily make you a bad girlfriend if you don't send nudes. Although he may like it if you do. I'm just saying.
I don`t even ask for nudes. If she wants to send them fine, but I really don`t care. Doesn`t really make you a bad GF.
Stop thinking that way. He better not be forcing you...
He doesn't force. He just hints that he wants and I just can't bring myself to do it.
The don't do it. And be prepared when he bluntly asks you for them. Stand your ground.
Lol ok thanks.
haha no you are not because of that. If anything you are smart to protect yourself
Nah, no way. If you don't want to send them then he has to respect that choice. Even if he hints at it, as long as he's not trying to force it it's fine.
Two words: Jennifer Lawrence. No, you're not.
Lol thanks :)
Who in the hell told you that?
No one really, I just sometimes feel that way.
It's not a bad thing not to do that. In fact I think it's weird to do it. You never know who can get them.
No way! You never know where those will end up!!
Do whatever you are comfortable with.
no... do what you're comfortable with..
No you are not bad.
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