Men only: what are some of the things that females do that irritate your soul?

[aquamarine321]

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[MCheetah]

- All of feminism.

- Double standards. Like "feminism when it suits me, traditional gender roles and 'women and children first'" when it doesn't.

- When women think they can be tough like men, they start to play the "But I'm a woman" card.

- Making you regret your actions. Like when women say "you can tell me anything" and the moment you open up to them, they judge you or call you an "incel, angry, or a creep" or whatever for being honest with them, for once.

- When women can never tell the truth; either about themselves, or what they really want. Or never give clear messages; always expecting men to be mind-readers or just instantly know what's on their mind 24/7.

- Related to the last one: Women always CLAIM to want a certain kind of man and personality traits, but never really mean it.
"I want a decent man who is funny and treats me good." (Man shows up.) "Oh. No, I meant, I want a guy who's over six feet tall who has abs and a sexy smile. I couldn't give a f*ck how he treats me; as long as he isn't a convicted felon."

- Women wanting the best of men and expecting nothing less, while giving men the worst of themselves and telling men to be grateful they even get that. (Hypergamy.)

- Women are lazy and pathetic, yet try to play the "sexism" sh*t or the Pussy Pass when you point it out, ESPECIALLY sex workers. (I don't even hate sex workers, but they need to stop acting like their vital to society or on the same level as doctors and lawyers jut because some simp was always there to wipe their asses for them.)

- (As others said) NEVER - EVER - taking any responsibility for their actions. It's always someone else's fault, usually a man's. Sheer selfishness, even when they're clearly the problem, like cheating on a guy or abusing him. It's always "You made me feel unloved. It's YOUR fault I did this! You should've taken better care of me!"

All of this makes it sound like I hate women. I don't. But as people who know me know, I'm a very honest person and don't surgarcoat anything. A lot of modern women have a LOT of issues. And what's worse is, they'll whine or complain or throw around the "misogyny" BS, rather than work on bettering themselves, because only women can get away with that. Men who suck and make excuses for it get sh*tcanned.

[MCheetah]

Women *who are lazy and pathetic
like *they're vital to society
*just because

[MCheetah]

Thank you for Most Helpful Opinion.

[OpenClose]

Ehh, I've kinda learned to like almost every kind of girl except a "basic" girl.

I'd say playing coy or passive irritates me more than being outspoken or take-charge. I don't like when women just sort of use femininity to take the easy way out on things. I'd rather her have agency if it means she's a little abrasive than to have that "save me and provide for me" mentality.

And this can range from the conservative girl who can climb a tree and shoot a gun, to the liberal girl who wants to fight for justice of the under-served. Though the latter will probably like ME more.

Note that this is separate from being shy. I don't mind shy girls. And this isn't implying she out all the time. I'm perfectly fine to hang around the house too.


But ON the abrasive side, if I have to go around like I have to "make up for" or "apologize for" being a man, I've been there before and it is toxic af. Had to walk on eggshells to cater to her every insecurity and accept blame for it, while she was incapable of admitting fault and dismissing my own insecurities as "ultimately irrelevant in a patriarchy". She was rejected by a guy once. I was falsely accused of sexual assault by girls with a grudge. I get to be disturbed by that.

On the opposite side, other girls might like masculinity, but then demand it all the damned time as though I'm not a normal human. Similar eggshells.

If being me is okay with you, I'm probably okay with you.

[nofilterhonesty]

I hate when A Lady acts entitled or arrogant. There is no bigger turn off than a lady who is not humble in person. Egotist Lady's very much tend to be uncomfortable to be around and i have no desire to even hear the self absorbed speak. Another attitude I dislike is a lady who displays her sex as some form of empowerment. I like people with equality based thought systems and do not like bigotry. To me non equality based belief systems in Lady's are immature and reckless. We should be looking towards a future of equality not reversed hierarchy.

[Finchie40]

Become selfish and only really think about themselves , a girl will be inseparable with you for awhile , limit Your time spending with friends change you for her benefit then all of a sudden she makes friends and you don’t become a priority to her anymore , she starts needing space from you I and it’s ok for her To go out with her friends , she starts excluding you like you don’t matter , her selfishness goes into full effect and double standards come into play and that’s when you kick the bitch to the curb cuz all she cares about is her self

[IceCreamSandwich]

I hate when they won't cause a scene, even if they're in danger. As if it's worse for you to look unladylike or have a few people dislike you than for you to potentially get robbed or assaulted. Wtf. I know some guys do this too but I've only seen or heard it a few times personally, and it's always been girls. Very irritating when they could yell or fight back or run and that would probably make it stop.

