Why am I such a bad girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

He comes whenever we hang out, he drives an hour to see me. Like I don't want a guy to waste his time to come see me, he pays for my meals, comes up to the door and opens the doors for me... I feel like he's doing all the work.. and I am honestly not worth all this trouble.. I feel horrible.. I met his mom, it's a LONG drive for me. He told me he doesn't mind driving to my town I mean he's got friends here and cousins... UGH. Maybe he needs to find someone who lives closer to him.. How can I tell him? He got me flowers for Valentines Day, and I got him just a card... How do I tell him? I like him a lot, but I feel like he's doing all this work and trouble to be with me... I am not even that pretty or worth it. Someone told me that I should give him sex or a BJ... but I am not ready for that yet.. He hasn't pressured me into sex at all which is amazing..

[btbc92]

Don't listen to idiots telling you to have premarital sex. If you was such a bad girlfriend he would have complained to you about something by now and everything else under the sun. You got him a card, so what is the problem? Who is the one complaining? Who's the one feeling that way? You? Don't make a mountain out of a mole here. At least he makes the effort to do something some wouldn't do for somebody. However, if your that concerned about as you should, you need to talk about where you both believe it should take place, which SHOULD have been talked about way before you two dated or became official. Overall. Again, don't make a problem because of your insecurities.

[Confidenceoverload]

your not a bad girlfriend your just dating a nice guy the guy all girls truly want but they all say they want Alphas which are LIES

[Asker]

He's such a good fucking guy! :) That's all I wanted, he's a sweetheart. He cracks me up with his swearing omg. xD

[Confidenceoverload]

lol lucky i wish i could find a girl that likes me for how nice i am but nope they all want the ripped guys but ya know its fine ill find the one eventually and i good luck on your future

[Asker]

Aw, you will find her someday. I never liked the abs look, they give hard hugs and it's gross looking (in my opinion). And thank you!! :)

[Confidenceoverload]

lol i mean i want to look strong though and is it weird I've never had a kiss or hug or even sex with a girl i like

[Asker]

Oh yeah some muscle is attractive af. And no not at all :) Sounds like you are just shy!

[Confidenceoverload]

Introverted and Socially awkward those 2 things are a bitch especially if your open online but closed irl

[Asker]

I know right? I totally agree. It sucks! but you'll find someone! you are 16, still young. Just live life and don't worry about it :)

[Confidenceoverload]

yep i just live life to the fullest even though im awkward af idc

[speedyboye]

He wouldn't be bothering if he didn't really like you.

[Asker]

You think so?

[speedyboye]

Obviously. He clearly sees you as important if he puts in all that effort.

[pulsar79521]

Sounds like he does not see you as a bad girlfriend. So maybe you are not 👍

[Asker]

I hope so

[Malomy]

There's no way you can be a bad girlfriend if you're always thinking about him that way, keep going at your pace and it'll work out.

[BeWithMe]

I think he really likes you.

[Asker]

I hope so. :) I just feel bad.

[BeWithMe]

Don't do something you think you should do. Only do it if YOU want to. Stay true to what and how you believe

[Anonymous]

damn just break up with him if you're not thankful for him or putting any effort

[benjaminashton]

Try to be a good girl then. Not very hard

[Asker]

How?

[benjaminashton]

show your mercy and care to him always in ultimate degree.
For example get his head on your laps in every dating and kiss him and caress his face and lips.

[jimyee]

Didn't you just post this shit?

[danny215]

Do you love him?