Also when they do really high-pitched dramatic voices like anime girls. There's some specific tone that just pisses me off really bad. I never liked much anime.

[MysticDevice]

When they claim harrassment just for showing interest in them and then complain that guys don't "make the first move" anymore.
(More of a generalized stereotype than anything)

When they say they aren't hungry and then proceed to eat your food.

When they get upset and pout cause you didn't do something that they didn't actually ask you to do and then still won't tell you what it is when you ask what's up.

A specific example, this actually happened:
My girlfriend was over and started to do the dishes after dinner, I said "no that's ok, I'll take care those"

Her "nope, its fine. I'll do them"
Me "alright then, you need some help?"
Her "nope, I'll take care of it"
Me " ooook..."
Hour later
Us *disagrees on something*
Her "well I did your dishes for you"
Me 😑 *visible "are you kidding" look*

[OpenClose]

Yeah these are frustrating. The first one especially makes me twitch a bit, because I have a lot of problems making a move when I also feel like she would consider it harassment. I hate being forced into that double-bind, and that she generally isn't expected to lift a finger to reciprocate.

The "It's OK" stuff I've learned to understand. For guys, if we say "It's nothing" with a stressed tone, we KNOW they are stressed, but act only one what they actually say, assuming they don't want us prying into something personal.

For women, it's kind of the opposite. If they say "it's fine" in a stressed tone, it's the nonverbal cues that she is actually trying to communicate, and she kinda wants you to butt in.

With the dishes stuff, I think that has more to do with using hindsight. In the moment she was probably relatively OK doing them at the time. But then when it comes up later, and it bothers her in hindsight.

Though I did date a girl once who was fairly manipulative. She was the type to insist that SHE do the dishes, but more for the express purpose of using this against me later. SHE will do the dishes so that if we argue later, she can change the subject to my lack of dish-doing. She also did stuff like using my insecurities to gaslight me. It was frustrating stuff and left me messed up for a while. Makes it hard to be vulnerable like that.

[MysticDevice]

With the dishes yes, my girlfriend was manipulative too. Its hard to convey over text but the way she said it I knew she was gonna bring it up later so I kept on her not to worry about it. She did that basically every day so after a month I told her I was done with it.

[OpenClose]

Ah yup, say no more. It's definitely in the vibe and hard to convey via text.

[captain_voidwalker]

That they don't accept responsibility for thier actions. Good case in point is this trans athletes thing going around. I got to hear for decades how keeping trans people out of mens sports was bigoted and made me a terrible person. But now that women's sports is getting effected ohh lord have mercy its the end of the world that trans people want to play in women's sports. I'm laughing at it thinking ohhh you ladies thought you got to pick and choose what part of the metaphorical ass you get to eat... nope you get to eat the whole ass and smile while you do it or your a bigot.

[ShadezMcgee]

They are never upfront with why they are mad or angry or what they want. It is all subtlety and hints that they expect us to put together and figure out like a choose your own adventure game and when you get it wrong it gets worse.

Ladies, for the love of everything that is holy, just be upfront with what the hell is up. We don't want to have to feel as though we pulling teeth or deciphering swahili for god knows how long until you decide to say something.

[Calixar]

Pillow piles
Hairspray
Worrying about how they look
Worrying about how I look
Worrying about how the house looks
Asking me what I’m going to order
I could go on… and, for the record, I’m awkward and obnoxious, so I’m happy to tolerate these things. 😆

[crossdressingrihno]

When they say they want to go somewhere and yet give absolutely no indication as to where they want to go and then when you ask them where do you want to go they're just like oh I don't know I just want to go somewhere it's like come on and then sometimes you might even give a suggestion in there like oh I don't want to go there it's like you have somewhere you want to go something sparked this just tell me where do you want to go going places is not difficult

[crossdressingrihno]

No here's an infamous one

This one hasn't happened to myself but I know it does happen because I've seen it happen like in person and I've heard stories about it and stuff like that

You go to a drive-thru and you ask her what she wants to eat and she says something like oh I'll just have a burger and then after you get your food the first thing she does is eat all your fries and like half your food and it's like come on do you not understand what you are doing you were eating MY food

To all the females out there who read this and who snag their boyfriend's food

I want you to know that men have to eat a lot more than you do we use up significantly more calories and have to eat a lot more than you do and sure are there some men out there who live off of very little food and yet maintain healthiness? Yes there are my step brother is one of them but he is an exception to the rule so don't go stealing your boyfriend's food instead be honest and just say I want to eat fries and burgers and stuff like that cuz it honestly gets painful to hear about oh yeah I ordered some food and my girlfriend ate like half of it

[crossdressingrihno]

These things are annoying sure but obviously you're not going to hate a woman over it like that be Petty even for me

[admles]

Guy: Do you want something to eat babe?

Girl: No thanks.

Guy: You sure? I'll buy you something.

Girl: No, I'm fine.

Guy: *comes back with food*

Girl: *Starts to pick at his food*

Irritates me no end!

That and snooping.

[AviatorTom]

Most women will blame others for their own mistakes, rather than take responsibility for the mistakes they make. That drives me nuts, especially considering that very often, I'm the one that gets blamed.

[lightnite]

I might get some criticism for this, but honesty is the best policy: for me, it's when females that I might've at first been interested by, turn from ladies into, well, ladettes.

In other words, women who may as well behave as brash as guys on the male sporting team, are just not my kind of ladies to date, you know?

I guess i am a little old fashioned. No critics all at once please, form an orderly line please. 👍

[Phoenix-gb]

Say they want someone who is kind, caring, considerate, [insert all the other positive personality traits they list] and then make sure that person feels completely unwanted.

[Nxtawm]

I thought it’d be random things like how women leave hair everywhere but wow reading those replies, most if not all of you sound awful especially those of you who get irritated at a women for just speaking. If all guys are like this, I’d gladly be single forever.

[Calixar]

Hold out for special.
Be the best YOU can be.

[humanearth]

When they are mad and the say everything is fine.

Fine is code for your in deep fucking shit

Another one

You know they're mad
You ask why their mad.
Thats when they say
I shouldn't have to tell you.

[Bluemax]

Some are cruel. But then again some men are cruel. Cruelty isn't particular to women. Most women are not cruel. Most men are not cruel.

[ADFSDF1996]

Expect us to make the first move (flirt) even though they are interested.

[bamesjond0069]

Any and all things feminism.

Women acting like men.

Women who talk about stuff they don't understand.

Sluts and whores.

How basically every woman is a progressive activist with an agenda.

[Anonymous]

Not taking accountability for their actions, using their periods as justification to do stupid shit.

[Paul09]

They just sit there looking pretty making men do all the work. They wear tons of makeup, bleach, and all that fake stuff. Anything to change their look completely. Smoke cigarettes

[grega239]

The whole " we want equality". thing.

Maybe its just me, but it comes across as totally naive.

Like , really, you want to be treated like a man? Really?

[MuizC]

I seldom encounter irritation from a girl but one that stood out for me is when they treat waiters down bad

[TrueConfection]

My husband and I were what we considered very good friends with another couple. We spent most of our time with them, maybe our best friends. Until...
We were out to dinner several times and we noticed she'd get snippy with wait staff. The last straw for us was when she lost her patience over a side of sauce that didn't arrive in a timely manner and she started snapping her fingers at random servers and bussers. Haven't seen them in 5 years.

[Anonymous]

Believe they are “strong and independent”
Think they can do what men do
play victim
dress in nothing and then call men pigs for looking at them sexually.

[Creampiekarl420]

Calling out exit as a ride by it or just trying to tell me how to drive

[TrillXHippy]

Complains about me doing something but does the exact same thing
Leads guys on by playing games

[dolemite89]

how their words and their actions are rarely the same

[Anonymous]

Her acting like she cares about me, then suddenly disappear from my life, leaving me with my feelings.

[Anonymous]

seek attention while aggressively attacking anyone who points it out while they lie about it.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Talks too much.
Is stupid.
Is dirty.
Is rude.
Too shy.
Has a very muscular body. 🤢

[Anonymous]

Show off their beautiful smooth skinned body 👅👁️👁️

[Heartache0405]

Pretty much everything

[libsaretards]

Not say how they truly feel.

[TheFlak38]

the list is too long to type it here.

[20yearsolder]

I don't have a soul

[Slim57]

Don't think rationally

[Anonymous]

Having to talk to them before I can fuck them.

[Anonymous]

Muscular women is disgusting 🤢